Futhi sasiqhaqhazela - futhi sabelana nawe ngokubheka kwethu! Ukuthuthukiswa komuntu wesifazane ngomlingiswa wesifazane kuyindlela ebalulekile yokuhleleka.
Izambatho ezincane kakhulu - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ugqoke, ingubo noma ingubo yomzimba - ibonakala ingathandeki futhi ingabonakali ngokuphelele. Lokhu kuqinisekiswa komunye wamadoda esiwaxoxile kuye kusisabe. Phela, kubonakala sengathi kungase kukhange kakhulu kunokugqoka okuqinile? Okunye okuqhubekayo - izifundo zekarate, izindonga ze-shpaklevku nokubhema ugwayi, abanye abameleli bobulili obunamandla babheka umsebenzi omkhulu wesifazane! Ekugcineni ekuqinisekisweni kokungazi kwami kwengqondo yesilisa, sanquma ukwenza uhlu lwezinto eziyinhloko zobuntombi. Ngokusekelwe kohlolo olwenziwe (lwabandakanya bobabili abafana namantombazane), sakwazi ukukhomba izici ezingu-20 zendoda yangempela. Yiqiniso, akunakwenzeka ukuthola ukuhambisana ngokuphelele nazo zonke izindlela. Ngakho-ke ungathathi kahle uhlu lwethu. Kodwa-ke, ukunganaki ngokuphelele izifiso zesintu besilisa akusona isinqumo esinembile kakhulu. Kulesi simo, njengabanye abaningi, udinga ukuthola indawo ephakathi.
Owesifazane omuhle
Ngisho nangokwesiko esifanayo, kungase kube nezincazelo eziningana zento enjengomuntu wesifazane. Indoda eyodwa ihlatshwa umxhwele ngamantombazane aphikelela futhi aqinisekile abafaka impumelelo yabo yobuchwepheshe ngaphezu kwakho konke okunye. Esinye sinesizotha, sinokuthula, sigxila endlini nasezinganeni. Oomama bethu bavame ukusikhuthaza ukuba sibe namandla, kodwa hhayi ukuzungezwa ngamadoda. Eceleni kwabo udinga ukudlala indima yembali yethenda engenakuzivikela, isidingo sokusekelwa. Ingabe lesi seluleko sisebenza kangako namuhla? Noma kunjalo, ngezinye izikhathi kubalulekile ukukhohlwa izinkolelo ezithintekayo. Okokuqala, kufanele sibe yiqiniso kithi, ukuthanda kwethu, imibono yethu ngokuphila, izinkolelo zethu nezimiso zethu. Futhi kuthiwani uma bebonakala bengamukeleki komunye umuntu? Into eyinhloko ukuthi sikhululekile kakhulu, okusho ukuthi sizozizwa sijabule!
Ubuhle bemvelo futhi bunqatshelwe
Ungazigijimi bese uzama ukubheka konke okungu-100! Lo mthetho ufinyelela kunoma iyiphi indawo yokuphila kwakho: ukuphumula, ikhaya, umsebenzi. Emadodeni amanengi ahlekako (begodu nakulungileko!) Amantombazane angapheliko begodu angatjho. Khumbula ukuthunjwa. Ngokusho kocwaningo lwemakethe, ngenkathi ebandayo, ukudayiswa kwe-depilation kuwela cishe ngo-70%, kodwa ubusika akusona isizathu. Uhambo olulandelayo oluya e-cafe noma le-cinema lungaphetha ngokungalindelekile ngaphezu kokuthandana, futhi ngeke kube khona isikhathi sokuchazwa noma ukususwa kokuphuthumayo. Ubuncane bezimonyo. Amantombazane ayakhala ngokuzwakalayo: Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi sibonakale sikhangayo, kodwa uma umuntu ebona i-mascara ekhulayo, uqala ukuhleka ekuhlekeni noma asihlambalaze ngokuba engokwemvelo! Ngempela, amadoda akhangwa ngokwemvelo. Ngakho-ke, iningi lawo alibangeli ukuzwelana okukhulu ukwakheka: inhlamba futhi ingabi nakancane. Kodwa cishe bonke abaxoxwa nabo babheka ukuthi imifino yemvelo iyadingeka ngisho nasekhaya. Ungayinqamuli mfushane. Lapha, iningi lamadoda lavuma. Nakuba ngezinye izinwele ezincane - noma yimaphi ama-cheekbones aphakeme nakwabanye - i-hedgehog engamamentimitha. Ngakho ziqondiswe ukunambitheka kwakho bese ukhetha ubude bezinwele zakho. Ungalimi izipikili zakho. Kubonakala kuhlambalaza. Ngendlela, iningi labafana ngisho nenqubo yokusika izipikili zabo kubonakala sengathi akuyona into enhle.
