"Girl O'Key"
Ngesinye isikhathi ngifuna ukuzibuza ukuthi kungani okuthiwa "amantombazane e-O'Kay" namanje ekhala, ngubani, naphezu kwazo zonke izinkinga zokuphila, angasuki ebusweni babo ukumomotheka okumangalisa? Lokhu kungaholela ekuqaliseni. Ngeke kube lokhu? Kodwa cha, konke kwenzeka kanjena nje. Futhi yisiphi isizathu esilandelayo uma wonke umuntu ehlala enhle futhi engalokothi akhononde nganoma yini? Ngokuvamile, abantu abanjalo banamathele ngokugcwele futhi bamamukela bonke abanentshiseko enkulu. Udinga iseluleko - uthola ngaso sonke isikhathi, udinga lonke usizo - awusoze wenqatshwa, kufanele ukhulume, uzohlale ulalele njalo njalo. Ngamagama, umuntu onjalo akakwazi ukukhala, ngoba uhlale ehlelekile. Kodwa empeleni lapha konke kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu kunokuba kubonakale ekuboneni kuqala: isici esivelele se "intombazane O'Key" yikhono lakhe lokwenza ubuso obuhle ngisho kumdlalo omubi.
Izinyembezi zivelaphi?
Sonke siyazi ukuthi noma yimuphi umdlalo, ngisho nokuhle kakhulu, unamathuba okudlala. Yingakho ngenxa yalesi sizathu, ukubonakaliswa okungapheli kwamazinyo abo angamashumi amathathu nambili kuwo wonke amazinga angamakhulu amathathu namashumi ayisithupha akufanele kube isizathu sokuthi ukhohlwe ngomqondo ojwayelekile wesilinganiso. Ukungaphumeleli lo mzwelo, imiphumela ngeke ithathe isikhathi eside ukulinda.
Futhi imiphumela ingahluka:
Ukuzikhohlisa
Into ewukuthi ngisho noma uchitha usuku okungenani amahora ambalwa kuzo zonke izinhlobo zama-mantra asendulo anjengokuthi: "Nginguye ongcono kakhulu," "Nginguye ongcono kakhulu," "akekho omunye omuhle noma ojabule kunami", "Namuhla ngikhula", "Sashka ekugcineni "futhi" umqhubi awuyona into ngaphandle kwesiphambeko sesibuko "futhi ngenxa yalokho" Nginakho konke okulungile, "ngakho-ke ngeke ube mncane, umholo uzohlala ube mncane, zonke izibuko zomhlaba zizohlala zingenasici futhi t . Kukhona izinto eziningi emhlabeni, lapho, ngokuzisola okukhulu, ukuqeqesha ngokuzenzakalela akukwazi ukuthinteka ngenxa yezizathu zomgomo, futhi lokhu kufanele kukhunjulwe ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Futhi ukugqoka imaski a-la "Ngingokweshokoledi ogcwele," ngandlela-thile noma ezinye senza sengathi asikho iqiniso eliyinjongo. Lokhu kuholela ekungalingani okuphelele kwangaphakathi nangaphandle. Futhi lokhu, okokuqala, kuyindlela eqondile yokuphazamiseka kwemizwa kanye nezinzwa. Futhi lokhu akuyona into ehlekisa, kuyisifo.
Ukukopela abanye
Yilokho okukhulunywe ngakho ekuqaleni kwesihloko sethu. Yiqiniso, uzobe uzolile futhi ubeke inhloko kumuntu onjalo, kodwa ngalokhu awusoze uthole ukushaqeka kwamasiko amancane. Uma ungalokothi ususe imaski yenjabulo enkulu, ngakho-ke, lapho izimpisi ziza zigijima, akekho oyokukholelwa, futhi konke ngenxa yokuthi umndeni wakho nabangani bakho abakwazi ukuzizwa beza kuwe ngokuqondile. Nasi isiphetho sokuthi izinyembezi zakho zibhekwa njengezinhlanzi, ama-athomu futhi zimbi nakakhulu - "kusukela ekungabikho kahle kwezingubo." Ngamanye amazwi, abaningi bangase bacabange ukuthi umsindo omkhulu uphakanyiswa ngenxa yokuthi usanda kuba nesithukuthezi!
Gwema Ukuyiqiniso
Ukuzisola okukhulu, ngenxa yeHollywood smile kuphela wena ngeke ukwazi ukuhlala emphefumulweni wakho ukuthula nokuthula, futhi ukungabi nalutho kugcwalise imiphetho. Ukugqoka isisindo secebo "Ngikwazi ukunqoba wonke umuntu" awukwazi ukuxazulula izinkinga nhlobo, futhi njengokungathi uyinqe eyesabekayo, zifihle ikhanda lakho.
Ukungamukeleki kwabanye
Ngomzuzu owodwa ophelele, ngokumomotheka kwangaphandle, uzobe uhlakulela i-amanthropy: "Yisiphi abantu abangenangqondo nabangacabangeliyo, akubonakali kubo, ukuthi ngizizwa kanjani kabi? Yebo, ngifile lapha nhlobo, kodwa abakhathaleli! Ukumomotheka, njengokungathi akukho okwenzekile! Ngiyazonda bonke! "Yiqiniso, abaqapheli. Futhi kungani kufanele bakwenze?
