Indoda yami ethandekayo ifuna njalo ukujabulisa. Lokhu kusebenza empilweni, nokudla futhi, nakanjani, enhliziyweni. Yingakho, abesifazane bavame ukucabangela ukuthi bangamjabulisa kanjani umfana ngokumanga. Emva kwakho konke, kuhle kakhulu, lapho umfana ethola ngokoqobo kusukela engxenyeni yejika, lapho uyithinta ngezindebe zakho. Kodwa ukuze kwenzeke lokhu, udinga ukuba namanye amasu wokumanga.
Ungamjabulisa kanjani umfana ngokumanga? Okokuqala, ukumanga akuyona nje ukuthinta kwezindebe ezindebeni. Amadoda amane nje ngesikhatsi lapho owesifazane elula kancane futhi enomusa izinwele zakhe, ebunzini, ama-cheekbones, kancane kancane wehla entanyeni. Ungase futhi ubambe ngobumnene futhi uncelise i-ear lobe. Uma umfana egqoka ukubhoboza endlebeni yakhe, ungawadlala ngosizo lolimi. Amadoda athande kakhulu ukumanga nokuncela iminwe. Lesi senzo sibajabulisa kumasekhondi ambalwa nje.
Amanye amadoda afana nawo kakhulu lapho, ngesikhathi sokumanga, owesifazane ugijima isandla ezinwele zakhe futhi uthatha kancane. Kodwa udinga ukuphuza izinwele zakho hhayi ngamathiphu, kodwa phansi kwezinwele, eduze kwekhanda uqobo.
Uma ufuna ukujabulisa umfana - sebenzisa u-kisses ohlukile. Bamba izinyembezi ezijulile futhi ezinomusa ngokuzenzekelayo nangomusa. Ungaphinde unikeze abathandekayo bakho abathandekayo, abamanzi, abathandekayo, abathinteki kalula izindebe zakho.
Uma ucabanga ukuthi amadoda abathandi ngempela i-caresses yokuqala - uphutha kakhulu. Amadoda amane nje a-mlejut ne-baldeeyut lapho owesifazane enezindebe zakhe ethinta izindawo ezihlukahlukene zomzimba. Isibonelo, abanye abantu bathanda lapho bekhala ngaphakathi kwesandla. Ngaphezu kwalokho, akufanele neze ukhohlwe mayelana nebele nezinsipho. Amadoda afana ne-caresses kule ndawo ngisho nangaphezulu kwabesifazane.
Ukuphumelela, ukuluma okukhanyayo, ukushayela - faka umcabango wakho futhi usebenzise lonke i-arsenal. Futhi, indawo ehlukumezayo yamadoda yindawo yangaphakathi yethanga. Ngisho nangomoya omncane oshaya izandla, amadoda azizwa ejabule. Futhi uma usebenzisa izindebe zakho, umfana wakho ngeke nje akwazi ukubamba futhi akunike ubusuku obuhle besithando.
Kunamasu amaningi ahlukene wokumanga. Isibonelo, kukholelwa ukuthi indawo evulekile kakhulu emlonyeni yinkomo. Yingakho ngenkathi ubanga, udinga ukugqugquzela i-palate yesilisa ngosizo lolimi. Thinta kuze kube semlonyeni, ubambe ulimi, uthinte kalula. Ngokubanga, ungadonsa ngobumnene umlomo ophansi womlingani wakho, uwuname phakathi kwezindebe zakho. Ngenkathi yokumanga nokucindezela, awukwazi ukugijima noma kuphi. Gcwalisa zonke izinyembezi nokuthintana konke ngothando olujulile.
