Ezweni kukhona ubudlelwano obuhlukahlukene phakathi kwabantu. Futhi enye yezinto eziyinhloko uthando kanye nobungane. Ubungane buhlukaniswe izinhlobo ezintathu eziyinhloko: ubungane phakathi kwabantu, ubuhlobo phakathi kwabesifazane, nobuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane. Abahlakaniphile bathi, ubungane buveza uthando. Ubungane buyinto ekhanyayo kakhulu emhlabeni. Ihlanganisa abantu futhi ibenze babe namandla futhi banamandla emoyeni. Enye yemibuzo ejabulisayo ingabe ubuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane?
Mhlawumbe kukhona, kuphela okungajwayelekile. Ubuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane ngeke bube khona, ngaphandle uma unesithakazelo kumadoda, okusho okwesibhakabhaka, kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi umuntu onjalo angabizwa ngokuthi uyindoda, akunjalo yini owesifazane oqhamuka owesifazane? Futhi uma unomngane we-orientation engavumelani, khona-ke uzokutshela iqiniso lokuthi ubukeka ubumnandi, futhi angeke akutshele ukuncoma, ukukudonsa ukuba ulale. Futhi ubungane obuphakathi kwendoda nowesifazane ngeke bube khona, ngoba omunye wezinhlangothi uzozizwa ezinye imizwa engaphezu komusa.
Futhi ngisho noma ngabe ubungane bukhona phakathi kokuphikisa okubili, khona-ke kungagcina ngomshado. Futhi akulungile yini ukushada nomngane kunomthandi. Phela, ubungane buqinile kakhulu kunokuthanda. Uthando lungabonakala ngokuzumayo futhi nje ngokungazelelwe luphele, futhi ubungane buhlala isikhathi eside. Ngangivame ukukholelwa ubungane phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane, futhi ekugcineni umuntu abe ohlakaniphile futhi ehlakaniphile futhi aqale ukuqonda izinto eziningi. Futhi uma unomngane, khona-ke wazi ukuthi yena noma unemizwa. Futhi kungani kufanele bahlanganise lezi ziphikisana ezimbili.
Kuyini ubuhlobo phakathi kwabesifazane? Ubuhlobo phakathi kwabesifazane kuyinani elikhulu lokuncenga, elihle ngamanga, futhi lifafazwe ngobuqili, okungenani ngakho kubhekwa. Mhlawumbe kukhona ubungane bangempela phakathi kwabesifazane, kodwa kuphela kuma-movie noma kuma-serials abesifazane abashoyo. Kodwa khumbula ukuthi ngubani ozokwabelana nawe ngesikhatsi esifanele kuwe, ozogubungela emuva, uma udinga ukuqamba amanga nomuntu owake wahlala ubusuku nentombazane ezohamba nawe eklabhu noma azokwabelana kabusha iresiphi - umngane. Ubuhlobo obuningi besifazane bungabhekwa njengokuxhumana kwabantu abanentshisekelo ezimweni ezithile, okuhlala isikhathi eside. Uma leli cala linyamalalala, ukuxhumana kwabantu abanentshisekelo kuya ku-zero. Kodwa ngemva kwakho konke, kwakukhona othintana naye, kwakukhona ubungane. Ubungani bungase buphele, sithina. Ebudeni bokuphila, ngezinye izikhathi sikhohlwa ngabangane, nakuba ngaleso sikhathi bazohlale bekhumbuza njalo. Mhlawumbe, ubungane besifazane kuphela busekelwe kulo mgomo, kodwa ubungane ngokuvamile.
Futhi yini ubungane besilisa? Uthando lwebhola nabesifazane, ukungenakuzivikela ngaphambi kokucabanga kwebesifazane nobuhle kanye nesidingo sokuqinisekisa ukuthi abantu bayabaluleka. Ukuhamba ngezintaba nokuzingela, ukuhleba ngabesifazane kanye ne-quirks yabo nokukhuluma ngezimoto nemidlalo. Konke lokhu kukhona nabangane besifazane - ukuthenga izinkampani, ukuhleba ngamadoda kanye nobuthakathaka babo, ukukhuluma ngabalingisi bocansi kanye nezindlela ezintsha zokulwa imibimbi. Kukholelwa ukuthi ubungane besilisa ubuhlobo obuqine kakhulu emhlabeni. Futhi owesifazane uyindoda enhle kakhulu, ngokusekelwe ebuqili. Kuphela lapha kumngane wesilisa, naye, unamaphutha akhe. Uma umngane ecasula umngane kumngane wakhe, noma emphonsa esimweni esingathandeki - ingabe lokhu kuthathwa njengabangane beqiniso? Yebo, ebuhlotsheni besifazane, nakho konke lokhu - ukuhleka, izingxoxo ngemuva komngane, ukukhishwa kwendoda nentombi. Ubuhlobo besilisa abufani nobungane besifazane, futhi akukho nhlobo yalezi zinhlobo zobungane obhekwa njengcono kunezinye.
Ubungane kungenye into ebuhlungu yokuphila. Sonke siphupha ngobuhlobo obuqinile obunokwethenjelwa, bomngane ongasoze asishiya enkingeni, kodwa asikwazi yini konke lokhu? Ubuhlobo obunjalo bukhona kuphela kuma-movie, njengothando lwangempela. Kodwa umona nokukhwabanisa kuboniswa futhi ku-cinema, futhi zikhona ekuphileni. Njengoba umhawu nokukhwabanisa kukhona empilweni, kusho ukuthi ubungane beqiniso nothando yiyona ndawo ekuphileni kwethu. Yebo, zikhona, kuphela okudingeka ukholwe futhi ufune, futhi okudingekayo kuyotholakala uma usebenzisa umzamo othile. Abangane abalungile, futhi ubungane nabo, abantu bahlukile, ngezinkinga zabo kanye neziphambeko, ngakho akudingeki ulinde ubungane obuhle. Awudingi ukuhlehlisa ubungane, ngoba okulindelekile ngeke kuhambisane neqiniso.
Awunayo i-ruble eyikhulu, kodwa unabangane abangamakhulu. Ngikholelwa, abangane bangabi yizicucu eziyikhulu, uNkulunkulu makabe, uma kukhona umngane oyedwa. Namuhla kunzima ukuthola abangane. Izwe lethu likhonjiswe ngamanga nokukhohlisa, okuphindiwe. Esikhathini sethu, abantu, abanamahloni, bayathokozelana, ngaphansi kobuhlobo obungcwele. Phatha abantu ngobuqotho, futhi bazosabela kuwe ngendlela efanayo. Funa ubungane bangempela futhi ukholwe kuyo.