Kodwa obani abangamabhilidi? Wonke umuntu ubeka incazelo yakhe kulo mqondo. Kwabanye, i-bitch yiyona owesifazane odonsa amandla nemali evela kumuntu, abanye babheka ukuthi uyindoda ekhangayo, kanti abanye bacabanga ukuthi lo mqondo uyingqayizivele, ukuthi uhlelwe yinto elula, abesifazane besilisa. Ngakho kuthiwani lokhu kuyiqiniso? Eqinisweni, akekho kubo.
Ukuze ube yi-bitch yangempela ezweni lamanje, owesifazane kufanele ngokuqinisekile abe smart, enhle, kufanele akwazi ukuthandana nabantu: kokubili amadoda nabesifazane. I-Bitch ihlukaniswa yiyona engeyona eyingqayizivele futhi iyingqayizivele kukho konke, iyayizonda zonke izinhlobo zezinkolelo, inomusa omuhle, imvelo yobuciko, ukubukeka okuyingqayizivele nokuhle kakhulu. Ngendlela "i-bitch" ungakhetha ukufana okunjalo ngokuthi "owesifazane wangempela" noma "owesifazane". Umqondo we-bitch uhlanganisa ubuholi, ikhono lokuzivikela. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, owesifazane uhlala engumfazi ngazo zonke izindlela, uyabathanda abathandekayo bakhe nabantu, angaba ngumama omuhle, kodwa uzimele futhi unelisekile. I-bitch yangempela ayivumeli ukuzihlambalaza, iyohlala iwuzuza. Kodwa wonke owesifazane kufanele aqonde ukuthi ukuba yi-bitch akusho ukuthi ubambe ikhanda lakho phezulu bese ubheka wonke umuntu enecala emehlweni akho, "ngeke abone umyeni wakhe", kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kunzima kangakanani. I-bitch yangempela ayike ibuyekeze i-bitch.
Uzobizwa ngokuthi owesifazane wangempela, othandekayo, ongaqondakali, oyifunayo, othenda, obaluleke kakhulu. Kulabo besifazane ukuthi amadoda ashiya "ama-saws", okuthiwa ama-bastards. Ukuba yi-bitch kuhlale kunenzuzo. Wonke umuntu kufanele aqonde ukuthi izwe lanamuhla linonya, ukuthi kukhona ukuncintisana okukhulu kuyo yonke indawo ekuphileni. Ukuqala ngomgqeni esitolo bese uphela ngempilo yomndeni ojabulisayo. Ezweni lanamuhla, owesifazane kufanele alawule zonke izici zokuphila kwakhe, ukuze azuze konke, ukuqapha konke ngesikhathi esisodwa, ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa isithunzi sakhe, kufanele enze konke. Wonke owesifazane ufuna indoda ukuba imdumise, abaphathi bahlonishwa futhi bayakwazisa, futhi abangane bakhe babeqonda futhi bazinikele. Kodwa lokhu kungafinyelelwa kanjani?
Ungasheshi. Uma othile ecabanga ukuthi ukuba yi-bitch yangempela ezweni lanamuhla kulula, khona-ke uphutha ngokujulile. Ingabe ufuna ukufakazela uthando lomuntu? Kodwa abathengi bamadoda abahlonishwa nje kuphela, kodwa bayazondwa. Uma owesifazane engazi ukuthi angathula kanjani futhi angene, akayena uhlaka. I-bitch yangempela ingenza umuntu akholelwe esifisweni sakhe sokumlandela. Owesifazane unesidingo ezine kuphela: ukuthanda, ukuthandwa, ukukhulisa izingane zakhe nokuzizwa kangcono kangcono. Nokho, kukho konke lokhu, amadoda adingekayo. Kungenxa yabo futhi kuhloswe ngendlela yokuziphatha "i-bitch". Kodwa-ke, uma utshela indoda ukuthi owesifazane wakhe uyinhlanzi, khona-ke angeke nje akholwe, kodwa uzothukuthela ngobuqotho.
Inkosikazi yakhe enhle, ethandekayo nomnene ingaba kanjani i-bitch? Amadoda nje adidanisa ogoist or a fool with bitch, okuyinto ezandleni ezithandekayo zabo. I-bitch yangempela ehlala ezweni lanamuhla iyaqonda ukuthi ihlale ingumgcini wezindlu, futhi ithatha ukuqokwa kwayo njengomthombo wokuzijabulisa komuntu. Ubufazi bakhe bunamandla kunokuzethemba, futhi uhlonipha abantu. Owesifazane wangempela uyazi ukuthi ngokunikeza uthando, angathola lutho ngokubuyisela. I-bitch yangempela owesifazane omuhle onendoda ekhoneni ngalinye uzofakazela ukuthi ungowesifazane ohlakaniphile kangakanani.