Esinye indawo esingaqondakali emadodeni yi-spine. Ngesikhathi ubanga, ungabamba isandla sakho, uqhubeke ne-vertebrae, njengokungathi wenza ukusikhipha okulula. Yiqiniso, ukumanga ngemuva kwakho, kuyinto ejabulisayo kakhulu, hhayi kuphela kubantu, kodwa kwabesifazane. Vumelana, kusamnandi kakhulu, ukuthinta izindebe zakho kumuntu onamandla, oneminyaka eyisithupha ubudala. Umanga kancane kancane umthandi wakho endaweni yomgogodla uqobo, kanye nasendaweni engakwesobunxele nangakwesokudla. Kuyadingeka ukuthi kancane kancane wehle phansi noma, ngokuphambene, abuyele ngemuva kwekhanda. Ukubamba nokuthinta kungenziwa kokubili ngosizo lwelimi oluhlanjululwe futhi olukhululekile. Kubalulekile ukushintsha okuthinta okuhlukahlukene, ukuze indoda ingazizwa yedwa.
Esinye isisu singabhekwa njengendawo engavamile. Lokhu akumangazi, ngoba indawo itholakala eceleni kwesendaweni esivamile kakhulu yomzimba wesilisa. Esinye indawo esibucayi kakhulu singabizwa ngokuthi indawo ephakathi kwenkaba nomzimba wesitho sangasese. Kumele ukhokhe ngokukhethekile kule ndawo yomzimba wesilisa ngaphambi kokuba uqale ucansi. Udinga ukunika lo mfana isithandwa kanye nokuqabulisa okukhulu okuzokwenza othandekayo wakho ngokoqobo ngemizuzwana embalwa. Akudingeki ukuba uphonsa ngokushesha, kubalulekile ukucindezela le ndawo imizuzu embalwa. Vumelana, ngoba okuthakazelisayo kunazo zonke ukuqonda ukuthi ungathola into ebaluleke kakhulu maduzane, kodwa awukwenzeki. Lolu hlobo lokulangazelela luvusa injabulo ezingeni eliphakeme kakhulu.
Ngendlela, abanye abantu bajabule kakhulu uma benga ngamehlo abo evulekile. Bathanda ukubona indlela intombazane ayabela ngayo. Yiqiniso, amantombazane amaningi awawuthandi. Kodwa uma ungakacabangi, bheka umfana wakho esweni ngesikhathi ubanga. Ukuxhumana kokubukwa kuzomlethela injabulo eyengeziwe.
Yiqiniso, awukwazi ukuchaza inqubo ephumelelayo yokumanga ngokuphelele kubo bonke abantu. Wonke umuntu uyathanda into eyakhe. Ngakho-ke, kufanele silandele njalo ukusabela kwensizwa, qaphela ukuthi kuyamjabulisa, futhi lokho okuncane. Isibonelo, nakuba kukholelwa ukuthi izindlebe zindawo engavamile, ezinye izingane zizondayo uma zithintekile. Okufanayo kungashiwo ngomzimba njengephunga. Ngakho indlela yomuntu ngamunye ihlale idingekile. Ikakhulukazi uma uqala nje ubuhlobo bakho. Ungabi namahloni ukukholelwa ukuthi yonke into oyithandayo umfana wakho wangaphambili, naye naye uzothatha ngokujabula. Umuntu ngamunye unokuthanda kwakhe nemikhuba yakhe, futhi umzimba ngamunye uphendula ngezenzo ezifanayo ngezindlela ezahlukene.
Ngakho-ke, qaphela njalo futhi ungesabi ukuzama. Uma ungazami lokhu noma leyo ndlela, ngeke wazi ukuthi umfana wakho uyayithanda noma cha. Ungakhathazeki ukuthi le nsizwa izokusola ngokungakwazi nokungazi. Indoda evamile eqonda kahle ukuthi ujwayele ukujwayela, futhi udinga isikhathi ukuthola zonke izihluthulelo zokuthakazelana.
Ukumanga kuyisenzo esimnandi kakhulu, okuyinto kunoma yikuphi njalo ijabulisa abantu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma uthanda umfana, uzokuzwa ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi njalo lapho uthinta, njalo lapho uthinta izindebe zakho. Ngakho ungakhathazeki futhi ungene ekucindezeleni injabulo yakho. Ngemuva kwesikhashana usuvele wazi ukuthi ungazithola kanjani indoda yakho ethandekayo ngomzuzwana.