Ukuntula kwamandla wesifazane oqinile

Emphakathini wanamuhla, lapho abesifazane abanomdlandla omkhulu bekulungele ukuthatha amahlombe abo emithwaleni yonke imithwalo yemfanelo yobulili obunamandla. Futhi abantu abanesifiso esikhulu cishe bonke bayakwazi ukukhombisa ukuthi bayabonakala kanjani, indaba ejwayelekile ethinta ubuthakathaka besifazane ibangela ukuphikisana okuningi nokungalindelekile. Mhlawumbe yingakho abesifazane abaningi bayeka ukuhlushwa futhi bebuthakathaka, besaba ukubonisa ubuthakathaka babo. Kodwa, ungasho lokho, kodwa ubuthakathaka besifazane oqinile njalo bazizwisa ...

Isilinganiso senkosikazi yensimbi, njengombuso, sakhiwe kusukela ebuntwaneni. Abafazi abanjalo bangokuqala kubo bonke abaholi kukho konke. Owesifazane oqinile uhlale ekwazi ukwenza izinqumo ezithintekayo ngokwakhe, ukuthola indlela yokuphuma kunoma yisiphi isimo esinzima noma inkinga, ukuba abe nesibopho sezenzo zakhe futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kubi kangakanani emphefumulweni wakhe, ngaso sonke isikhathi uhamba ngokuphila nekhanda lakhe eliphakeme. Ngendlela, laba besifazane cishe bayakwazi ukuphumelela kukho konke. Yini ongayisho ngokuphila kwabo siqu, lapho ngokuvamile owesifazane onjalo enesizungu, futhi ubuhlobo bakhe nobulili obuqinile buyohluleka. Konke lokhu kungenxa yokuthi abesifazane abanjalo bafuna kakhulu. Ibuye ihlukane nabo hhayi kuphela abaqeqeshi abangakwazi, kodwa ngisho nabangane abasondelene nabo. Kodwa-ke, naphezu kwakho konke, owesifazane oqinile uye wayesejwayele ukwenza umsebenzi oqinile ngokomzimba futhi kungenzeka kakhulu ukuba agqoke izicathulo zesifazane ngokubheka izinwele. Ngelinye igama, owesifazane wesimanje angase ayeke ukugibela egodlop bese efaka indlu evuthayo ... Ngakho-ke la madoda asevele esenike le ndoda isiqalo sekhanda, kodwa ngokuqondene nobuthakathaka besifazane onamandla, basenza bazizwa bezwa.

Izinkolelo zokuphila komfazi oqinile.

Ngokuvamile abesifazane abanamandla kuzo zonke izindawo zabo eziseduze, futhi abasondelene kuphela, ababonanga neze izibonelo bona balandele. Kungenzeka ukuthi lokhu kubangelwa ukuthi kuyo yonke indlela yokuphila nokubunjwa kobuntu "be-Iron Lady", akekho owamisa nje, kodwa waze wawufaka embusweni, kusukela emagumbini ngokwabo. Yingakho owesifazane onjalo enziwa kuzo zonke izici zokuphila futhi akaziboni njengalingana nhlobo. Futhi akekho onelungelo lokubeka izithiyo endleleni eya ekupheleleni kwayo. Yingakho umoya onamandla wesifazane futhi wakha isimiso sokuphila, ukuthi uyisibonelo sokulingisa nokunye. Kodwa lokhu konke kuletha ukulungiswa kwakhe empilweni yakhe, kufanele nje aphile emithethweni yakhe siqu, yena ngokwakhe engenalo ilungelo lokuphula.

Zama ngesithombe somuntu.

Ngokuvamile, ukuzama isithombe somuntu, nazo zonke izimfanelo zesilisa, owesifazane akaqapheli ukuthi uyaba owesifazane. Phakathi kwezinye izinto, laba besifazane babheka amadoda anamehlo ahluke kakhulu, ezingeni elingenakuqaphela ukuthi uba "obuthakathaka." Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, owesifazane onamandla kunazo zonke empilweni yokuqala ngumsebenzi, inkululeko ephelele nokuzimela. Yiqiniso, lokhu akusho ukuthinteka isifiso sesifazane sokufisa ukuzwa owesilisa onamandla ehlombe eceleni kwayo, kodwa ukuthinta lobu buthakathaka kusho ukuzwa umncintiswano eduze kwakho, okungukuthi, indoda. Phela, owesifazane oqinile konke ukuphila kwakhe kwakulwela ukubonisa amadoda konke ukuzimela nokuqina kwabo. Yingakho, ukuzama lezi zimfanelo zamadoda, owesifazane wesaba ukulahlekelwa ukuzimela kwakhe.

