Indlela yokufundisa ingane ukubhala ebhodweni?

Wonke owesifazane ubhekene nenkinga yokufundisa ingane ukuthi ibhale ebhodweni. Futhi uma uqala ukuzwa kwabanye ukuthi ingane yakho iqalile ukubhala ebhodweni ezinyangeni ezinhlanu, uqala ukucabanga ukuthi ungumama omubi, ukuthi ulahlekelwe okuningi, futhi ngeke ubuyele emuva. Kodwa uma usondela kahle le nkinga, konke kungashintshwa. Into esemqoka ukukwenza kahle. Iqiniso liwukuthi lapho ingane ifuna ukupenda lapho ifuna khona, akenzanga ngenhloso, kungukuthi ukhona ngendlela engazi lutho. Uvele engaqapheli ukuthi uyaphikisana nokucindezela kwakho.

Umthetho obaluleke kakhulu ukuthi awuphoqeleli ingane ukuba ibhale ebhodweni. Ungabangeli imizwelo emibi nokumelana kwengane yakho. Uma ucindezela ingane futhi umbonise ukungaphelelwa isineke, ulungisa nje isimo sengqondo esibi kule nqubo. Futhi emva kwalokho ngeke ukwazi ukubhekana nale nkinga. Uma ubona ukuthi ingane ayifuni futhi iphikisana nokubhala ebhodweni, ungamenze akwenze. Vele uzame enye isikhathi, kodwa ngendlela ehlukile.

Kumele umbonise ukuthi ungakwenza kanjani wena ngokwakho. Phela, izingane zizama njalo ukukopisha abantu abadala. Ingane yakho kufanele ibone ukuthi uyayenza kanjani. Futhi ngenxa yesifiso somntwana, ingane izokwenza into yakhe siqu. Ungasho amagama anjengokuthi, isibonelo, kufanele futhi kufanele abe.

Zama ukudlala ngebhodlela. Ibhodlela kufanele ibangele ukubonakala okuhle kuphela. Ungenza isikhangiso kusuka ebhodweni bese uzama ukushaya isikhungo phambi kwengane. Ungenza futhi imikhumbi ephepheni bese uwafaka embizeni efanayo. Ibhodlela kufanele libe lula ngaphandle kwe-navorovav. Ngakho-ke, ingane izophazanyiswa enjongweni esemqoka yale mibhodwe.

Uma ingane yakho ngemuva kwamasonto amabili engafuni ukuya lapho futhi iphikisana njalo, vele ushintshe indawo. Isibonelo, zama endlini yokugezela. Ingane yakho ingase ibe nesimo sengqondo esingalungile ngokubhekwa ebhodweni. Futhi angakwazi ukuphatha ezinye izihloko kahle kakhulu.

Uma ingane yakho ingaphezu kweminyaka emithathu ubudala, zama ukuthenga ibhayisikili kuye. Bese uthi isihlalo sebhayisikili asifuni ukumanzi nhlobo.

Zama ukuthokozisa ingane ngembiza. Futhi, ungatshela ingane ukuthi uzoyibhala maduzane, njengoba kwenza umama nobaba.

Yiba nesineke futhi uzobona ukuthi ingane yakho izobhala ebhodweni.