Ukushada nomfokazi

Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi umshado ungenye yemigomo ejwayelekile kakhulu yamantombazane amancane. Abaningi bafuna ukushada ngempumelelo, ukudala umndeni ojabule kakhulu. Amantombazane enza izimfuno ezihlukile kwabakhethiweyo babo. Omunye ufuna umuntu okhethiwe ukuba abe ngumuntu ovikelekile, omunye umuntu uphupha amehlo omuntu onobudlova, kanti omunye ufuna indoda ezayo ukuthi imane ithande umndeni kanye nezingane. Kodwa amanye amantombazane angaboni ikusasa labo nabalingani bawo, umgomo wabo ukushada nomfokazi. Lo mbono udonsela abaningi, kodwa akubona bonke abakwaziyo ukushada nomfokazi nokuthi yini edingekayo kulokhu.

Ingabe amathuba aphezulu?

Amantombazane aseRussia anamathuba amaningi okushada nomfokazi. Kunezizathu zalokhu. Abesifazane baseRashiya emhlabeni wonke badume ngobuhle babo nokuziphatha okuhle, ngaphezu kwalokho, abaningi bezinye izizwe bakholelwa ukuthi amantombazane aseRussia awaphuluki, ngakho-ke, ngeke afune kakhulu, ngokuphambene nalokho, azolalela futhi aqonde.
Abanye abantu bezinye izizwe bakhangwa ngumphefumulo waseRussia ongaqondakali, ozimisele ukudela nokuthethelela. Ezifisweni ezinjalo zabantu akukho okungaqondakali, ngoba, isibonelo, abaseYurophu bayasebenza futhi bangathandana. Amadoda, ngokuphambene nayo yonke imibono, ngokuvamile bafuna ukuba nesondlo esingathandana naye, kodwa owesifazane onothando nokuqonda.

Ukubukeka kubalulekile?

Kwabezizwe, ukubonakala kwentombazane kubalulekile ngempela. Kodwa ungesabi izidingo eziphakeme. Abezinye izizwe abavame ukubheka ubuhle obuhle esibubona emakhasini omagazini abaluhlaza. Ziyiqiniso nakakhulu ezifisweni zabo, ngakho-ke umshado nomfokazi ungokoqobo kwabesifazane abavamile kakhulu.
Njengomthetho, abameleli bezizwe ezahlukene banemiqondo ehlukene mayelana nobuhle besifazane. Amadoda aseNtshonalanga afana namantombazane amancane, nokuthanda ama-oriental namafomu amahle. Isikhumba esikhanyayo, amehlo aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka noma aluhlaza - yilokho abantu abafana namantombazane aseRussia. Amadoda aseMpumalanga angathanda ama-blonde kunamadoda aseNtshonalanga abashada ama-brunettes, kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi intombazane yaseRussia enezinwele ezimnyama ayinalo ithuba lokuzitholela indoda evela empumalanga. Amadoda amaningi avuma ukuthi ubuhle akuyona into ebaluleke kakhulu kowesifazane.

Yini ebaluleke ngaphezu kobuhle?

Konke kuxhomeke ukuthi iyiphi indoda ovela kulo izwe ongayithanda. Uma ufuna ukuba nendoda evela eYurophu noma e-USA, kufanelekile ukwazi ukuthi ukuzimela kuyoba yikhwalithi engayithanda indoda. Owesifazane onemibono yakhe empilweni, umbono wakhe, owaziyo ukuvumelanisa ngokushesha nezimo ezintsha zokuphila, unethuba elingcono lokuzitholela indoda entshonalanga. Indoda yaseMpumalanga ihlonipha owesifazane, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuhlonipha indoda njengenhloko yomndeni, ikhono lokunciphisa, umnotho nokubekezela. Amakhwenyana aseRussia anikezwe lezi zimfanelo ngokugcwele, ngakho-ke zidingeka kakhulu emhlabeni jikelele.
Umlobokazi waseRussia kulindeleke ukuthi uzokwenza imizamo yokwakha umndeni oqinile, ukugcina induduzo nobudlova endlini, ukubhekana nezingane. Ukushada nomfokazi kwabesifazane abaningi kuyithuba lokubona, okokuqala. Izimfanelo zabo zesifazane. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi owesifazane uzokwenza umsebenzi kwelinye izwe, ngoba iningi lamadoda alinandaba, okubaluleke nakakhulu ukuthi ikhono lakhe lokubhekana nendima yakhe njengomkami nomama.

Kuphi ongathola umyeni?

Kwabaningi abashadile baseRashiya, kungenzeka ukuthi umshado nomuntu ongaphandle ungabheka, uma ubheka umyeni nge-Inthanethi noma ngosizo lwezinhlangano ezikhethekile zomshado. Ngezinye izikhathi intombazane iya eholidini, lapho ithola khona umyeni wayo, kodwa ngokuvamile amanoveli anjalo aphela ngokushesha. Abezinye izizwe bakhetha ukufuna abashadikazi ekuthandeni amasayithi noma baphendukela kubachwepheshe.

Kungcono kakhulu ukucinga umyeni nge-ejenti lomshado. Okokuqala, banesisekelo esibanzi samadoda abafuna ukuqala umndeni nentombazane yaseRussia. Okwesibili, bahlola bonke abazobhapathizwa, futhi ungaqiniseka ukuthi konke okukhonjisiwe kumbuzo wemibuzo wesicelo esandleni sakho nasenhliziyweni kuyiqiniso. Futhi, okwesithathu, izifiki zithembela kakhulu izinhlaka ezinjalo, ngakho-ke, zibuyela lapho ngenhloso ejulile.

Izinsizakalo ze-ejensi yomshado zivame ukufaka umvuzo othile, okungaba okuphawuleka kakhulu, ikakhulukazi uma ufuna indoda enhle kakhulu noma usebenzisa izinsiza ezengeziwe ze-ejenti - umhumushi, isazi sezengqondo, isazi sezinkanyezi, inhlangano yokuphola.

Ukushada nomfokazi kubonakala kunamantombazane amaningi inganekwane engenakwenzeka kubo. Eqinisweni, konke akunzima kakhulu. Inzuzo enkulu ukwazi ulwazi lwezwe elibheke kulo umyeni, kodwa kunezibonelo eziningi lapho imishado ephumelelayo yenziwa ngaphandle kwalesi simo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuba khona kwabantwana emishadweni yangaphambilini akuyona into engavimbela ubudlelwane nomuntu ongezinye izizwe, njengoba bethandeka kakhulu futhi bathanda izingane. Ngokuzwelana kanye nezithakazelo ezifanayo, kungenzeka ukuthi imizwa izokuholela e-altare nasemkhayeni ojabulisayo womndeni.