Ukusebenzisa ukuncoma akusizi nje kuphela ukujabulisa umthengisi, kodwa futhi ukumisa naye ukukhulumisana okujabulisayo nokubambisana esikhathini esizayo.
Indima ebaluleke kakhulu ebaluleke kakhulu ekudumiseni ezindabeni zothando.
Kule ntombazane, ukuncoma kwakhe ukulalela kuba yisikhuthazo esihle, kungene ngaphakathi kokungazi, ukukhula, kufinyelele lezo zimfanelo ezinikezwe zona. Noma yimuphi owesifazane, hhayi ngisho nezimbali ezinhle kakhulu futhi uba mnandi kakhulu, ethola isiqinisekiso sokuthi uyadingeka futhi angaba ngumthandi.
Isifiso sokujabulisa abantu, ukuwina ngezimfanelo zabo ezivelele kuvela kubantu besifazane ngokwemvelo ngokwayo. Uma kwakungenjalo, umthetho wokukhethwa kwemvelo ngeke usebenze, uqhubekele phambili ukuziphendukela kwemvelo. Ngoba ngumuntu wesifazane okhangayo kuphela onethuba lokukhetha abameleli abahamba phambili, abaqine kakhulu besilisa besilisa ekuzalweni esikhathini esizayo zezingane ezinamandla nezinhle, ezikwazi ukusinda ezimweni ezinzima kakhulu kanye nokukhiqizwa kwezizukulwane eziphambili nakakhulu.
Ukulandela umthetho ofanayo wokuziphendukela kwemvelo, amadoda azama ukukhetha abesifazane abathandekayo nabangaphelele kakhulu, ngaleyo ndlela bekhetha umama wabo ngezingane zabo ezizayo.
Kodwa okuhle kakhulu futhi kunhle kakhulu ukuthi kunqotshwe futhi kunqotshwe.
Futhi uthole i-trophy enjalo oh, yeka ukuthi akulula kanjani! Umzingeli kanye nomlutho uqobo ungumuntu ophoqelelwe ukuba abonise ubuhlakani obuhlukile, ukubekezela nokukhuthazela uma ekhetha abesifazane abakhulu kakhulu. Ngoba uma inguqhawe ngokwakhe, umzingeli, owesifazane wangempela ongakaze alahlekelwe yimvelo yakhe yemvelo yasendulo ngeke athole kalula. Uyinqaba, inyamazane enomzimba othobekile ozobe othobekile futhi ehlasele kuphela umuntu ozokwazi ukumqinisekisa ukuthi naye uzophila kahle, ngokunethezeka nangokuphepha. Lapha kuzodingeka ukuthi ukhulume izincomo ezinhle kakhulu intombazane!
Kulezi zinkinga, nazo, zinemithetho yazo kanye nemithetho eqinisekisiwe ekusebenzeni, okungcono ukunganaki uma ufuna ukuphumelela. Ngokuyinhloko, njengoba umnumzane efuna ukunqoba intombazane, emtshela izincomo ezinhle kunazo zonke, udinga ukuba aqaphele futhi aqaphele ukubukeka nokuzizwa kwakhe. Ukuqaphela isici ezembathweni zakhe noma ngekhanda lakhe, okuyiqiniso ukuthi libheke okubaluleke kakhulu, kufanele umbonise ukuthi liyaziswa. Nokho, umuntu akufanele akhohlwe ngecala elingokomoya lomuntu okhethiweyo wakhe. Kumele umtshele ngaso sonke isikhathi ngaye, isimo sakhe sengqondo, ukukhathazeka kwakhe futhi abonise ukulungela kwakhe ukuba ahileleke empilweni yakhe. Kancane kancane, uzojwayele ukujwayela lokho okudingekayo nokuthandwayo, bese ngokuzumayo athole ukuthi akakwazi ukwenza ngaphandle komuntu, njengokungathi nje ukuncoma intombazane, empeleni kuyisici esibalulekile empilweni yakhe yonke.
