Kuze kube manje, kunamakhulu okuhumusha ngalokho umese esandleni sakhe amaphupho. Lapha, nezinhlobonhlobo zezinkimbinkimbi, nezifiso ezingaqondakali, ngisho nokuhlukunyezwa kwezifo ezingokwengqondo. Siphakamisa ukuthi uzijwayele izincazelo ezithandwa kakhulu kulokho ummese ephusheni amaphupho.
Ukuchazwa ku-A. Meneghetti, lokho akuphupha ngokubulala ngommese
Ummese akuwona nje kuphela umsebenzi wekhishi, kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke, isikhali. Futhi ngamaphupho, ngokuvamile uvame ukwenza izenzo ezinonya, ukuhlukunyezwa okuhlukahlukene kanye nesitho sobulili besilisa. Ngakho-ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi akusikho isithombe salesi sikhali njengendlela esetshenziswa ngayo.
Funda mayelana nokuthi kufanele yini ukwesaba ukulala, lapho kukhona ummese, lapha .
Isibonelo, uma unesithakazelo kulokho okungafani nokubulawa komuntu onomese, khona-ke kulokhu ummese uthwala amandla okulimaza ezintweni ezizungezile. Kwezinye izimo, lesi sikhali sinomsebenzi we-phallic ne-Oedipus complex. Futhi isakhiwo ngokwayo, kanye nokuchazwa kwalokho umkhwa esandleni sakhe amaphupho ngakho, kungacatshangwa njengendlela yokuzikhethela kokuhlukunyezwa, kanye nokuziphatha okuqondile.
Funda ukuthi kusho ukuthini uma ufuna ukubulala ephusheni, lapha .
"Ibhuku lamaphupho wesifazane": ummese uphupha ngani?
I-Rusty : lokhu kukhuluma ngokunganeliseki okufihlekile okuvela emkhayeni womndeni, noma ukuhlukanisana nomuntu othandekayo.
Okumnandi : ukulala kusho ukukhathazeka nemizwelo, kungenzeka ukuthi uyaphuthelwa othandweni.
Iphukile : iphupho likhuluma ngokuhluleka kuzo zonke izinyathelo.
Ukuhlaselwa ngomese : lokhu kunguquko ezingalindelekile empilweni yakho yangasese.
Esandleni : ungabonisa ukuwa kwezimiso zokuziphatha.
Ummese ngemuva : iphupho likhuluma ngengozi nezitha eziseduze.
Ukusebenzisa amanxeba okugaya : lokhu kuyisixwayiso mayelana nokuthi kungenzeka izenzo ezincane maqondana nabanye.
Iyini iphupho lommese ephusheni, elihlanjululwayo futhi lilele etafuleni lokugubha imikhosi : isakhiwo esinjalo siwubuhlungu obumpofu.
Ngakho-ke, singasho ukuthi iphupho lapho ama-knives ayenalo khona, akudingeki ukuthi athathe amandla athile. Noma kunjalo, lokhu kuyimpawu eqinile kakhulu. Ngakho-ke kungcono ukuqonda ngokucophelela lokho ummese ophuphayo ukugwema imiphumela engafanele.