Izembatho zifaniswe nesibalo
Gcizelela lesi silwane. Kulolu daba, amadoda ahlukaniswe ngezigaba: "Intombazane enezintambo ezigcwele noma imilenze egcwele e-skirt encane ibonakala ingahambi kahle. Futhi ngokuphambene - ngaphansi kwesigqoko esikhulu noma iketi esikhwameni, ngoba ijika noma imilenze egcwele ifihliwe. " Kulokhu kulandela: kufanele sikhethe izingubo ezigcizelela kakhulu isibalo sethu, kunokuba sibonisane nemikhuba yefashini! Kuhle njalo. Khohlwa ngengubo ye-terry yokugqoka noma ama-pajama aphephile ama-flannel amachashazi we-polka. Indlu yezinto zihlupha amadoda. Gqoka izingubo zesifazane. Amadoda abambe iqhaza kulolu cwaningo futhi ahlambalaza ngentshiseko ama-sweaters asele eside, amaketi amakhulu, amabhulukwe-ama-breeches, ama-boots, ama-overalls nezigqoko zamadoda. Gxila kwizingubo zangaphansi. Esikhathini esithi "Ubufazi besifazane", i-thong yanqotshwa (uma nje inqunquthela yawo ingaveli ngaphansi kwezingubo zomzimba!) "Ama-paper tricots" adume kakhulu abangela ukuba abantu besabe. Ungazakheli "lady". Kuthiwa omunye wabaphenduli bethu. "Angiboni lutho olukhangayo emantombazaneni azama ukubheka asebekhulile futhi agqoke izinto, njengokungathi uboleke kumama nogogo," kusho omunye umuntu okhulunywe ngawo. Uma udinga ukugqoka suit, ukubheja kumbala ogqamile noma isitayela esingavamile.
Imfundo ithambile, kodwa iyazimela
Ungafungi njengesihlangu sokudutshulwa! Ekuphileni, konke kwenzeka, futhi ngezinye izikhathi igama elinamandla lingaphuma. Zama kuphela, ukuthi "ukuhlukumeza" ukucindezeleka kwemizwelo emibi akungena emzimbeni wakho. Ukuziqhenya kungaphezu kokuheha. Lawula ukugqashuka kwentukuthelo. Abesilisa abavame ukuxoxa nabo bavame ukubizwa ngokuthi abangewona wesifazane lezi zimo ezilandelayo: "bathukuthele ngenxa yalokho okudlulile," "ukukhuluma ngamathoni aphezulu," "kudla i-hysteria." Ungasebenzi eklajini, uyeke ukubhema. Inqwaba yamadoda ayithandi. Owesifazane othumayo, njengomthetho, izinwele zigcwele iphunga likagwayi, futhi le iphunga aliyona imnandi. Uma uthola ukuphuza utshwala, uqondiswe umqondo wezinga. Ukubona kwesifazane ophuzile kuthatha isenzo sokudabuka. Yiba ozimele. Emibonweni nasezinqumweni zabo. Amadoda ayithandi abesifazane abangavumelani nokuvumelanisa konke nakho konke, kanye nabantu abangacabangi nabangenayo. Ungakhulumi kakhulu. Futhi hhayi nje nabangani efonini. Amadoda athukuthele uma sicela izikhathi eziningana ngento efanayo noma sisabela ngokungalungile.
