Ngokwezibalo, iningi lokulimala okubulalayo livela ebuntwaneni, lapho ingane ingenalutho futhi ingamnakekeli akuyona into elula. Abazali abasha bayaqiniseka ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi kwenzeke kunoma ubani, kodwa hhayi ngezinhlanzi zabo ezithandayo. Ukholo luyinto enhle kakhulu, kepha impilo inenkani ithi ukuhlukumezeka kungumphumela wephutha lomzali, ukungazi lutho, hhayi nje ingozi! Nazi izibonelo.
Umama uthatha umntwana embhedeni wakhe. Ngangilindile, ngiphupha mina "ngicindezelekile" ngizibophezele futhi ngivimbela umoya wami nomzimba wami. Lapho evuka, umntwana wayesevele eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ... Ngokuvamile, ukuthatha umntwana, umama umnika ukudlala ngesikhwama seplastiki, futhi "uyashesha" ekhishini ngomzuzu. Le "minutochki" yanele ukwenza umuntu ongenangqondo abeke iphakethe ekhanda lakhe noma ucindezele ifilimu ebusweni bakhe. Imiphumela ingaba yidabukisa kakhulu. Ngokuvamile ukulimala ezinyangeni zokuqala komntwana kubandakanya ukuwa. Umama ushiya ngokuthula ingane yakhe etafuleni elishintshayo (noma embhedeni) - Ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi akakwazi ukujika, uhlale phansi, uhambe. Kodwa izolo ngangingazi ukuthi kanjani, kodwa namuhla ngafunda! Ngakho wazama ... Futhi wayephansi. Yebo, uma konke kuphelela kuphela ngemivimbo nemivimbo, kodwa ngokuvamile ngisho nezinsana zinezimo zokulimala ngengqondo.
Ngeshwa, ngezinye izikhathi omama bashiya ingane ngesihlalo sabakhubazekile bengalindelwe, bekholelwa ukuthi uphephile. Bakhohlwa ukuthi emva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha umntwana usengakwazi ukuzibamba, avuke futhi aphume. Uma ngabe ingane yakho esekhulile ingakwazi ukukhahlela noma "ukunyathela" emgodini, bese ususa lapho kuzo zonke izihlalo, amabhokisi nezinye izinto ongakhuphuka ngazo bese uxhomeke ekuthukeni. Futhi ngokujwayelekile, umnyango wokuvolonti kufanele ube sehongeni, futhi ezingeni elingenakutholakala kulowo onyane.
Ngemuva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha, izingane sezivele zikhuthele, kancane kancane - futhi zizoqala ukuhamba. Kodwa ngenkathi behamba bengalondekile, babamba konke okuzungezile. Zama ukususa zonke izinto ezingadingekile nezingozi ezivela endleleni yomhambi osemusha! Okumangalisa ukuthi, izingane zonyaka wokuqala wokuphila zivame ukubhekana nokushisa, okubangelwa umama onothando. Emnyangweni oshisayo, izingane zibanjwa, ezathengwa ngamanzi ashisayo. Ingane encane ingane, isikhumba sayo siba nemiphumela emibi kakhulu yokushisa okuphezulu. Kukhona amacala uma omama engeza ngokuzenzakalelayo i-potassium permanganate ebhodini noma ngephutha le-turpentine.
Izingane emva konyaka zivame ukubhidliza ubisi olushisayo, itiye. Ubuso bomsindo kanye nomlomo womntwana we-mucosa ungathola ukuphulukiswa okungalungile. Odokotela ngokwabo bavame ukweluleka ukuba baqhubekele le nqubo emakhazeni. Owesifazane othandekayo, othandekayo othandekayo! Thenga idivaysi ekhethekile yokwehlisa umoya - kuzokubiza kancane kunokwelapha ingane ekushiseni!
Ebusika, lapho kubanda, abazali bafaka i-pad yokushisa ebhokisini lomntwana. Nasi indaba ebusweni: umfana oneminyaka eyishumi ubudala uhlushwa u-enuresis. Ngandlela-thile ngesikhathi sokusebenzisa ibhodlela elishisayo yamanzi ucingo luvaliwe ngokuzumayo, ingane yayikhiphe amandla. Futhi kangaki, uma ushisa ingane, ingabe ubeka umbukisi eduze kombhede? Kusukela ekushiseni okushisayo, izindiza zingabamba kalula umlilo, futhi ingane izoshisa.