Thola amagama azoba yindumiso enhle kunazo zonke intombazane - konke okwenzayo! Kukhona ngisho nezinhlelo zokuqeqesha, ezicatshangwe futhi ezilungiselelwe izazi zengqondo nabantu abaye bafinyelela ekupheleleni kule nsimu. Ngakho, ngokwesibonelo, usebenzisa lolu phiko, ungathola ukuthi lokho okunconywa yizinto ezihlukahlukene kakhulu.
Kunezincomo - ukufanisa, uma umuntu ofuna ukusho amnandi, uma eqhathaniswa nomuntu odumile, ngaleyo ndlela agcizelela izimfanelo ezifanayo zokubukeka okuhle, ukuhlakanipha noma ithalenta. Isibonelo: "Uma kuqhathaniswa nawe, uVenus Milosskaya ungumfana oshisayo ovela emzaneni waseGadiyukino." Noma: "Uma uMadonna ezwa izwi lakho, wayezohamba azodubula!"
Kwamanye amacala, kuwumkhuba ukumane ubonakalise izimfanelo ezinhle kakhulu kumxhumanisi, uzibiza ngendlela evulekile. Isibonelo: "Wenze ngokuhlakanipha ngale simo ukuthi mina, mhlawumbe, ngabe ngingeke ngikwazi ukwenza kanjalo".
Kunezincomo ezingaqondile, lapho izimfanelo zomamukeli zingabonakali, kodwa labo abamhloniphayo: "Yeka inja emangalisayo onayo. Kusobala ukuthi uhlakaniphile futhi uhlakaniphile kangakanani. Unamehlo anjalo! "
Noma: "Kukhona isimo esinomfudumalo nesimnandi endlini yakho!"
Ukujabulisa kungathunyelwa uma umuntu edumisa impumelelo yomuntu:
"Uhle kakhulu! Ngakho osemusha, kodwa kakade okuningi sekufinyelele! Wawuphatha kanjani? "
Izincomo ezinhle kakhulu zentombazane zizohlala zikhona uma zikhona izichasiso eziningi ngezinga elihle kakhulu: "ngokuphelele ezingalindelekile", "ngezingelosi ezihle", "zonke ezinamandla," "ezimangalisa," "ezomusa," "ezidizayo," "ezikhazimulayo, "Okumangalisa," "ozobamba iqhaza," "omusa," "okulindelwe isikhathi eside," "okuyigugu," "okuqotho," "okuyingqayizivele," "wesifazane," "oyifunayo," njll njll njll njll.
Idivaysi engaqondakali ukuheha futhi ifinyelele imiphumela uma ukunconywa okuhle kuzobukeka ngesimo sesiphakamiso, kwazisa owesifazane wenhliziyo ukuthi unamandla angenakuqothulwa kwamandla omlingo akhangayo amadoda. Kubalulekile ukuthi ungadluli, ngoba uma ezwa sengathi uyamangalisa ngamazwi, zonke izincomo ezinhle kunazo zonke zentombazane zizophenduka uthuli emehlweni akhe! Uma umuntu ebona ngempela okhethiweyo wakhe unkulunkulukazi ohlanzekile, ke, ngokusho amazwi anjalo, angeke ahlenge nhlobo. Kodwa uma kunemizwa ephakeme yomsindo umnumzane akaqiniseki, kungcono ukungathathi amathuba.
Akukho lutho olubi nakakhulu ekubukeni kokuncoma kunokwenyama okungathí sina. Nakuba kukhona abesifazane abanjalo abazimisele ukuzitholela bona kanye nezici zabo ezicatshangelwayo ngokungazi lutho, ukuze bavele kulokhu kujabulisa okungathandeki. Kodwa lokhu kuyinkinga ehlukile, okuvumela abachwepheshe bezokwelapha bakwenze. Nakuba, ukuze abamukeli abanjalo bakhethe "ukuncoma" ngeke kube nzima.
Eqinisweni, ukuncoma okuhle akukwazi ukufakwa ngencazelo, ngoba kungakhubekisa futhi kuhlukanise okuthandwa kakhulu futhi kufanelekile. Ubuqotho nobubele, ukubuka kanye nombono omuhle empilweni, kubantu ngaso sonke isikhathi basiza ukukhetha amagama afanele kakhulu futhi anembile ongayinqoba yinhliziyo yanoma iyiphi, ngisho nentombazane enhle kakhulu.