Njalo ukhuthaze
"Uzokwazi ukwakha i-piramidi!" Wayiyintombazane enhle kunazo zonke ezitholakala emaseni! Lona umdwebo wakho! Yeka ohlakaniphileyo! "- Amazwi okuqinisa impilo nokukhuthaza ingane kubalulekile nje, ikakhulukazi uma ezwa ezindebeni zabazali. Lokhu kusekela kuzokusiza ukuba umuntu ahlale ehloniphekile Uzokwazi ukukhuthaza, ukuziqhenya.Izikhwepha zethonya lezwi lakho kumntanami likhulu kangangokuthi likwazi ukuphakamisa ukuzethemba, ngisho nokusebenzisa izimfanelo ezingekho khona. "Yeka ukuthi ubuhle obunjani!" - kusho u-m Akumangalisi ukuthi ngemva kweminyaka engamashumi amabili intombazane enezilinganiso ezingavumelani kahle nalezi zimodeli azihlukumezi izinkimbinkimbi, azizigqoki ngokudla, kodwa, ngokuzethemba kwakhe ukungahambi kahle, kunomphumela omuhle kobulili obuhlukile.Lokhu kusho ukufakwa okulungile, unikezwe ebuntwaneni!
Uma kunesidingo, usizo
Ingabe unomuzwa wokuthi ingane ayizihloniphi ngokwanele? Mnike umsebenzi lapho angakwazi ukuziveza khona ngangokunokwenzeka futhi, ngaleyo ndlela, azikhulise. Kumuntu othile umdlalo wezemidlalo, omunye - ukucula, ukudansa, ukudweba. Lezi zimpumelelo zizoqashelwa: zizohlonishwa futhi zidunyiswe. Impendulo enhle evela kulesi sigaba nayo "ibhaliwe" kwi-subcortex nasemsebenzini wezinga owaziwayo noma ongenamqondo wokuhlonipha.
Ukudumisa kaningi
Isizathu salokhu singatholakala njalo! Vumela ukuthi umsebenzi uxazululwe ngendlela engafanele, ujabule ukuthi ingane isayine kanjani iphepha lakhe ngokucophelela. Ukuphawula amaphutha, ngokushesha ugcizelele impumelelo yengane. Naka yonke impumelelo yengane. Isikhathi se "self grandiose" siya eminyakeni engu-6-7 futhi singasuswa esikhundleni sesigaba sokungabaza nokwesaba. Umntwana uzama, akhulume ulimi oludala, abe nekhono futhi aphumelele ezingeni lakhe. Kodwa lokhu akusebenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngezikhathi ezinjalo ingane idinga ukusekelwa, kungenjalo ibeka ingozi ekukhuleni njenge "olahlekile".
Ungaba kanjani umncane kakhulu ukucasula ingane yakho
Yebo, izingane zingakwazi (futhi kanjani!) Finyelela ezindlini zakho. Kodwa ukukhathazeka kwakho nokungajabuli kwakha isu lokuphila kwengane lokulahlekelwa nokunciphisa izinga lokuhlonipha. Vimbela kaningi: uthatha umoya omningi, ubambe umoya wakho bese ubala ku-10 - indlela ye-banal, kodwa isebenza kahle. Kodwa khumbula ukuthi ekudumiseni udinga ukwazi isilinganiso. Emntwaneni okhuliswe emkhathini we-hyperopeak nokuphakanyiswa okuqhubekayo kokufaneleka kwakhe, ukulungelelwa kwezinkinga kuyathinteka, futhi ngokuphindaphindiwe, ukuzethemba okuzenzekelayo nokuzibiza ngokweqile emphakathini kwakha. Isimiso sokuphila "Nginguye ongcono kakhulu (okungcono kakhulu), kufanele ngibe nonke!" ayiholeli empumelelweni.
Ukugxeka kancane
Izakhiwo zezingane zingenye yezinto ezibalulekile ezithinta ukuthuthukiswa komuntu wengane. Ngaphansi kokubheka okungenasidingo okungenasidingo, bangakwazi ukuguquka ekuziphatheni. Ingane evame ukuhlukunyezwa ngokugxekwa, noma kuze kube phakade iyolahlekelwa ukuzethemba nokuzethemba, noma iyobonisa ukuthi iyakufanele kuwe konke ukuphila kwakhe. Ikhetho lokuqala ligcwele ukungabi nesinyathelo sokuzibophezela nokuntuleka kokuzibophezela esikhathini esizayo. Ukhetho lwesibili lungalungile ngoba intando nokuzimisela ukufeza imigomo ayisekelwa umqondo wokwaneliseka. Futhi noma yikuphi impumelelo, kubonakala sengathi lokhu akwanele, udinga ukuthola umphumela obaluleke kakhulu. "Ukunqoba umncintiswano wezingoma kazwelonke akusizi lutho, impumelelo yomhlaba wonke iyabaluleka!", "Akwanele ukuphonsa ama-kilogram ayi-5, kudinga amanye angama-12 ukuba abukeke evamile," "Ngingumqondisi wenkampani, futhi kuyini ukusetshenziswa? thola ... "Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi i-hypercompensation futhi kuholela ekuqedeni ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Yingakho kubalulekile ukulinganisela ukuzihlonipha komuntu ebuntwaneni ukuze isifiso sakhe sokuphumelela singabi ne-atrophy kanye ne "ukudubula" kwamazwi akho anganaki ngenhlonipho futhi akuphendukeli ukukhishwa kwangempela.
Ungalokothi uvumele ukuthi ungadaluki
Yenza ingane yakho ibe yisibonelo sokuzihlonipha okukhulu. Phela, izibonelo zabazali zithathelwana kakhulu. Uma uvumela ukuxabana nomntanakho, bonisa ukungahloniphi loshade naye, umkhwekazi, izihlobo nabantu abashadile (futhi ngokuphambene nalokho - uma konke lokhu kubonisa ngokuqondene nawe), khona-ke kuyoba nzima ukuba ingane yakho ifunde izifundo zokuzihlonipha, noma yini oyisho kuyo. Ngakho-ke, zivimbele wena nomndeni wakho ukuphakamisa izwi lakho ezinganeni, funa ukuxolisa ngokungahloniphi, ungavumeli umbono wakho unganakwa. Khona-ke kuyoba lula ukuba ingane isebenze ngokufanisa nawe futhi iqaphele lokho okushiwo into enjengokuzethemba.