Sebenzisa emphumela wokugcina
Ngokusho kukaFeng Shui, uma unesimo sengqondo esihle, umgomo uzoba lula ukufezekisa. Uma ucabanga umphumela wokugcina womgomo wakho emininingwaneni encane kunazo zonke, kuze kube nokuzwa okuthinta inhliziyo nokuphunga, khona-ke impumelelo kuwe iqinisekiswe ngokuqinisekile. Ngokuhlela ubulili bomntwana ongakazalwa, cabanga ukuthi wazalwa, futhi wazalwa ubulili obufunayo. Awukwazi yini ukwethula umntwana osanda kuzalwa noma ukwethula ingane eneminyaka eyisithupha ubudala, unyaka noma unyaka nengxenye? Kodwa ungazitholi nje ingane engaphezu kweminyaka emine ubudala. Ubuza ukuthi kungani? Kulula ukuchaza - ingane endala, ithenda elithakazelisayo elincane esizama ukulizwa. Isibonelo, yini eyokunika injabulo enkulu - isinyathelo sokuqala somntwana noma insimbi yokuqala esikoleni? Ngokuqinisekile uthe isinyathelo sokuqala somntwana, hhayi ukuthi ingane iya ebangeni lokuqala. Ngendlela, inqubo yokuzindla izokusiza ukuba umelele kangcono umgomo wakho.
Nansi indlela elula yokuzindla, ezokusiza ukuthi uhlele ubulili bomntwana nentuthuko yayo efanele ngaphambi kokuzalwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, le ndlela yokuzindla ngeke isize umama wesikhathi esizayo kuphela, kodwa futhi nobaba ukuqala uxhumano lwamandla nezingane ezizayo.
Ukuzindla ngombhangqwana
Hlala phansi, uguqe imilenze ngaphansi kwakhe noma endaweni ye-lotus. Indoda kumele ihlale ngemuva kwakho, ifake izandla zakho esiswini sakho futhi ucabange ukuthi amandla ageleza angena kanjani esiswini sezandla zakhe. Ake ucabange ukuthi ukufudumala ngaphansi kwezandla zakhe kuvuselela kanjani, kuphazamise kancane futhi kukhululeke kakhulu. Kufanele ugxile futhi uzizwe ngokwakho, ukuthi amandla amadoda ageleza kanjani kuwe futhi uvikelwe yilo mandla. Manje bobabili bakhululekile ngokukhululekile futhi bacabanga ukuthi usemfudumeni omhlophe wokukhanya ovela endaweni ethile ngenhla. Zama ukuzwa isikhumba ngalokhu kukhanya, uzizwe ufudumele (ungashisi) futhi ukukhanya kwethenda kungena ngaphansi kwesikhumba. Khipha ngangokunokwenzeka ingane yakho yesikhathi esizayo. Ngendlela, ungamelwa ingane ezayo kanye nendoda yakho. Kusukela esimweni sokuzindla, umuntu kufanele ashiye ngokucophelela futhi kancane kancane. Lokhu kuyadingeka ukuze amasimu akho enamandla akhishwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma ushiya leli zwe masinyane, amasimu kagesi angeke abonise lokho owazizwa ngesikhathi sokuzindla. Lolu hlobo lokuzindla luzosiza ukwenza ubuhlobo bakho buhlanganiswe ngokwengeziwe.
Khetha usuku lokukhulelwa
Namuhla, kunezindlela eziningi zokuhlela ubulili bomntwana. Kodwa kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi akekho enye yezindlela ezinganikezi isiqiniseko esingu-100%, ngakho-ke mhlawumbe uhlasele umntwana uzozalwa ngobulili obuhlukile, hhayi lowo owafunayo. Kuyafaneleka ukuphawula ukuthi indlela yokuhlela phansi ingane ngokuvumelana nezimfundiso zasendulo ze-feng shui akuyona isiqinisekiso esingu-100% sokuzalwa kwengane yesimiso esihleliwe, amakhosi aseShayina we-feng shui aqinisekisa ukuthi konke kusekelwe ekukholweni. Kuvela ukuthi uma ungaqiniseki ngalokho okwenzayo, khona-ke cishe ngeke ufezekise umgomo wakho. Vumelana, kukhona iqiniso kulokhu.
