Ingane ekhulile ingadluliselwa ekudleni okungu-4 ngosuku. Futhi ngokuqondene nokulala, ngakho-ke konke kuyinto yomuntu ngamunye. Ezinye izingane zidinga ukulala kabili ngosuku, kanti omunye umuntu akakwazi ukulala. Kodwa ingane ngalesi sikhathi kumele ukuthi ilale okungenani kanye ngosuku. Ubude bokulala ubusuku kumele okungenani kube amahora angu-10-11.
Ukusebenzisa ummbila
Unyaka ongu-1 nezinyanga ezintathu yisikhathi lapho ingane iqala ukuhamba ebhodweni. Ngalesi sikhathi isilonda somntwana sigcina umchamo owandayo. Ngolunye usuku, umama uyaqaphela ukuthi sekusele amahora amabili kakade, futhi ama-panties omntwana asemile. Lesi isignali ukuthi umntwana ulungele ukuhamba ebhodweni. Njengomthetho, amantombazane enza lokhu ngaphambili kunabesilisa.
Manje okuningi kuncike kumama. Kudingeka abe nesikhathi sokubeka ingane ebhodweni, futhi ngobumnene nangaphandle kobudlova. Uma kungenjalo, angase angamthandi kakhulu kangangokuthi kuzodingeka akhohlwe ukupheka isikhathi eside.
Le ndlela yenzelwe ukuthi ingane, ngesikhathi ifika ebhodweni, izobhala ngokuzenzekelayo lapho. Umama wakhe uyomdumisa, futhi uzoziqhenya ngaye. Uzobhala futhi - futhi aphinde athole ingxenye yokudumisa. Khona-ke uzoqonda ukuthi yini ongayithokozisa umama, futhi uzoqala ukuhlala phansi noma acele ibhodlela. Mhlawumbe uzobe eseqaphela ukuthi kungcono ukubhala lapho futhi uhlale omile kunokuhamba ngamanzi.
Yiqiniso, lokhu kulula ukubhala ephepheni, kepha ukusebenzisa lolu hlelo kunzima kakhulu. Yibani nesineke nokukhuthazela, ngoba ngokuqinisekile umcebo wakho okwesikhashana uzohamba ngenkani uhambe ebhodweni. Uzohlala futhi ahlale, kodwa uzovuka futhi enze umsebenzi wakhe omanzi imitha kusuka endaweni efanele. Lokhu ukuziphatha okujwayelekile kwezinsana. Scold for akudingekile. Ngisho noma kubonakala kuwe ukuthi uyakwenza ukukukhathaza. Akunjalo. Mhlawumbe kuye lokhu kungenakulungiswa noma uyanqikaza ukubhala phambi komuntu wonke futhi uthanda indawo ekhudlwana. Noma mhlawumbe nje akazange akhule. Ungaligijimeli, ngokuvamile kubantwana lelikhono lakhiwa iminyaka emibili, nangemva kwalokho.
Igama elilodwa, amagama amabili
Ngonyaka owodwa nengxenye, izingane kufanele ziqonde ukuthi yini indaba elula esithombeni, ukwazi ukuphendula imibuzo elula. Ngesikhathi seminyaka eyodwa kuya kwemibili baqonda incazelo yemisho yonke futhi baqala ukwakha imisho yegama elilodwa. Enkulumweni yabo, kubonakala inani elincane lamagama, elisetshenziselwa ukuveza izifiso zabo nokuzibona: "bi" - umshini, hamba, "gu" - ukuhamba, amajuba, njll. Ngesikhathi esifanayo ukucacisa incazelo yezingane zisebenzisa ukuzithokozisa nokukhuluma. Ngenyanga engu-20 enkulumweni yengane kungase kube namagama angu-30 anjalo.
Izingane zifunda ukubiza amakholi amaningi anxiwe a, o, y, kanye; kanye nama-consonants m, n, b, c, d, t, c, n, x, l. Ukuhlanganiswa kwezinsana eziqhamukayo azikwazi ukubiza. Kodwa kaningi uphinda ama-syllables amabili afanayo ("ha-ha", "tu-tu").
Ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi ukuthuthukiswa kwengane, noma kunalokho inkulumo yakhe yayisheshe futhi ingcono, udinga ukukhuluma naye njalo. Manje ingane ayikwazi nje ukuzwa i-intonation, kodwa futhi ukuqonda incazelo yemishwana namagama ngabanye. Yingakho kungenjalo kufanele ulale nezingane, ukuhlanekezela amagama. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu ukuvimbela ukuthuthukiswa kwezinto ezisisekelo zokukhuluma kahle. Yisho ngokucacile futhi ngokucacile izinto, ungabi nobuvila ukuphinda usebenzise amagama abo izikhathi eziningana.