Ukwenqaba ngabanye
Ezweni kukhona inkulumo ethi: "Uma ufuna abantu bakuthande, ungabatshele ngenjabulo yakho!". Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kudabukisayo kangakanani, kukhona iqiniso kulo mzekeliso. Futhi iqiniso lale cishe cishe engamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye, ngokusekelwe ekulinganeni kwethu okuncane. Ngokwengqondo yethu, sithanda inhlupheko futhi singathembi ukuthi akukho nkinga.
Futhi konke lokhu kwenzeka ezingeni lezakhi zofuzo. Yiqiniso, lokhu akuwona umthetho, kodwa unelungelo lokukhona.
Umlutha kakhulu
Uyazi ukuthi ubizwa ngokuthi "u-tranquilizer ohambahambayo," futhi uma ukwandisa ngomqondo ophezulu wokuzibophezela, awukwazi ukukhohlisa lokho okulindelwe ngabanye abaza kuwe ukuze bakuthembele kuwe. Ngisho noma ngabe ithemba lakho lide liphelile ngokwanele, usachubeka uveza isimo sengqondo esijabulisayo kukho konke, ngoba angeke kube yinye. Lapha unombuthano ononya, okwesikhashana oqala ukudala umuzwa wokucasuka futhi ungavumeli ithemba lakho lenze njengezinyoni ze-phoenix.
Yini inhliziyo engayenza ukuzola?
Yiqiniso, akufanele ucasuke, ngoba empilweni yethu, ngaphandle komnyama nomhlophe, kunemibala eminingi ehlukene, ngakho-ke, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi siphikisa kanjani ukungathembeki komkhuba, "Angikudingi ukuba ngikubheke. Lokhu kuziphatha kunama-pluses ayo:
Ingxenye yokuzithiba engakaze yonakaliswe nanoma ubani
Ekugcineni, isizathu esiyinhloko sokuzizwa kwakho okungalungile kwamanje angeke kube yinkinga yomhlaba wonke (isibonelo, isichotho), kodwa into engaphansi komhlaba futhi esesabekayo. Kungaba uhlobo oluthile lwenkinga encane. Isibonelo, isibonelo, amasokisi ekhethiweyo wakho, wasakazeka kusukela ngoMsombuluko kulo lonke indlu. Lokhu akude nesichotho, kodwa nokho, uzovuma, ngaphandle komkhuba ongenamathela "wale nkathazo sizokwazi ukusinda", futhi ngesikhathi esinzima kuyoba nzima kakhulu ukubulala abathembekile bakho ekufeni.
Ukuba khona kobukhona benembeza akukaze kubangele muntu.
Ake sicabange ngamaminithi ambalwa ngabantu abasizungezile. I-Imtak inzima, futhi nayo inenkinga, kanti abanye banesimo esinjalo ukuthi kungcono ukubeka ikhanda lakho ngokushesha! Ake sizame ukuwaqonda futhi siwazwele. Futhi ngeke sigcwalise izisulu zethu emahlombe ethu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, iningi lazo ungumfokazi ngokuphelele.
Ngithethelele mina, kodwa manje ngizokhuluma ngokulingana.
Yonke imicabango iyinhlangano futhi lokhu kuyiqiniso. Futhi ziyimpahla ngokwemvelo. Uqiniseka ngokuqinile ukuthi unakho konke (kukhona manje futhi kuzoba khona esikhathini esizayo) ngokugcwele - futhi ngandlela-thile uhlala uqobo. Vumela, Yebo, hhayi ngokushesha.
Uyahamba ngobuso obuyinkimbinkimbi? Lindela inkinga! Akuyona enye yezinqumo ezinhle kakhulu futhi ezinengqondo kakhulu ukuzizibophezela ngokobuqiniso bethu obubi kusengabhubhane kuzo zonke izilonda ezingokwengqondo.
Uthethelelwe iqiniso elivamile? Khona - ukuvinjelwa kubi kakhulu:
Umuntu omomothekayo uyakhangeka kakhulu. Futhi ngisho noyedwa angasho ngokuphepha ukuthi lihle kakhulu. Ngiyavuma, ikakhulukazi ukulingana komuntu onjalo kunengqondo kakhulu kunokuba umphikisi wakhe obonwayo uhlale enwetshiwe egazini ngenxa yokungabi nabulungisa kokuphila nezindebe zakhe. Futhi okungathí sina (lokhu akusho ukuthi kuhlanjululwe) isibonakaliso sobuso njalo kubonakala imibimbi ngaphambi kwesikhathi, nakanjani nathi nawe akudingekile.
Ngakho-ke, akuyona into eyingozi ukumamatheka nhlobo, hhayi impilo, hhayi ukubukeka. Ngakho smile, ngoba nje uhle!