Impilo kanye nemvelo yengane ngqo kuxhomeke esimweni sengqondo somama ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Kodwa ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, abesifazane banqotshwa ukwesaba okuhlukahlukene, futhi ama-phobias abo aqiniswa yizinto zonke ezivela ezihlotsheni eziya kudokotela. Ukuhlaziya okubi, izinkinga zezempilo, isimo esibucayi sokuphila, ukuthutha - konke lokhu kungathinta ingane. Ngakho-ke, umama udinga ukuhlala ejabule futhi enokuthula njalo, nokuthi ungagcina kanjani ithemba ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, sizokutshela kulesi sihloko. Ukukhulelwa kuyisimo esikhethekile, kodwa hhayi isifo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, abanye bavame ukuzama "ukucasula" abesifazane "esimweni esithakazelisayo" ukuzizwa sengathi bayagula. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ufundiswa ngaso sonke isikhathi: hhayi izinwele, ungadli izinwele zakho nezipikili, ungaduli izinwele zakho ...
Yiqiniso, kunemikhawulo ethile - isibonelo, abesifazane abakhulelwe ngokucacile abakwazi ukuphakamisa izinsimbi, ukubhema, ukuphuza utshwala, ukuhlanza izipukane ezivela ezinambuzaneni ngisho nokuhlanza indlu yangasese yengozi engozini yokutheleleka nge-toxoplasmosis. Kodwa kulokhu, njengomthetho, uhlu lwezinqatshelwe eziqinile kanye nemingcele engavumelani iphela. Wonke umama angakwazi, uma kungekho ukuphikisana - ngisho nokushayela indiza!
Kungenye indaba, uma wonke umuntu eseduze, ukuthi ukhuluma ngezinqatshelwe nezingozi. Ngokuvamile, kakade kusukela ezinyangeni ezingu-3-4 isizinda se-hormonal sishintsha ekuthuleni okungcono kwengqondo nokuthula kwengqondo, ngakho-ke akulula ukufihla ukukhathazeka komunye umuntu.
Umsebenzi usindisa
Kunzima kakhudlwana umama wesikhathi esizayo ukuba ahlangane nomphumela omuhle wokukhulelwa kanye nokuzalwa kwengane enempilo epolyclinic. Ukulethwa kwezivivinyo, izinguquko eziqhubekayo emithini nemithi yokwengeza, ngaphandle kwalokho, odokotela banakho ikhono lokubhala into ekhalendeni ekhalini ... Indlela yokugcina ithemba ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa ezimweni ezinjalo?
Ngokuvamile, uma kungekho izinkinga zempilo ezimbi, izinguquko ekudleni nasekuziphatheni ziyingcosana. Kuze kube izinyanga ezingu-5-6, omama abasaqhubeka baya emsebenzini. Akudingekile ukuvimbela umdabu walo - okokuqala, ukusekelwa ngokwezimali kuzokuhlonishwa kakade ngenyanga yokuqala ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane.
Ngaphandle kwalokho, njengoba ivaliwe embuthaneni omncane "wabesifazane abakhulelwe", owesifazane ugibela ingozi yokungatholi konke lokho okwenziwa ngokujwayelekile. Hlala nxazonke ngetiye, ingxoxo yezinkinga zomndeni ekusebenzeni kuhle konke "okungeziwe" okusebenzayo okuvumela ukuzethemba ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa phakathi nezinyanga ezimbili zokuqala. Ukukhohlwa mayelana nezinkinga ezincane, i-ache ngemuva, ukuxosha ingane ngesikhathi sokusebenza, umama uba ngcono nakakhulu. Futhi ngalesi simo sengqondo kulula ukubeletha ingane enempilo, ephelele!
Imithi nokuhlolwa
Futhi namanje, uma emtholampilo umama wesikhathi esizayo ezwa ukubikezelwa okungalungile noma ephoqelelwe ukuba alandele njalo imiyalo kadokotela, onokuqonda kwakhe, akekho isikhathi sokuba nethemba. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokuba uhlose ikhanda futhi uzibuze ubuthongo obunzima - ngokuhlelekile noma hhayi ngokuhlelekile - kulula ukucabanga ngalokhu.
Imiphumela yokuhlolwa ingahluka nje kuphela kulesi simo semvelo. Ithinta kakhulu isikhathi sosuku, isidlo sokugcina, isimo sezulu nesikhathi sonyaka. Ehlobo, kunezilingo eziningi zezithelo, futhi emva kokudonswa kwamakhabe noma amakhabe odokotela athola "ushukela owandayo." Izinso emva kwamanzi noma amanzi eshisayo ahlukene ngokubhekana nomsebenzi wokukhipha. Futhi manje sithola "i-hemoglobin enciphise". Ngakho-ke, iqiniso lokuthi abesifazane manje bahlolwa ngokuphindwe izikhathi eziningana ngeviki, kunencazelo ekhethekile.
Ukwengeza, ukulondoloza ithemba ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kusiza ucwaningo lwangaphambili lomntwana. Amama ayathula futhi anethemba, azi ukuthi konke kuhambisana nomntwana. Futhi kabili - ngoba noma yikuphi "okumangazayo" esikhathini esizayo nakho kukhishwe.
"Iqembu lezingane zakamuva"
Yiqiniso, "isikhungo" esinjalo cishe akunakutholakala kunoma iyiphi idolobha elincane. Kodwa ukuthola abangane abasha "esimweni esithakazelisayo" futhi uxoxe nabo, uma benempilo futhi bayakwazi ukujabulela ukuphila, kuyafaneleka.
Njengomthetho, ngokuvamile izintombi azikhulelani ndawonye futhi azikwazi ukunikeza ukusekela okufanayo njengamanye amamama esizayo. Yabelana ngezinkathazo futhi uhleke ndawonye, thola iseluleko ngesikhathi esifanele kanye nokusekelwa - konke lokhu kusiza ekunciphiseni ukwesaba okuhlobene nokukhulelwa kalula.
Zilalele wena
Akekho owazi isimo sika "mama" kangcono kunabo. Ngakho-ke, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi odokotela abanekhono futhi abanekhono banikeze, zilalele. Futhi uma uvela e "yodomarina" waqala ukwephula izinyo - ungabi ovilapha kakhulu ukuze uxoxe nomngane osanda kuzalwa. Noma thola ithuba lokukhuluma nomunye udokotela. Ngezinye izikhathi isiluleko esisodwa sinokwanele ukunciphisa inkambo yokukhulelwa nesimo somama. Umama ozolile - lo ngumntwana othulile, okuzoba kuhle ukukhula.