Ungakwazi ukumboza itafula ngaphambi kokuba izivakashi zakho zifike, noma lapho izivakashi zakho zihlangana ndawonye futhi zithola isikhathi sokukwazi omunye nomunye eduze. Kodwa kunoma yikuphi, ungacindezeli izivakashi zakho ukuba zilinde isikhathi eside. Bangayamukela, njengokungathi awunalutho olulungiselelwe ukufika kwabo. Ukuhlangabezana nezivakashi ngokusheshisa, ungakhohlwa ukuthi yiphi igumbi manje enesitolo sokugcina okwesikhashana sezinto ozamile ukuzihlanza ukufika kwazo. Ungavala igumbi bese utshela izivakashi zakho ukuthi wena
ungakhumbuli ukuthi ungabeka kuphi ukhiye.
Uma izivakashi zikuvakashela okokuqala, kufanele ubakhombise indlu yakho, ukuze bazizwe bekhululekile ukuhlala ekhaya.
Uma izivakashi zakho zingazi, kufanele zizethule, kodwa ngemuva kokuthi wonke umuntu alungele. Ukuqomisana kufanele kwenzeke egumbini lokuphumula, lapho konke kuhlanganisiwe. Amahostela kufanele ameme wonke umuntu etafuleni futhi ameme ukuba akhethe ukuhlala kuphi. Ungatshele isivakashi indawo yakhe, kufanele akhethe yena lapho eyokhululeka futhi ekhululekile.
Sivame ukuhlinzeka ngezivakashi ze-slippers, akudingekile ukwenza lokhu, kubhekwe ifomu elibi futhi alihambisani nemithetho yokuziphatha. Uma isivakashi sakho sifuna ukuya endlini yakho emahlathini, angathatha nabo.
Uma kungazelelwe ungafuni ukuphuza namuhla futhi wanquma ukuphumula isibindi sakho, awudingi ukutshela izivakashi zakho ngezinkinga zakho nokuthi kungani ungafuni ukuwaphuza namuhla ngilazi. Vele uthi awuphuzi namuhla. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi usadingeka ukuba uthole ngemuva kwesondo. Kunezizathu eziningi ongacabanga ngazo ngesimenywa sakho ngenkathi ungabacasuli futhi ungazilayishi ngezinkinga zakho.
Kumele ukhumbule ukuthi namuhla kufanele unikeze wonke umuntu ukunakekelwa okungafanele futhi ungacasuli noma ubani. Ukuthi le ndlela yabashiya kuphela ukubonakala okuhle. Yiba nenhlonipho futhi umomotheka kaningi. Emva kokuxhumana nezivakashi ngokumomotheka, unabo ngokwakho.
Uma unalolu suku, lapho izivakashi zifika kuwe, isimo sengqondo esibi, zama ukufihla imizwa yakho nganoma iyiphi indlela. Izivakashi zakho akufanele zizwe lokhu ngoba lokhu kungavimbela ukuphumula kwabo. Njalo unesithakazelo kulokho okunye okudingayo. Yiba nomusa futhi uzwela izihambi.
Ungalokothi uthintane nezivakashi zakho ukuthi yisikhathi sokuba ashiye. Bangacasulwa kakhulu ngalokhu futhi ngeke besasvakashela. Ngesikhathi esifanayo bazokutshela abanye indlela owakubonisa ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuhoxiswa okungenzeka. Linda kuze izivakashi zifune ukushiya indlu yakho noma indlu.
Ziphathe ngokuqondene nabanye futhi wamukele ngokubuyisela ukufudumala nokuhlonipha kuphela.