Indoda yowesifazane oqinile.

Indoda, njengombuso, i-knight enamandla, enenjongo futhi enesibindi ngehhashi elimhlophe. Kulo mfanekiso ukuthi owesifazane oyedwa oyedwa ufuna ukubonakala ensimini enamandla, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo uyethusa umqondo wokuthi isoka elinjalo lizoqina kunalo. Ngakho-ke, abesifazane abanjalo, kaningi kunalokho, bakhetha okuphambene ngqo nalabo bantu. Ngendlela, lokhu kukhetha kowesifazane akusizi ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi ujabule, kodwa indlovukazi, ngakho-ke kuyajabulisa.

Ukubuthakathaka kwendoda enamandla.

Amadoda aswelekile, noma kunjalo, angase azwakale, njengemognet eheha abesifazane abanjalo. Ngakho kufanele sikhethe kulokho esinakho. Ngendlela, indoda enjalo iba yindlalifa yangempela yasekhaya, okuyinto ekugcineni iholela ekuqedeni okuphelele ebuhlotsheni kanye nokungaqondi kahle nokugxeka izingane. Lokhu ikakhulukazi ngenxa yokuthi noma yimuphi umuntu onamandla ukhonjiswe ngokuphindukuzalwa ngokujwayelekile (esimweni sethu esiketi), futhi ojenenja bavame ukuhlangabezana nokuguga ngokugcwele.

Amaphutha empilweni yowesifazane oqinile.

Iphutha eliyinhloko lendoda yensimbi ukuthi ayikwazi ukunikeza isaphulelo ngisho nakuye. Isibonelo, kungani ngosuku luvaliwe, uma isikhathi sivumela, ukulala ngaphambi kokudla kwasemini noma ukuhamba ubusuku kungasetshenzisi izitsha nge-suit engeyona ironed ... Inkosikazi enjalo, ngaphezu kwakho konke, inesibopho futhi inembile. Lezi zonke zihlukumeza, kodwa noma kunjalo, lokhu konke kuthinta kakhulu abantu abazungezile.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, bonke ubuthakathaka bendoda enamandla bayanciphisa isifiso sakhe sokuncintisana ngothando oluqinile, kanye "nezinsimbi ezifanayo" ezifana naye.

Ukugcina imfundo yezingane. Umama onjalo uyakwazi ukucindezela ngokuphelele ukuzimela kwengane ngeseluleko sabo njalo nezibonelo ezivela ekuphileni.

Yeka ukuthi ungaba kanjani "i-monster ku-skirt"?

Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuziqonda ukuthi awunjalo yini ofuna ukuvela empeleni. Shintsha izinto eziza kuqala ekuphileni kwakho nezindinganiso zakho. Ungafuni ukwenza umsebenzi wabo kubo bonke, ikakhulukazi amadoda. Lokhu konke kukusiza ukuba uzizwe ungewona "umshini osebenzayo", kodwa nje owesifazane wangempela.

Emsebenzini, ungazami ukuthatha konke okukuwe, uhlale ubuthakathaka futhi wamukele usizo lwabo osebenza nabo. Ngokuqinisekile iyoheha abantu kanye namadoda afanelekayo.

Futhi ekugcineni, kwanele ukuzama emasikweni omuntu, ngaphandle kwalokho ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uzobe uhlanganiswe ngokugcwele futhi ulahlekelwe konke okwesifazane kanye nobulili. Zibuke ngokwakho ngamehlo ahluke ngokuphelele. Futhi ngomphumela omuhle, njalo ekuseni, phambi kwesibuko, uzibheke njengowesifazane wangempela oshayayo futhi onengozini. Lokhu ngokuqinisekile kuzokusiza uzizwe ukhululekile kakhulu kubantu. Khumbula ukuthi amandla omfazi obuthakathaka bakhe, futhi isisindo "segama lendodakazi" liyamenza nje angabi nesizungu. Futhi ngokuvamile, ukuphikisana okuphakade namadoda ngeke neze kukunike ithuba lokuzwa ukuvumelana konke kwempilo yomndeni ojabulisayo. Khumbula ukuthi owesifazane onamandla angakwazi njalo ukubonisa ukwehlisa futhi lokhu akulona umthetho ojeziswayo!