Isikhumbuzo seminyaka engamashumi amahlanu sokuphila komshado wesibhangqwana ibizwa ngokuthi umshado wegolide. Le ndlela ende yokuphila, ngoba bathandana abantu babhekana nosizi, injabulo, ukudumala, kodwa bakwazi ukugcina imizwa yabo. Uthando oluqotho kuphela olukwazi ukubhekana nakho konke ubunzima, ubunzima novivinyo. Futhi phakathi nayo yonke le minyaka, izinhliziyo ezimbili zothando, ukubamba izandla ngokuqinile, ukuya kulolu suku olukhunjulwayo, olwenzeka kanye kuphela ekuphileni. Yingakho ngalolu suku lo mbuzo wokuthi ukugubha umshado wegolide kuphakanyiswa kanjani ngaphambi kwabashadile, ngoba lokhu kuwubufakazi beqiniso bokuthi kukhona uthando.
Ukuqeqeshwa okujwayelekile
Ukugubha izindleko zomshado zegolide ngokulungiselela kahle lolu suku.
Kubalulekile ukunquma kusengaphambili indawo lapho kuyogubha khona umkhosi. Kuhle ukugubha lesi sikhumbuzo, isibonelo, esitolo sokudlela. Lolu khetho luzosiza ukugwema izinkinga eziningi.
Konke okukhathazayo mayelana neholide kuyadingeka ukwabelana phakathi kwezingane nabazukulu bejubili.
Khona-ke kubalulekile ukwenza uhlu lwamenywa abamenywe bese uthumela izimemo. Lokhu kufanele kwenziwe amasonto amabili kuya kwamathathu ngaphambi komkhosi. Ngaphambi kokugcina uhlele idili, ungakhohlwa ukucacisa inani eliqondile labantu abamenyiwe, ngoba kwenzeka ukuthi ngesizathu esithile noma ezinye izivakashi ngeke zikwazi ukuza.
Khumbula ukuthi ekulungiseleleni umkhosi kufanelekile ukuphawula yonke imininingwane nemininingwane. Ngaphambi kwesikhathi, vumela imenyu nokulandelana kokukhonza izitsha.
Ungakhohlwa ngemihlobiso: izimbali, amabhaluni, tinsel, amaphosta anezithombe zabenzi bokugubha. Imibala eyinhloko ehambisana nomshado wegolide igolide nebomvu. Emibala enjalo kubalulekile ukuma indwangu yetafula, ama-napkins, amakhethini.
Khetha isimo esimnandi sokugubha usuku lokugcina. Lesi simo kufanele sihlanganise ukuzijabulisa okuningi, kokubili ngejubili, nezivakashi, izihlobo (imidlalo, imincintiswano, imiklomelo kanye nezipho).
Njengomthetho, izingane zinikeza imihlobiso yegolide noma izinto ezenziwe ngegolide emshadweni wegolide, ngokuvamile ziveza uthando lwabo ngabo.
Imibala yokugubha
Ukugubha iminyaka engama-50 yomshado womshado, ungamema umphathi wezinsizakalo noma uphinde uthathe imisebenzi yakhe nomuntu osondelene nomndeni. Into esemqoka ukuthi wayejabule, ehlakaniphile futhi wayenomqondo omuhle kakhulu wokuhlekisa. Imincintiswano kumele icabange kusengaphambili. Isibonelo, ungabhala imibuzo engalindelekile ezinqabeni ezincane zephepha, bese uzifakela amabhaluni, uphinde uzinikele "kulabo abasanda kushada". Labo, nabo, kufanele badonsa lezo balls bese baphendula imibuzo. Ngandlela-thile, imibuzo eningi izobuthinta ebusheni bayo (isibonelo, isembatho somlobokazi ngosuku lokuqala, lapho bahlangane khona, ukuthi bangani nokuthi bayokwenza kanjani isiphakamiso, njll.), Kuyoba mnandi kakhulu ngejubili ukukhumbula intsha yakhe.
Izivakashi zingaphathiswa ukulungiselela i-chastooshkas eshukumisayo, ekhuluma indaba yama-heroes '. Noma ungabahambisa nje efomini elishicilelwe kakade. Khona-ke, ngesikhathi sokubiza amagama okugcoba ngamazwi "ngokubabaza", umuntu kufanele ahlabelele, ehlabeleleni, ehlabelela amavesi amnandi kubo bonke. Futhi, ungathola i-karaoke ngomshado wegolide. Vumela umbhangqwana e-duet ahlabelele izingoma zakhe ezizithandayo.
Umshado wegolide kufanele uhlanganise ukuthuthukiswa kwezemidlalo, okumele kunikelwe ukunakwa okukhethekile. Khetha kusuka kuzivakashi noma izihlobo zabantu ababili abanobuciko nabanobuqotho (okungcono indoda nowesifazane) futhi uthembele ukuthi badlale impilo ephila yamaqhawe. Kuyoba kuhle ukukhombisa usuku lomshado. Ngikholelwa, kuyoba mnandi kakhulu futhi ngizogubha "abasanda kushada" ibe yizinkumbulo ezinhle kakhulu emhlabeni. Ngandlela-thile, ezinye izivakashi zomkhosi zingakwazi ukuhlola izikebhe ezibonwayo, zengezelele ngokuphawula okukhulu.
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