Ngisho noma ungaqondi lutho kulokho ingane izama ukukutshela khona, mkhuthaze ukuba aphendule. Uma uqonda isifiso somntanakho, kufanele uwakhulume ngamazwi. Uma, isibonelo, ingane ikulethela incwadi, kufanele uyibuze: "Ufuna ukufunda?". Uma ukunakwa kwakhe kuphendulwa epulangwe - "Ufuna ukudla?". Ungazami zonke izindleko zokuqeda lokho kubracadabra, okuyinto ingane izama ukukuletha. Mtshele ngobuqotho ukuthi awuqondi lutho. Masibe nesisusa sokuthuthukisa.
Amathoyizi noma izinsiza zokufundisa?
Izingane eziningi ezineminyaka eyodwa kuya kwemibili ziqala ukusebenzisa amathoyizi athambile emdlalweni. Akuzona kuphela ezithakazelisayo, kodwa futhi ziwusizo, futhi zingaba abangane babo bangempela abaqapha ebusuku isikhumba sakhe, izivakashi zakhe etafuleni, abagibeli emotweni evela ezihlalweni. Ngalesi sikhathi ingane idinga amaphupethi afana nabantu, okuningiliziwe, ephathekayo, yepulasitiki elithambile noma indwangu, ngamehlo amakhulu nokuthi izingubo ezidonshulwayo azikhishwa. Uma kungenjalo, kuzoshabalala ngokushesha, futhi imininingwane emincane ingalimaza ingane.
Izingane sezivele zinesithakazelo kumathoyizi abonisa izinto zansuku zonke, isibonelo, isitofu, ibhodi le-ironing, izitsha kanye nokulala. Abantu baseMalchugans bathanda ukukhathazeka ngekitshi elikhulu yokwakha kanye nabakhi be "Lego" abancane. Futhi ungakhohlwa ngamakhrayoni okudweba ku-asphalt, amaki nomdwebo womunwe, ama-typewriters ahlukahlukene kanye nama-cubes.
Lapho umntwana edlala kakhulu, ingane ikhula ngokushesha. Ukusetshenziswa okuhlelekile kwemidlalo kunenzuzo enkulu. Izingane onomuntu ozinikezwa nsuku zonke, zikhula ngokushesha, futhi lokhu kunomphumela ophawulekayo ekuthuthukiseni inkulumo. Kuyiqiniso, kukhona indondo futhi ukuphazamiseka kuyinqwaba. Uma ingane ineziningi zamathoyizi kanye "nabafundisi", uma unesidingo esiphakeme - umphumela ungaba ngqo.
Ngumuphi umdlalo okhuthaza ukuthuthukiswa kwengane kusukela ngonyaka owodwa kuya eminyakeni emibili yokudlala - okubaluleke kakhulu akusho, uma nje ingane iphume emdlalweni into ewusizo. Masihlele uhlu olumnandi, olufanele le minyaka.
Creep ngaphansi kwentambo.
Hamba intambo ekuphakameni kwama-25-35 amasentimitha. Kumntwana ongaphansi kwakhe, "mkhonze" ngethoyizi ngakolunye uhlangothi lwendophi. Phinda lo msebenzi 4-5 izikhathi.
Hit the target.
Nika umntwana ibhola elincane esandleni sakhe. Mbonise ukuthi angayiphonsa kanjani ebhasikisini, eme emkhatsini wamamitha ayi-1 avela kuye. Manje ake azame (futhi izikhathi ezingu-4-6).
Thola ibhangqa.
Kuyinto umdlalo othuthukisa inkumbulo ebonakalayo futhi ngcono inqubo yokukhumbula imibala. Zama ukuthatha ama-mittens ambalwa, amasokisi noma izicathulo. Thatha into eyodwa, bese ubeka eceleni. Yelulela le nto kumntwana bese umcela ukuthi athole enye into enjengale: "Ay-ay-ay! Wonke ama-iglavu ahlehlisiwe, uzongisiza ukuthi ngiwaqoqe? ". Uma kunzima okwehluleka ukwenza lokhu, usizo. Isibonelo, unake izici eziningi ezihlukanisa izinto - iphethini, ubukhulu, umbala, njll. Mnike enye into kusuka enqwabeni bese ubona ukuthi angayithola yini ibhangqa.
