Ake sizame ukuhlaziya isimo ekuphileni.
"Kubonakala sengathi uyangibanda emva kosuku!" Lokhu kuziphatha komuntu kuchazwa ukuthi esimweni somndeni esivamile akanayo ubulili ngokwanele. Lokhu kuntuleka akwenza ngosizo lwakho. Ukufakazela lokhu, udinga ukuqhathanisa inani lamakholi kanye nemilayezo ye-SMS kusuka kumakhethi wakho kuya emhlanganweni nasemini emva komhlangano. Ngemuva komhlangano, ngokuvamile okhanyayo futhi ogcwele uthando, imiyalezo ithathelwa yimishwana emincane yansuku zonke, noma ngisho engekho ngokuphelele. Umlingani onjalo ufuna ukuhlangana nawe kuphela uma efuna futhi ngokuqinisekile akazwayo kuwe. Ungomunye ukuzijabulisa ngaye ekuphileni okumnandi, okuvamile.
Izinhlelo zakhe zekusasa elizinzile . Umthandi wakho eholidini elilandelayo uhlele uhambo lwezokuvakasha emazweni angaphandle, kodwa ngesizathu esithile kuphela nomndeni wakhe. Ngakho, akacabangi ikusasa ngaphandle kwakhe, futhi awunayo indawo kuwo.
O, yeka ukuthi i-taciturn iyini! Amazwi akho kanye nezinkulumo zakho ezithandekayo ozama ukuzitshela othandekayo wakho, njengokungathi akazwa noma akazinaki nhlobo. Yiqiniso, noma yikuphi owesifazane ofuna ukuzwa kumuntu ukuthi unhle kakhulu futhi unethenda, kodwa ngokuvamile imishwana eyomile ifomu "Okwamanje, othandekayo, konke kuhle." Mhlawumbe, izinkulumo ezithandekayo zifihliwe kuwe emphefumulweni wakhe, kodwa ukungaqiniseki ukuthi akuthanda kakhulu kunomndeni wakhe kuyamshaya. Uqonda ngokugcwele ukuthi uma evumela ukuthi avume ukuthi uyakuthanda kakhulu, khona-ke ngokuqinisekile uzomcindezela, umphoqe ukuba ashiye umndeni wakhe kuwe. Kulolu daba lwezehlakalo yena akakulungeli neze.
"Akakhathaleli ukuthi ngikuphi ." Ngokuqinisekile, uqaphele ukuthi ngesikhathi sezocansi umlingani wakho usebenzisa okuningi ukunakekelwa yimisho yakho: "Uyayithanda yini noma lokho? Kungcono nini futhi kungcono kuphi? "Kodwa empilweni evamile, akanandaba nokuphila kwakho, nje akuboni ukuthi kuyadingeka ukuchitha isikhathi ezingxoxweni ezingenalutho. Akakhathaleli kakhulu ngempilo yakho, uma ugula noma uzothola umlayezo we-SMS oshibhile, wazi ukuthi unosuku olunzima kakhulu.
"Ngiyimfihlo yakhe enkulu . " Ungathanda ukuchitha kanjani kusihlwa endaweni yokudlela noma uya kuma-movie. Kodwa ngesizathu esithile, noma nini lapho ummema emphakathini, uthola isizathu. Kubonakala sengathi akukho lutho olwesabekayo, uma uhamba emigwaqweni yedolobha. Kodwa okhethiweyo wakho uyaqhubeka enganaki izicelo zakho zokuchitha isikhathi ngaphandle kwekhaya lakho. Ngakho, lokhu kuyisizathu sokucabanga ukuthi uyithande kangakanani kuye.
Intshisekelo yakhe kuwe ayizinzile . Ukuvakashelwa kwakhe kuwe kwenzeka esikhathini esithile. Ukuthi uchitha ndawonye cishe nsuku zonke, khona-ke ngokuzumayo kuyanyamalala isikhathi eside. Isizathu sisebuhlotsheni bakhe nomkakhe. Uma ubudlelwane babo buyingozi, bafuna induduzo kuwe. Kodwa uma konke kuvumelana nomfazi, khona-ke ngalesi sikhathi awucabangi ngawe futhi ngeke kube yilehlukaniso.
Ube uhlangene isikhathi esingakanani? Izinyanga ezintathu, unyaka noma ingxenye yekhulu leminyaka? Ucwaningo lwezazi zengqondo lubonisa ukuthi kunezikhathi ezimbili emva kwesikhathi lapho umuntu ekhetha ukuthi kuyadingeka ukuba ahlukane nobuhlobo nenkosikazi yakhe. Lena izinyanga ezingu-3 nonyaka ongu-1. Ezinyangeni ezintathu zokuqala, lo muntu kuphela lapho ecabanga ukuthi uzoshiya umkakhe kunkosikazi wakhe, uma ubuhlobo bomndeni bungelahle. Kodwa-ke, uma umndeni wakhe ukhululekile kakhulu, khona-ke uthando lwakho lungadonsela phambili, kodwa kuphela ngonyaka. Noma kunjalo, eholidini uhamba nomndeni wakhe, hhayi kanye nawe. Ngakho-ke, sekuyisikhathi sokuba ususe ubuhlobo nomuntu, ngoba ngonyaka ozayo kuyoba khona inkambo efanayo yezenzakalo.
Konke lokhu kuyisikhathi sokuzindla ukuthi kuyafaneleka yini ukuqhubeka nobuhlobo nomuntu ongacabangi ngokuphila ngaphandle komndeni wakhe. Phela, uzomane ulahlekelwe ubusha bakho, hhayi ukuthola lutho. Ezimweni, kunezimo lapho imindeni ihlakazekile lapho umuntu ehamba nenkosikazi yakhe. Kulula nje, le mishado yaqala ukuhleleka ngenxa yezizathu ezithile eziphoqelekile. Umndeni ungumbumbano wabantu ababili abanothando abaye benza isinqumo esinolwazi sokuchitha konke ukuphila kwabo ndawonye!