Njengoba sesibonile ngenhla, le ncwadi yokuphupha ihluke kakhulu kwabanye kusukela ekuqalisweni kwayo nasekuphelelweni kwayo kwamaphupho. Bekulapha, uFrud wanquma, ukusebenzisa ikhono lakhe le-psychoanalysis ekuchazeni amaphupho. Ngendlela, ukuhlukaniswa kwamaphupho, ebhukwini lakhe lephupho, kubonakala ngokusekelwe ezinkampanini zethu ezingaphakathi, okuyizinto esingakwazi, ngisho nakancane, aziqapheli. Lapha kuyoba kufanelekile ukwengeza lokho eduze komntwana wase Freudian, okungukuthi incwadi yokuphupha, kukhona umbono wokuthi unomzimba oqondile wobulili kokuqukethwe kwakhe. Abaningi bambheka njengento encane yokubuka iphupho.
Umhumushi we-Freud wokuhumusha amaphupho ufaka incazelo enjalo yamaphupho equkethe ukuthi zonke amaphupho ethu zihlobo lokugcwaliseka kwezifiso zethu ezingenakuqondisisa ngqo. Futhi konke kwenzeka ngokuqondile ezingeni elingenakuqhathaniswa lokuzicabangela kokucabanga. UFrud wayekholelwa ukuthi ngesikhathi sephupho ebuchosheni bethu kukhona ukuhlaziywa kwemicabango nezinto ezibukwayo, ekugcineni kufakwe ezinye izimpawu nezinto esiziphupha zona.
Inkolelo kaFreud yokulala ithi iphupho liwuphawu oluveza iqiniso lethu, ngoba kukhona okunye, ngesikhathi esifanayo akubonakali nhlobo. I-psyche yomuntu kanye nomugqa wayo wokugcizelela ucatshangelwa yizici ezihlukahlukene zengqondo kanye nezici zezwe elizungezile. Yilabo abaphoqa ukugcwalisa amaphupho ethu.
Futhi, ekugcineni, ake sibheke ukuhumusha okumbalwa kwalokho esikuvame ukukuphupha ngakho, usebenzisa incwadi yethu yokuphupha: ukuchazwa kwamaphupho ngokusho kukaFreud.
Wedding
Umshado womunye wukuthi izindaba ezinhle kuwe noma othandekayo bakho. Uma ushada ngqo ephusheni, kufanele ulindele ukumangala okhethekile.
Fata
Uma owesifazane oshadile ezama isembozo sakhe, lindela into engavamile futhi entsha kusuka empilweni ezokwenza ngqo emndenini wakho. Uma ngabe iphupho lentombazane engashadile, lindela ukumazana omusha nomuntu. Uma-ke, wena, ephusheni, ubona isigqubuthelo esiqothukile, lindela ukukhohlisa ngokushesha kusuka ohlangothini lomunye.
Ulwandle
Ubona ulwandle oluzolile - ngokusobala awunalo ukuthula kwengqondo, kodwa luzoshintsha maduze futhi uzothola. Amaphupho abuka ulwandle kusuka kude kusho ukuthi uvame ukucabanga ngokusondelana, futhi ucabange ukuthi ubulili buyinto engenakutholakali futhi kude kakhulu. Ubhukuda olwandle - kusho ukuthi uthola konke okuvela ekuphileni ongayifisa. Zama ukungena olwandle olunamandla kakhulu ukulinda ubulili obungenakulibaleka futhi obuthandayo. Ukuhlambalaza umuntu - khona-ke lo muntu ucela usizo lwakho, ukhokhele ngokukhethekile lokhu. Uma uhamba ephusheni lakho futhi ugibele ngaphansi kwamanzi - kufanele uyeke ukumba ngalokho akukukhathazi nhlobo.
Isigaxa
Owesifazane wabona isicabucabu ephusheni, ngakho-ke uyaziqhenya ukuthi uyedwa ngaphandle komuntu.
I-Rooster
Ukuzwa isikhala - lindele ukukhohliswa ngakwesokunene sakho. Vele ubone iqhude - esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, wenze iphutha empilweni.
Ukubeletha
Uma uphupha ukuthi ubeletha, ulungele ukukhulelwa, futhi uma uthatha ukulethwa, lindele ukuthi maduzane uzohlangabezana nokuhle kwakho.
Inhlanzi
Thatha izinhlanzi ephusheni - awukwazi ukujabulela ucansi ngoba awukwazi ukuphumula futhi ukhohlwe zonke izinkinga zakho. Zama ukunqoba lokhu. Ukubamba izinhlanzi nokuhlala ngaphandle kokubamba - kubonisa ukuthi ulawulwa yinkimbinkimbi eqondile ehambisana nokwesaba ukwenza iphutha ngesikhathi socansi.
Insizwa
Uma insizwa ihle futhi ikhangele ngokwanele - kuyiphupho ukuthi ushintshe umsebenzi wakho, noma kunjalo, uthole umvuzo wezezimali womsebenzi owenziwe.
Uma, ephusheni lakho, ubanga insizwa noma ukhulume naye - lokhu kubonisa ukuthi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, uzofuna ukuguqula ngokubili impilo yakho yomuntu siqu neyomsebenzi.
Izitebhisi
Kuwuphawu lokuphila kwakho. Uma uphupha ukuthi ukhuphuka izitebhisi phezulu, ke esikhathini esizayo, kufanele unake abantu abasondelene nawe.
Uma ephusheni, wehla esiteji - lindele ukudumazeka kumuntu osondelene nawe.
Lapho, ubona indoda emi phezulu phezulu izitebhisi, futhi uyamazi - kusho ukuthi ufuna ukwazi lo muntu kakhulu, kodwa nje ungalokothi ukwenze.
Uhla ezitebhisi phansi - lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uzifunayo ngokwakho. Ngamanye amazwi, u-maximalist ophelele, yingakho ungatholi ubuhlobo namadoda.
Umlilo
Amaphupho umlilo - lindela ukuthi ngokushesha uzothandana nomuntu ozokufanisa kuzo zonke izimo zokuphila.
Kissing
Ubusiso obunxushunxushu esithembisweni sephupho wena umhlangano nendoda engenayo imali, ngamanye amazwi, u-Alfonso. Uma othile ewanga, futhi ubukela lokhu, yazi ukuthi maduzane uzoba phakathi kwesenzakalo esingathandeki.
Ngakho sabala amaphupho ajwayelekile kakhulu. Yiqiniso, lokhu kuyinto encane kunazo zonke ezimele ebhokisini lephupho likaFreud. Ungabi ovilapha kakhulu ukubuka futhi uthole okuthile okusha nokumangalisayo. Futhi ngenxa yencazelo yalo, uzokwazi ngokwakho, izinkimbinkimbi zakho, izifiso, izici zobulili futhi ukwesaba kangcono kakhulu. Khumbula ukuthi amaphupho ayimpilo yethu yobusuku obuthakathaka, egcwele incazelo ejulile. Ngakho-ke, ukuhumusha kwabo okulungile futhi okuhlakaniphile akuyona into kodwa kuyisici ngaphambi kokuxazulula izidingo nezidingo zakho eziyisisekelo.