Ngenyanga
Ungase futhi uhlele ucansi lomntwana ngezinyanga. Ukuze usebenzise le ndlela, udinga ukuhlanganisa itafula elincane, ukuthatha izimiso ezithile.
| 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6th | I-7 | I-8 | 9th | 10 | 11 | I-12 | |
| 21 | 22 | 23 | 24 | 25 | 26 | 27 | 28 | 29 | 30 | 31 | 32 | 33 |
1-12 inyanga yonyaka (igama lenyanga nguJanuwari-Disemba). Iminyaka engamashumi amabili nanye (kusibonelo sethu) - kungakanani iminyaka yomama ozayo (bhala iminyaka egcwele) .22, 23 ... 33 - lena inani elitholwa ngokungeza iminyaka nenyanga. Ngokudala itafula elinjalo, ungakwazi ukwandisa kungenzeka intombazane noma umfana emndenini wakho. Ithuba lokubeletha kwentombazane landa, uma phakathi nokudlula kwenyanga yenyanga unenani elilodwa. Uma phakathi kokufaka inombolo engavamile, ithuba lokuzalwa komfana landa. Kodwa kudingeke sikhumbule ukuthi le ndlela nayo ingenasisekelo.
Nsuku zonke
Kukhona enye indlela eqhubekayo kubo bonke, esiza ngamathuba amaningi okuhlela ucansi olufunayo wengane - ukuhlela ngezinsuku zokukhulelwa.
Uma ingane ikhulelwa ngo-4-16 (ngisho nezinsuku) ngosuku lokuthutha-esikhathini, khona-ke amathuba okuba umntwana wesilisa akhule. Uma ingane ikhulelwe ngo-5-15 (izinsuku ezingaqondakali) ngosuku ngemuva kokuya esikhathini, ithuba lokubeletha umntwana wesifazane landa.
Amathiphu wenkosi ye-Feng Shui
Amakhosi aseShayina we-feng shui abelana ngamathiphu alula angakwazi ukuhlela ubulili obufunayo wengane engakazalwa:
- Ukuze ubelethe intombazane uyalulekwa ukuba ahambe elele eningizimu. Uma ufuna umfana, udinga ukulala enhloko enyakatho.
- Ukuphupha kwentombazane? Ngemuva kwezinsuku ezingu-7-14 ngaphambi komklamo ohlongozwayo, udla inhlanzi encane nenyama. Lesi seluleko kufanele silandelwe ku-trimester yokuqala yokukhulelwa. Akudingekile ukukhipha ngokuphelele le mikhiqizo ekudleni, kwanele ukunquma ukusetshenziswa kwazo izikhathi ezingu-2-3. Hamba ukudla okwemifino.
- Uma uphupha ngomfana, kuzomele udle inyama, kodwa kungaphansi kwemingcele efanele. Ungakhohlwa ukwengeza izinhlanzi zasolwandle nezinhlanzi ekudleni. Uma ufuna umfana, kungcono ukwenqabe imikhiqizo yefulawa (uma kungenzeka kungenzeka). Yidla "ngendlela entsha" akufanele wena kuphela, le ndoda kufanele futhi iqale ukudla ngokusho kwesifiso sakho socansi lomntwana.
- Faka isibalo somntwana (umfana noma intombazane, kuye ngokuthi ubulili obufunayo) endaweni "yezingane". Indawo "yezingane" ingasentshonalanga yefulethi. Isibalo somntwana kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi sihlanzeke futhi akufanele sibonakale sinesizungu - sincintisana nokukhulelwa, ukukhulelwa. Beka eceleni kwesithombe sedoli, ungakwazi ngisho nasesitokisini sokudlala noma ku-stroller. Eyesaba ukuthi awukwazi kahle ukubeka isibalo somntwana, khona-ke indawo "izingane" ingenziwa isebenze ngombala omhlophe.
- Indawo "yomndeni" akufanele ishiywe ngaphandle kokunakekelwa noma.
Wonke amathiphu anikezwe kulesi sihloko kufanele ayenze enkingeni, khona-ke amathuba okuba nomphumela oyifunayo uyoba ngaphezulu!