Ukuthutha.
Beka phambi kwengane izitsha ezimbili, enye yazo ingaphambi kokugcwaliswa ngamanzi, futhi ushiye enye ingenalutho. Bonisa ukuthi imfashini kanjani ngosizo lwe-enema yezokwelapha evamile noma isiponji ukuze uthule amanzi ngobumnene kusuka kwesitsha esisodwa kuya kwesinye. Qaphela ukugcoba kwengane nokuzwakala komsindo, ekusakazeni kuhamba futhi kuhla.
Amaphakheji.
Esikhathini sengubo noma ngendwangu enesisindo ukuthunga izikhuni zezinto ezihlukile: kungaba yile-oilcloth, i-polyethylene noma i-mesh. Kulezi ngokungafani namapokhethi, ungafanelana nezinhlobo ezahlukene zokuqinisa: inkinobho ene-loop, i-velcro, i-zipper, i-lacing, umnsalo, i-hook. Sula lesi sakhiwo odongeni noma eduze komkhawulo wesibhamu, bese ubonisa umntwana ukuthi ungasondla kanjani izinto ezincane ezahlukene ngisho namathoyizi ephaketheni.
Uthando lwe-oda
Fundisa ingane yakho ukuba ilandise. Geza izandla zakho, shayela amazinyo akho bese uqoqa amathoyizi. Uma amakhono amabili okuqala iningi labesomama abakhumbulayo, bese bahlakazeka kuyo yonke indawo yamahhashi amathoyizi athethelele. Njengobe, usemncane, uzokhula - funda. Ngakho usengozini yokuxosha umngane wakho. Phela, kwaziwa ukuthi kulula ukufaka ingane ikhono kusukela ebuntwaneni. Ingane, Yebo, iyoba nobuvila futhi imelane nayo. Kodwa abazali kudingeka babonise ukuguquguquka nokubekezela.
Futhi ukuba yisibonelo kuye futhi njalo uhlanze izinto zakho naye. Masibe "ibhizinisi lakhe". Chaza ukuthi wonke umuntu unemithwalo yemfanelo ethile, futhi manje izokwenza. Usekhulile kakade. Ngokujwayelekile, izingane ziyakujabulela ukwamukelwa ukufeza imithwalo yabo "yabantu abadala". Amathoyizi ahlanzekile nengane, kodwa hhayi esikhundleni. Futhi, ukuhlanza, chaza ukuthi kungani wenza lokhu. Mnike imisebenzi ecacile: faka leli bhokisi eshalofini, bese ufaka ibhola kulesi sidro. Kumntwana kwakulula ukuhamba, lapho konke kufanele kulale khona, emabhokisini nasemabhokisini, unamathisele ama-picture-amacebo. Faka umdlalo othakazelisayo wokwenza ukuhlanza kube okufiselekayo. Futhi ngandlela-thile yenza ukuhlanza isiko lokugunyaza ngaphambi kokulala. Lokhu akukona kuphela ukuhlela, kodwa futhi kuyabandeza ingane.
Ukuthuthukiswa kwezimoto kwengane kusuka eminyakeni eyodwa kuya kwemibili
- Ukugijima nokuhamba kahle ngokwanele;
- injabulo iphakama izitebhisi;
- angaphuza ekomelweni ngokwakhe;
- uqala ukudla ngokwakho usebenzisa isipuni.
Ukuthuthukiswa ngokomzwelo wengane
- angasebenzisa izenzo noma imisindo yokuveza uthando, injabulo, ukwesaba noma inzalo;
- uyazi kahle umngcele phakathi kwenqatshelwe futhi evunyelwe;
- ngaphambi kokuba upapa nomama abonise ukulalela, bangacela umama ukuba aphenduke ukudlala ama-pranks;
- Uma izihlobo zikhuluma naye, bese zibuza ukuthi ubukeka kanjani. Ephendula, udinga ubufakazi bothando.
Izici zokuthuthukiswa ngengqondo kwengane kusukela eminyakeni eyodwa kuya kwemibili
- angabhekisela ezintweni ezijwayelekile ezikhulunywe ngokuzwakalayo;
- uqonda imisho elula;
- ubonisa amehlo, inomlomo nekhala;
- uzama ukusebenzisa amapensela;
- Ukugoba, kuphakamisa ithoyizi bese uyithwala kusuka endaweni ngezindawo.