Indlela yokwenza ikhasi lakho lomuntu siqu kwisayithi lokuthandana likhangise kakhulu

Ukuthandana nge-intanethi ezweni lanamuhla kuye kwaphela isikhathi sokuba into ekhethekile. Abantu bachitha amahora amaningi nezinsuku ezimpilweni zabo kwinethiwekhi yomhlaba wonke, bathola abangane, ukuzijabulisa, umsebenzi ngisho nabalingani bethu usuku. Okukhethekile ezindaweni zokuphola kunika imisebenzi eminingi nezinsiza eziningi. Njengomthetho, kufanele nje udale ikhasi lakho lomuntu siqu futhi elikhangayo, futhi ungaqala ukuxhumana. Noma kunjalo, ukusesha umlingani ngokusebenzisa i-intanethi kunezinhlobo eziningi zezici ezihlukanisa nobuhlobo bendabuko. Khumbula, uma abantu "behlangana ngezingubo" empilweni yabo, besebenzisa i-intanethi - ekhasini lakho siqu. Ngezansi kukhona amathiphu okuhlela ukuthi uhlele kahle kanjani umklamo wayo okhangayo. 1. Ungashiyi lutho lwekhasi lakho lomuntu siqu.
Ukuthandana kwamasayithi akunikeza nje amathuba amaningi okubekwa kwedatha yomuntu siqu: iminyaka, indawo yokuhlala, ukuzilibazisa, umsebenzi, njll. Lolu lwazi luyadingeka ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuthi ukusesha komlingani akukwenziwa ngokungaqondakali. Inqwaba yolwazi olwengeziwe lubonisa ukulungela komuntu inkhulumomphendvulwano kanye nesifiso sokuqala ukuxhumana. Ngokuphambene nalokho, ikhasi langasese elingenalutho lishiya umbono wokungaqedwa nokunganaki. Ungabi nobuvila uphinde ugcwalise wonke amasimu e-questionnaire yomuntu siqu, futhi iphrofayli yakho izoheha ukunakwa okwengeziwe.

2. Kodwa unganikeli ulwazi oluningi mayelana nawe.
Imininingwane ekhasini kufanele ibe elula, eqondakalayo futhi igcizelele ezinye zezimfanelo zakho ezinhle. Noma kunjalo, ngokubukeka, kufanele kufane, cishe, i-biography noma ibuye futhi, kunokuba imemo noma i-adventure romance. Ungayidluliseli ngolwazi kusuka empilweni yakho siqu - lokhu uzokutshela ngosuku lokuqala. Gwema izikhalazo nokungabi nandaba - abazange bamdwebe umuntu. Khumbula, umgomo wakho ukuthola umlingani ngosuku lokuqala, futhi ungabonisi umhlaba wakho wonke wangaphakathi.

3. Faka i-avatar isithombe sekhwalithi.
Iphrofayli ngaphandle kwesithombe izobhujiswa. Ukusebenzisa isithombe esikhundleni sokubheka izithombe zangempela kudonsa abalingani abangabakhona, ukudala umqondo wezinhloso ezingenangqondo noma imizamo yokufihla ukubukeka kwabo. Ikhasi lomuntu siqu kwisayithi lokuthandana lidinga isithombe sakho sangempela, futhi kufanele sibe njengekhwalithi ngangokunokwenzeka kusuka endaweni yokubukwa kwezobuchwepheshe (ecacile, ecacile, ngokwezinga elidingekile, lowo muntu kufanele abonakale ngokucacile), futhi akunikeze nesithombe esihle. Izithombe ezivela ochungechungeni ethi "Ngihlezi ngengubo yokugqoka phambi kwe-TV" noma "siphuza ubhiya nabangani bami" kufanele zisuswe ngokushesha. Ngokuphambene nalokho, izithombe ezenziwe emvelweni ngosuku olumile noma etafuleni le-cafe epholile zibukeka zinenzuzo.

4. Qiniseka.
Akukho lutho olulula, kunokuba udale isithombe esivelele esimeni esivelele. Akekho ozohlola ukuxhumana kweqiniso kanye nayo yonke imininingwane oyibhala kuphrofayela yakho. Kodwa-ke, emhlanganweni wokuqala womuntu siqu, ukukhohlisa kuyacaca, futhi ubudlelwano cishe ngeke buhlale isikhathi eside. Ngabe kunengqondo ukushiya umbono ongamanga ngawe futhi uye emhlanganweni nomlingani okulindele ukuba angakuboni, kodwa isithombe esihle kakhulu owadalwa ku-intanethi? Lokhu, cishe, kuyoba yilapho kuchitha isikhathi.

5. Ungakhohlwa mayelana nokuhlekisa nokuhle.
Ukuzijabulisa kanye nesimo sengqondo esihle ngokuphila njalo kubangele abantu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi imizwa yemizwa yayingeyena enhliziyweni yakho, khumbula ukuthi ikhasi lakho lesayithi lokuphola - lokhu akuyona indawo yabo. Shiya okuhlangenwe nakho kokuxoxisana nabangani nabantu abaseduze, futhi emhlanganweni nomphakathi jikelele, phumani ngokumomotheka kanye nomoya omuhle. Bonisa ukuthi unomlingisi oqinile.

Futhi, eqinisweni, ukuhlela iphrofayela yakho kusayithi lokuthandana, lungela imihlangano ebusweni. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuvamile kangakanani manje, ukuxhumana nge-Intanethi, ngeke kuguqule imizwelo nenjabulo yobuhlobo obuhle.