Ngiyaqonda konke ukukhathazeka nokungahambisani nalokhu. Kodwa okokuqala, sizophinde sabize amadoda abathengi, okuyinto, ozovumelana nabo, akusikhohlisi kakhulu kubo. Futhi okwesibili, indlela enjalo yokuzijabulisa iyokwenza ukuthi ukucubungula isihloko mayelana nomshado oyifunayo kuqondakale futhi kube lula.
Ungathola kanjani ikhasimende lakho?
Uma owesifazane engumkhiqizo osebenzayo futhi usekulungele ukuthola inani elihle (impahla, ukuziphatha, isikhathi esivela kumuntu), uzothola ngokushesha umthengi wakhe "." Kodwa kwenzeka ukuthi izimpahla azitholakali, hhayi ukubona izinzuzo zayo, ukungaqondi kahle kanye nesithakazelo, bese kungabikho ukudayiswa, izimpahla zigcinwa, zihlale noma zihlasele. Futhi ngisho nangaphezulu kwehla, futhi kubhalwe phansi njenge-scrap.
Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Ngisebenza kanjani i-akhawunti yami?
Kwezinye izimo, kubalulekile ukunikeza umkhiqizo ukubukeka kwezebhizinisi, kwabanye ukukhetha indawo efanele nezindlela zokuqalisa, ngaphezu kwalokho, intengo akufanele ibe phezulu noma, ngokuphambene, ukulahla. Ngokuvamile, kuyadingeka ukwenza ngokuvumelana nomgomo wokuthengisa we-classic wobumbano 4 p: umkhiqizo, indawo, intengo, ukukhuthazwa.
Abesifazane "abangaziwa" basabela kanjani esimweni esinjalo?
- Phuma "kobulili obukhulu." "Angifuni ukugoba phambi kwabalimi! Lokhu akukona kimi! ".
- Kukholelwa ukuthi akukho lutho lokuchitha isikhathi kumadoda "angalungile", futhi "okwangempela" uzobe ebonakala futhi ayakwazisa.
- Ihanjiswe ku-"ikhasimende" isicelo futhi uthole ama-winnings akho!
Shintsha isimo sengqondo kumuntu: okubi - "Makangamukele njengami"; hhayi okungcono, nokunye ukuvutha - "Ngizoba yilokho engifuna ukuba ngibe khona"; kahle - "Ekuqaleni, ngizivumelanisa nazo, ngakho-ke ngizolungisa yona."
Indlela yokuthola indlela eya "iklayenti", ukuletha izingqinamba ezigculisayo nobufakazi besidingo, ukubonakala ngokukhanya?
Kuyadingeka ukuba "ukufudumala" izifiso zakhe, ngokungahambi kahle kuholela esinqumweni sokuthenga.
Umlobokazi ophumelelayo uhluke kanjani ekuphumelelweni?
Esikhathini esingeke siphumelele izikhali, amasu ambalwa kuphela "okusebenza" nomkhwenyana. Baye baphumelela - abambalwa, noma ngisho namakhulu!
Yini okufanele "ikhasimende" lizizwe?
Ukunakwa, ukuqonda okubili, injabulo ekukhulumisaneni futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu - ukwethemba!
Umakoti ophumelelayo uziphatha kanjani?
Uyathandana, uzwela, uyakwazi ukulalela, asekela ingxoxo, unobtrusively ugcizelela isithunzi sakhe kanye nenzuzo. Kodwa uma uhlaziya ubuchwepheshe bokuphumelela kwawo, ungathola ukuthi zonke izenzo zayo, ukuthinta, imishwana ihambelana nomgomo owodwa: ukufakazela ukuthi ukuyikho injabulo nomvuzo. Indoda kufanele "yona" ifuna kakhulu ukuzihlanganisa naso isiphetho sayo.
Kukhona abashadikazi abenza ngokweqile abenza lokhu ngokungazi, nge-flash, kodwa kubesifazane abaningi, konke kudingekile ukuba abesifazane bafunde lobu buciko. Futhi inamba enkulu yabo iyophoqelelwa ukuba ivuselele, okuyinto enzima kakhulu futhi ebuhlungu. Phela, imikhuba endala iyabiza.
Kungani kukhona omakoti abaningi abangenasikhathi?
Ayikho ikhono ekuqedeni isivumelwano, ngenxa yalokho okushiwo isinyathelo kumakhasimende "ahlukumeza", "hoolavit", "adonsela isikhathi".
Akukho ukuzethemba.
Benza ngomkhuba, baphinda amaphutha, amaphethini okuhluleka.
Izilungiselelo ezingalungile
Kukhona ukufaka okuningi okungalungile. Nazi ezinye zazo.
"Uma ithambe kakhulu, iyohlala entanyeni yami futhi kuyoba ukukhala kwami! Ngakho-ke, ngizoqina! ". Akumangalisi, ukuthi kusuka kumuntu onjalo oqinekile wendoda uvuselela kokubili odongeni.
"Uma ngilungile futhi nginengqondo, kuyodumaza nami." Futhi-ke umdlalo uqala esilumeni noma e-bolt.
Ngokwezibalo, amadoda akhula emadodeni angaphansi kuka-20%. Okunye kufanele kube nokufutheka, ukufudumala, ukufudumala. Ngokuvamile, ulethe esimisweni.
Bangobani laba bantu abangama-20% abakhukhulayo?
Kulabo abanombono omuhle wokuthengwa kwempahla noma umthengi (!), Ngoba amadoda amaningi endaweni ethile ekujuleni komphefumulo azibona njengempahla, umkhiqizo olungele ukuthenga nokusetshenziswa, ukuqonda noma ukuwuqonda.
Kulungile, futhi ngaphesheya kwephikithi oyikho, kuxhomeke ekuvumelaneni kwakho nalo kanye nokulindela. Lapha, into esemqoka ukubala nokwamukela imithetho yomdlalo: ngubani umthengisi nokuthi yiziphi izimpahla. Nakuba, empeleni konke kungaba okuphambene nalokho ...