Ubulili buhleliwe futhi buhlelekile
Ungafihli ngaphansi kwengubo. Ngisho noma une cellulite, amasentimitha angaphezulu esikhwameni, noma amabele angenele ngokwanele. Ngendoda yakho, ungowesifazane ohahayo futhi ongcono kakhulu emhlabeni wonke! Yiba unkulunkulukazi. Qaphela ukuthi ungabheka kanjani njengokukhohlisa ngangokunokwenzeka. Khetha iphunga elifanele futhi ungakhohlwa ukugqoka izingubo zangaphansi ezinhle. Ungaphumi emfanekisweni. Ngomuso olandelayo emva kobusuku obuvunguvunguzayo, hlala ufana no-sexy futhi mnene - kuzokuthola isimo salesi sikhulu. Amagama angaphansi. Amantombazane akhetha ukubuka, futhi angakhulumi (emadodeni, njengoba kwaziwa, i-hemisphere efanele ibusa, ngakho-ke kubo inqubo yokubukela ibonakala ibaluleke kakhulu). Ngakho-ke, imibuzo yakho ngayinye, ebuzwa ngesikhatsi sokuthanda uthando, iyamcasula kuphela le ndoda. Ngaphezu kwalokho, emva kokulala ngokobulili, umfana unesidingo somzimba sokulala - ungacasuli: lokhu kubonisa ukuthi ulungile nawe. Ibhizinisi elingaphezulu. Amaphesenti angu-75 amantombazane angathanda ukuthi umlingani wabo asebenze. Kuthiwani uma ungenalo intando noma amandla, futhi ingabe umlingani wakho nje ulindele isinyathelo sakho? Ungathukutheli futhi ungamgxeka - lokhu kungaba yisinye isizathu sokuphikisana. Vumelanisa bese usitshela ngemizwa yakho nezifiso zakho. Mhlawumbe kuzokusondeza futhi kukufudumise.
Yini ebukeka i-asexual?
Abesifazane bayalahla futhi bahlukumeze. "Nakuba mina ngibhema, ngicabanga ukuthi lo mkhuba awupheli ngokuphelele. Owesifazane ogwayi ugwayi uyisinengiso! Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ugwayi owodwa phezu kwendebe yekhofi noma ingilazi yewayini elikhanyayo ingaba imininingwane eyingqayizivele, ihlela ukuthanda. " "Ukungakwazi ukuhamba ngezicathulo ngezithende eziphakeme, okuthiwa yi-wobbling gait noma ukugubha ngezinyawo." "Ukushiswa kwelanga kusukela ku-solarium, ukugcoba izinwele ze-hydrogen peroxide, okuphelele ngezingubo ezibomvu ezibomvu!" "Ngicabanga ukuthi akusijabulisi owesifazane ukuba ahlanganyele kuphela emidlalweni yamadoda (isibonelo, ibhoksi) noma izisebenzi zamadoda (abalindi, amaphoyisa kanye nabashushumi bomlilo)." Ukuhlanza indlu kwezinye izibani kanye ne-bra. Amadoda ngokuqondile futhi ngokuqondile "Lapho ukuhleka kwakhe kufana nokugqwala kwetractor kanye nokukhala kwesilazi esikhulayo." "Owesifazane ophuza ubhiya emgodini omkhulu ngokushesha ulahlekelwa ngumfazi wakhe. Ngokufanayo, njengokungathi umfana wayedonsa ubhiya ngokusebenzisa utshani. " "Ngisho nowesifazane omuhle kakhulu onamadevu angihlale ehlala ... umfana!" "Uma owesifazane osebenza kahle evula izinwele zakhe embala ogqamile kakhulu. Le yekhanda ifihle ubuhle bayo bemvelo. " Uma le ntombazane ingowesifazane ngempela, uzohlala njalo, ngisho noma ephuza ingilazi eyengeziwe yewayini noma ehlezi phansi ngamadolo. Kodwa uma iqhuma phambi kwamehlo ami, khona-ke ukuqhubeka kobudlelwane ngeke kube nokukhuluma.