Ukuzihlonipha okuphansi kungasiza owesifazane ukuba athole umlingani ngokushesha, abacwaningi bakholelwa
Ochwepheshe emhlabeni jikelele basuke bekhathala ukufuna incazelo yalokho okushiwo owesifazane ngenkathi kukhethwe indoda. Kodwa izazi zengqondo ezivela eNyuvesi yaseTexas zikholelwa ukuthi abesifazane bangashintsha izicelo zabo, banikezwe ukuheha kwabo. Ngakho-ke, isibonelo, abesifazane abangakazalwa abahle bathola izimfanelo zesilisa "abalimi abaphakathi" ezamukelekayo, kanti abesifazane abakhayo abathandi umphakathi. 4 izici ezisemqoka zamadoda ezithonya ukukhethwa komlingani ongabhekana nazo zazibizwa ngabalobi besifundo. Lokhu ukuchuma kwezezimali, isifiso sokufundisa izingane kanye nezimfanelo zabazali, ukwethembeka nokuzinikela, isethi esiyimpumelelo yezakhi zofuzo ezinika impilo, isikhalazo sangaphandle kanye nokuhlakanipha. Njengoba izazi zengqondo zithi, ngenxa yeningi eliphelele labesifazane, "izilinganiso" ezinhle kakhulu kuzo zonke lezi zigaba ziyadingeka. Kodwa-ke, noma kunjalo, ithuba lokuvuma ukuthi i-titmouse ingcono kunokuba i-crane esibhakabhaka esibhakabhakeni ikhona kwabesifazane abafanayo abazihlonipha ngokubonakala kwabo bangaphansi kwamanye abesifazane abaningi.