Uma umuntu eqala ukwenza imisebenzi yasendlini ngempela futhi empeleni, indlu izoba ihlanzekile futhi ihlanzekile, amakamelo azogcwala induduzo nobudlova ... Umkhathi uzokuqeda, ubungane, kanye netafula lokudlela lizoqothula izitsha eziwusizo nezihlwabusayo.
Eqinisweni, indoda yangempela eqonda ipulazi ayikwazi ukubuyisela ukuhleleka endlini kuphela, kodwa iphinde iwusekele njalo. Yilokho, ngisho noma ebuntwaneni zonke izinto azibeka unina. Ubuvila besilisa, obunikezwa ngemvelo, ngeke kuvumele indoda ukuba isakazeke ekupheleni kokuphila kwayo, ukuphakamisa izinto ezifanayo usuku lonke nge-apopt.
Yiqiniso, ngemuva kokuba lo muntu ehlele umyalo, uzodinga ukuthi amanye amalungu omndeni amsekele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngeke kube yisicelo, "ukuhleleka" okuphoqelekile-okuphoqelekile, ubudlova, ngokuqinisekile ngeke. Nokho, uma ungamlaleli, khona-ke ungazibeka icala!
Njengomthetho, emndenini lapho indoda ithanda ukuhleleka nokuhlanzeka, ngenkathi ezama ukuyigcina, abantwana bakhula ukuhlanzeka okufanayo. Izingane zalawo obaba azikwazi ngisho nokucabanga impilo ephazamisekile nangenxushunxushu, ngoba ngisho nobaba kusukela ebuntwaneni wayejwayele ukuqonda. Mhlawumbe kunjalo ngale ndlela ukuthi imikhaya inezinkolelo ezinhle.
Amadoda athande kakhulu ukuhlanzeka. Awukwazi ukuma uma engcolile endlini, lapho izingubo zingcolile, futhi izicathulo azihlanjululwanga, aziyithandi uma umuntu engakhokhi ukunakekelwa okwanele, futhi kunamakha ejabulisayo ekamelweni. Iphunga elilodwa kuphela okumelwe libe sefulethini iphunga lokuhlanzeka!
Izandla zamadoda zithinta kakhulu futhi zingasheshe zibhekane nanoma yimaphi amabala ezembatho zezingane. Pustyakovymon ucabange futhi ugeze ngezandla imali encane yezinto zezingane. Kodwa namanje uthenge umshini wokuhlanza omuhle endlini - ufanele wenziwe ngumninikhaya. Futhi bacabanga ukuthi kuyinto encane yokuthenga ama-powders amahle, ama-conditioners yokuhlanza nokuvimbela imishini yokugeza.
Izingane ezinjalo emndenini zizofunda ngokushesha ukugcina ubuchopho endlini ngoba uyise ungumninikhaya wangempela. Emva kwakho konke, imvelo ngokwayo yamnika ubuciko. Uma kungazelelwe i-zateetremont, kuyoba njengekhaya lokuklama. Ukuthambekela kokudala kwezingane kungenziwa ngokushesha ekuphileni, ngoba bonke bazokwazi ukuzama ukwenza. Bahlala njalo futhi bonke bayothi: "Ngifana nobaba!" ... Noma yimuphi umuntu uzojabula.
Wonke amalungu omndeni ukubonga kumuntu onjalo wokunakekelwa ukudla uyokwazi ukubonga ngempela zonke izinzuzo zenduduzo - ngokuqinisekile ngeke nje avume kuphela, kodwa uyojabula ukuthi upapa uthenge amadivaysi ahlukahlukene enza ukuphila kube mnandi futhi kumnandi. Endlini lapho ubaba ophethe wezomnotho, angeke kube khona isimo sengqondo sokuqala nesingcwelisayo ngezinzuzo ezithuthukiswayo impucuko. Izingane kusukela esemncane zizobona ukuthi bangaki abantu abasebenzayo kanye nemiphumela yemisebenzi yabo.
Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi ingxenye enkulu yamadoda ingama-egocentrists angenangqondo futhi elambile, kodwa lena yiyo kuphela imibono ehlukile, ayiqinisekisiwe neze impilo. Amadoda azwela kakhulu futhi azwela. Futhi abanikazi bendlu abanamadoda amabili amancane ahlakaniphile. Bawuthanda kakhulu umndeni wabo, futhi zonke izindlu zihlukile.
Indoda yangempela kuphela ongenza endlini ibe yinto enhle yeqiniso yobungane nokuqonda okufanayo. Kulesi simo, ungadonsela ukufanisa nebutho. Ubani ongakhuthaza futhi ahlanganise abantu abahluke ngokuphelele emoyeni nasekuziphatheni kwabantu ngezikhathi ezinzima? Yebo, yebo! Kuphela umlawuli wangempela. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lokhu kuyinkosikazi yempi yangempela: "Yenza njengoba ngenza!"
Umninikhaya onesibonelo sakhe ubonisa nokuthi kufanele akwenze kanjani. Futhi amadoda afika futhi ahambe angasho kuphela, ngaso sonke isikhathi athi: "Yenza njengoba ngisho! Kukhona umehluko, akunjalo? Ngempela, wonke umuntu angasho, kodwa ukufundisa nokubonisa ngesibonelo isibonelo ngokucacile - lokhu kuyisikhathi salesi ndoda, hhayi umkhulumeli we-banal.
Izitsha eziwusizo futhi ezihlwabusayo etafuleni lesidlo? Kumuntu - kuyinto nje injabulo. Amadoda athokoza kakhulu ukudla okumnandi, azi okuningi ngokudla, ngakho-ke noma ngabe umama akakho, akekho oyohlala elambile endlini. Kuzingane, indoda enjalo iyayikhathalela ngokucophelela. UPapa uzokwazi ukondla umntwana ngaphandle kwemibono, okumele ikhombise umama okhathele ukuthi ingane idle. Kodwa-ke, lesi sidlo singafana nesidlo esivela ekhishini yasensimini, esondliwa amasosha ahlezi emgodleni noma emgodini, okuhloswe kumabonakude omsakazo kanye namaskena ...
Umninikhaya uyisibonelo somuntu wangempela. Kodwa! Nokho, ngokuzwakalayo kungase kuzwakale, abesifazane abaningi badelela amadoda anjalo futhi bazame ukuwaphika, becabanga ukuthi esikhundleni sabantu besilisa "bakhathazekile" ukucabanga kwabantu besifazane. Abesifazane bafuna ukuba nomthengi wangempela kuphela, kodwa futhi umninikhaya ngesikhathi sakhe sokuphumula.
Kungaba ngaphezu kwemindeni enjalo ecabanga ngendlela ehlukile: uma umfazi ehola ngaphezulu, khona-ke indoda kufanele ibe ngumnikazi wendlu. Akukho lutho kulokhu oluhlazozayo! Kulo logic, nokuqonda okuvamile, andrezon!