Ukucabanga ngale ndaba kubantu kuhlukile, omunye umuntu ubheka ukuxhumana nengane ngaphambi kokuzalwa engenangqondo, bathi, akekho ozoxhumana naye, abanye bakhulume nengane ngokushaya isisu.
Ake sizame ukubona ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuxhumana nengane ngaphambi kokuzalwa, ngangokunokwenzeka, nokuthi ngabe kunomqondo kulokhu.
Namuhla, iqiniso lokuthi emasontweni angu-6 ingane isabela ekukhanyeni inokwethenjelwa. Kakade emavikini angu-10-11 uzwa ukuthinta, ukufudumala, ubuhlungu, ukucindezeleka futhi uyasabela kubo. Ingane iyajika uma umuzwa engawuthandi. Lapho eneminyaka engu-18-20 umntwana ubonisa uhlamvu, angathukuthela, asabe, ajabule. Ngalesi sikhathi, ingane izwa, iyakwazi ukuhlukanisa amazwi, ingathanda umculo othile. Kuyaziwa ukuthi ingane ithandana umculo womculo ngaphambi kokuzalwa, abantwana bakaVivaldi no-Mozart bakhetha. Ezinganeni ezinenyanga eziyisithupha ubudala, i-vestibular apparatus iyaqala, ihlukanisa isimo somzimba esikhala, bese ijika. Ngesikhathi esifanayo baqala ukunambitha, futhi ngenyanga yesishiyagalolunye, umuzwa wokuhogela uqala.
Ngakho-ke, akungabazeki ukuthi kukhona ozoxhumana naye.
Khuluma nengane.
Abazali besikhathi esizayo kufanele bakhulume nengane ngokuzwakalayo, ngoba indlebe yindlebe ekhulisa umntwana, futhi ekuzaleni kokuzalwa uyakwazi ukubona abazali ngokuzwakalayo kanye namazwi abo. Esikhathini sokucwaninga kwavezwa ukuthi abantwana ababelethwe abazali ngaphambi kokuba babelethe bakhala kancane, balalele ngokujulile kubazali isikhathi eside kunabantwana ababengakhulumi nabazali ngaphambi kokuzalwa. Ukukhuluma nengane, mtshele ukuthi ulindela kanjani futhi uyamthanda, ukuthi uzizwa ufudumele futhi unomusa kuye, ukuthi nguye ongcono, ohlakaniphileyo, onamakhono amaningi nokuningi.
Izifundo zomculo nokucula .
Indlela enhle yokuxhumana nengane ngaphambi kokuzalwa ukucula. Ngesikhathi sokucula, owesifazane uzwa imizwelo nemizwa yakhe ngokujulile, okungaqondwa kangcono yingane, ngoba akazwa nje izwi lomama wakhe, kepha futhi uzizwa ukudumazeka, uthola impulses emzimbeni wakhe.
Lalela umculo, maduzane ekuziphatheni kwengane ongaqonda lokho akuthandayo. Ukuthandwa kwabantwana kuhlukahlukene: abanye bakhetha umculo othulile, kanti abanye bakhetha okunamandla, okuyisigqi, okwesithathu okuthandayo uku "dansa" futhi bahambise kancane.
Ososayensi baye bafakazela ukuthi abantu, umculo we-classical ngaphambi kokuzalwa ungaqinisa ama-neurons wengane, lapho ulalela umculo onjalo, ingane ixhumano olusebenzayo olusezingeni eliphezulu le-hemispheres ye-cerebral. Izingane ezinjalo zikwazi ukufunda, ukufunda nokufunda izilimi zakwamanye amazwe. Zinezindlebe zomculo ezicashile.
Ukukhulisa ngaphambi kokuzalwa.
Ngokusobala, lapho ukhuluma nengane ngaphambi kokuzalwa nokukhula kwakhe. Phela, enkulumweni yokuxhumana, ingane inikezwa ngendlela yokukhuluma, ukunambitheka komculo.
Ukuthuthukiswa komuntu omncane, ubuchopho bakhe buxhomeke endleleni yokuphila kanina. Ngenhla sibheke ukuthuthukiswa kwezinto zokugqoka zezingane, futhi lokhu kudinga ukuhamba. Ingane iphendula ngokunyakaza okuhlukile komama, ishintsha isikhundla lapho umama exhuma, ephendulela ekuhambeni, ephenduka ngesikhathi esifanayo nonina. Lokhu kulungiselela ingane yakho ukuzalwa, kumfundisa ukuthi azizwe ephezulu futhi ephansi, ngoba kuzodingeka aqondise ukunyakaza kwakhe, akwazi ukugoqa futhi ahambe, futhi ngokushesha ukuhamba.
Ukwenza ama-gymnastics, omama besikhathi esizayo bayaqaphela ukuthi ezinye izivivinyo ezifana nomntwana, kanti abanye abathandi, ngakho omama kufanele bazivumelanise nengane - into yokwenza kancane kancane, phumula kakhulu, njll Lokhu kuyindlela yokuxhumana nengane, ngoba benza imishini yokuzivocavoca ndawonye.
Nini ukuqala ukuxhumana nengane?
Ukuxhumana kungase kuqale ngisho nangaphambi kokuba ingane iqale ukuzwa, uzwe ukuthinta, ukuzwa kwethu ukunyakaza kokuqala okubuthakathaka.
Inhliziyo yomntwana iqala ukushaya ngosuku lweshumi nane, iphendula emithonjeni yemicabango nemizwelo yomama. Lokhu kuchaza ukuthi kungani abesifazane bevame ukuzwa ingane ngaphambi kokuvela kwezimpawu zokukhulelwa.
Ukuhlakanipha kwemvelo kuyamangalisa: kusinika izinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye ukuxhumana nengane futhi sisetshenziselwe umqondo wokubeletha komzali esikhathini esizayo. Phakathi nalokhu kukhulumisana, sihlakulela izimfanelo abazali abazidingayo: sifunda ukuqonda imizwa nemizwa yethu, ukubekezela, ukuzwela nokulalela, sisondela ekubeni ngabazali abakhulu kunazo zonke izingane zethu.