Ngemuva konyaka, izingane ziyanqamuka, zonke izikhathi zihamba. Abadala bazama ukuwayeka ngamazwi anonya: "Suka!", "Ungazitholi!", "Ungadonsi emlonyeni wakho!" Konke akusizi ngalutho. Ngempela, ukunyakaza, ukuhlonishwa kwezwe kufakwe ngendlela efanayo yendoda encane. Kuhlelwe ukuthi uthathe noma yini elala kabi, idonsela emlonyeni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amazinyo akhe aqoshiwe! Yingakho i-stomatitis ivame kakhulu kule minyaka, okwenza izinyembezi ezibabayo nomkhuhlane omkhulu. Ukuze ugweme lezi zinkinga, geza amathoyizi, ubaphathe ngesisombululo se-2% se-soda. Futhi izinsini ezivuthayo azilimazi ukukhipha imishanguzo ngesisombululo noma isixazululo esifanayo se-drugx ye-drugx. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ingane ingadonsela emlonyeni wayo, hhayi kuphela ithoyizi, kodwa iphilisi elihle. Imithi ngendlela yama-dragee aqhakazile afana nokudla nabantwana abadala. Ngezinye izikhathi ubuthi kungase kube nzima ukubona ngokushesha. Ngadla, isibonelo, ingane ye-elenium noma i-clonidine futhi yayilale. Uvuka kuphela? Ngakho uma umntwana wakho ethule, elele kakhulu, akafuni ukuvuka - qaphelani, akangqongqozi enkingeni yomnyango? Amaphesenti angaphezu kuka-50% azo zonke izinhlungu ezenziwe ubuthi yizingane eminyakeni yokuqala yokuphila. Ngokuyinhloko itholakala ngemithi. Futhi iningi loomama liyavuma ukuthi ukungabakhathaleli kwabo kungenxa yokugxekwa kwabo.
Awuziqondi njalo ukudonsa umntwana oneminyaka emibili ubudala, okwenza ukuba abe neurosis. Noma yiziphi izicelo zokungazithinti izibuko zikagogo, imithi nokunye okunjalo akusho lutho kumntwana walesi sizukulwane. Ungathukutheleli ize! Kungcono ukumvikele ezingozini ezingenzeka. Lokhu kusebenza hhayi kuphela emimese ekhaliphile, amafoloko, kodwa futhi nezinkinobho ezincane, ukudonsa izinaliti, kanye nezinto, ukungafaki okungaholela ekufeni. Kule ndaba, amaqanda ayimayiprolethi ayingozi-amangale, uma kukhona imininingwane encane kakhulu efihliwe yamathoyizi. Uma into yangaphandle ingene emgodleni wengane, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abazali bangadideki, into elula ukuyiphakamisa imilenze ibheke phezulu bese iyigwedeza kancane. Ngokuvamile lokhu kwanele ukwenza into yangaphandle ivele.
Usizo lokuqala
Bonke abadala kufanele bakwazi ukuhlinzeka ngosizo lokuqala uma kwenzeka ukulimala kanye nezingozi ezinganeni. Kodwa-ke, ngezikhathi zokukhathazeka, bavame ukulahlekelwa, besaba. Kuyafaneleka ukukhumbula izinto ezingavamile kakhulu. Ngezivunguvungu, sebenzisa ngokushesha endaweni engathintekayo kubanda (iqhwa, imali, ingongolo yensimbi kusuka esiqandisini). Uma isonto lilimazekile, bese uphakamisa umlenze, faka i-platen ngaphansi kwalo ukuze kungabi nokuvuvukala. Uma usola ukuphuka, ungavumeli umntwana ashukumise futhi asheshe kudokotela.
Uma kwenzeka ukushisa, masinyane beka ukuxhumana ngokushisa. Isibonelo, izinyawo ezinwetshiwe - zisuse amasokisi, zipholile ukushisa ngamanzi abandayo, ungadonsa utshwala, i-vodka ekukhanyeni, ukuze ukuphuma kwawo kukhishwe ukushisa okukhulu. Ungasebenzisi amafutha noma amafutha emahoreni wokuqala - enza ifilimu, evimbela ukushisa okwedlulele ekushiyeni (ukushisa kuyomisa). Uma ukushisa kunzima, shayela i-ambulensi ngokushesha. Kungcono ukuthi bonke babe neKhabhinethi yezokwelapha ekhaya i-aerosol kusukela ekushiseni "i-Panthenol" noma "i-Olesol", akuzona ezishibhile kodwa eziphumelelayo.
Uma amehlo omntwana ngenkathi ukulungiswa endlini enesiqholo, kudingeka uwahlwithe ngokushesha, kodwa hhayi ngamanzi, kodwa ngesisombululo esicacile soshukela.
Uma usola ukuthi unobuthi, unike ingane yakho amanzi amaningi futhi i-activated charcoal (ngisho nengane ingakwazi ukunikeza amaphilisi amahlanu, ngaphambi kokuwachofoza nokuqedwa emanzini). Uma le poisoning engeyona i-acids noma i-alkali, ungaqala ukuhlanza, ubangele ukuhlanza (ukucindezela emmpandeni wolimi). Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubuthi obuncane bungabonakala kanjani, ungakhathazeki, ezinye zezinyosi sezivele zingene emzimbeni, ngakho-ke ubiza i-ambulensi ngokuphuthumayo.
Izingane ezindala, ngeshwa, nazo ziyakwazi ukulimala. Ukuzihlama kusuka e-swing, ucingo, esihlahleni, ngokuvamile bavusa amandla abo. Ukulimala, izingozi phakathi kwezingane eminyakeni engu-5-10 kakhulu. Futhi, ngokuvamile, zimbi kakhulu kunezo ezincane. Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuletha umqondo onempilo wokuzivikela ingane kusukela eminyakeni yokuqala. Bonisa futhi umtshele okuholela ekunganaki.