Le ndoda imisa imoto futhi ithole iphuzu elifunayo edolobheni ngisho ngaphandle kwemephu, ngisho noma iya khona okokuqala. Futhi esiqandisini akabonanga iphakethe lamafutha, futhi angayitholi isigqoko esifanele sokugqoka emakamelweni. Owesifazane angakwazi ukukhuluma ngokomzwelo ngezinkinga zakhe, futhi lapho umuntu ecela ukuthi angakhathazeki ngezihluthulelo noma anikeze usizo, ubeka amazwi athi: "Awuze ungilalele!". Indlela yokuqonda izinhliziyo ezimbili zomunye nomunye, ukuze uhlalisane ukhululeke kakhulu? Ake sizame ukuqonda.
Ingcebo noma umlomo
Ucabangani, ukuthi yini amadoda avame ukuphoqeleka ukuba akhokhele uthando ngokuphathelene nowesifazane? Ngomqondo wangempela nangokomfanekiso, umuntu uphoqeleka ukuba akhokhele inzalo kumuntu wakhe, uma engakwazi ukukhuluma. Yebo, abesifazane abacebile bavame ukulinda izipho ezicebile nokuhamba okunethezeka kusuka emadodeni abakwazi ukuxhuma amagama amabili. Futhi ama-romantics, izimbongi nabaculi, abangakwazi ukuheha owesifazane ngobuhle bekulumo yakhe, ngakho-ke bangakwazi ukuhlala ebumpofu, ukuthi owesifazane unelisekile ngamazwi abo amnandi nezindaba ezithandekayo.
Owesifazane uthanda izindlebe, futhi indoda kufanele ikhulume kahle. Uma ethanda ukuthandwa futhi ebumpofu, noma uma efuna ukulahla "karma" ukuheha abantu abathintekayo, uzoba izifundo eziwusizo kakhulu zokukhuluma. Ngokuvamile, izazi ze-psychotherapists zincoma ngokuqhubekayo amaklayenti abo abesilisa, abenqatshelwe uthando olungenabugovu, ukuya ezifundweni zokuthuthukisa izinkulumo. Ngakho indoda ekahle - hhayi ecebile kakhulu. Yingakho abasebenzisa izidakamizwa kanye nabaqeqeshi bezemisebenzi, befuna ukubheka i-ruble ende ngokukhohlwa imizwa, njalo bahlala emgodini ophukile. Futhi bamangala kakhulu ukuthi kungani lo wesifazane waya komunye, indoda encane kakhulu.
Uthando noma ubulili
Akumangalisi ukuthi amahlaya ama-humorists owesifazane okhokhela ubulili ngothando, futhi indoda kufanele ibonise uthando kowesifazane ukuze kufezeke ubulili. Ngakho-ke: amadoda amaningi anomqondo omuhle ohlotshaniswa nokuhambisana kocansi. Futhi abesifazane sebekulungele ukwenza ukuvuma okuningi ngenxa yokwaneliseka komuntu, ngoba bazizwa ngenhliziyo yokuthi lokhu kuyindlela yabo yokuthanda. Ngokuyinhloko, isu lebesilisa nabesifazane lokuthola ubudlelwane obuhle lugqugquzela omunye nomunye, futhi ekufundiseni kufanele kuholele enjabulweni.
Kubonakala sengathi indoda efanelekayo kufanele inikeze lona wesifazane ukuthi unothando naye, khona-ke uzothola ithuba lokufeza ucansi oluphelele.
Umndeni noma abangane
Abesifazane bavame ukuphuka ngokuba nomuntu ozohlanganyela kuzo zonke izici zokuphila kwabo. Baphuka ngomyeni ozochitha amahora ekhuluma ngokuziphatha kwezintombi noma odumile. Futhi ngubani ozohamba ngokuthenga nabo ngokujabula.
Uma ucabanga ngalokho umuntu okufanele akwenze kowesifazane ukuze afinyelele kuye okuhle, ungalingeki ukuba ube intombi enhle kakhulu kumkakho. Ngeshwa, emndenini nasebuhlotsheni, lo mbhangqwana ukhathaza kakhulu ukuzihlukanisa. Abangane, izihlobo kanye nezenzo zokuzilibazisa akufanele zishiye impilo yakho ngenkathi ihlanganisa othandekayo.
Ngokusobala, kulinganiselwa ukuthi ukuthengwa kwamadoda aneminyaka engama-50 ubudala, kuvame ukuphela ngesifo, futhi wonke amadoda angaphansi kwengcindezi esitolo esikhulu, lapho umkakhe efuna ukunamathela khona amahora. Yebo, futhi ukuxoxisana ngobuhlobo bamadoda nakho kakulungele. Banesithakazelo nakakhulu ezweni lezifundo: ubuchwepheshe, ibhizinisi, imidlalo kanye nemvelo. Ngakho-ke, ukuzama ukuba yinto enhle yowesifazane, indoda akufanele iwele umugqa othize. Umngane ongcono wokuthenga ezitolo zangaphambi kwe-infarction ubi kakhulu kunomuntu ophakathi kokuthenga intombazane. Yingakho empilweni yomuntu ofanelekayo kumele abe nabangani abangakhuluma ngawo ngokudoba, ibhola kanye nokulungiswa kwemoto. Owesifazane ofuna ukuthola indoda ephelele, kufanele akwazi ukwabelana ngezinye izinjabulo zokuphila, hhayi kuphela kuye, kodwa nabangani.
Ngokuvamile, imithetho yemvelo yonke ebuhlotsheni bendoda nowesifazane ayikho futhi ayikwazi. Indoda yakho ingakhuluma futhi ingalungile futhi inzondo yebhola kanye nokudoba. Futhi abangane bangenandaba ngokuphelele nezitolo. Umyeni wakho angathola kalula imali eningi ekukhulumeni, ukuthi unesithakazelo ekupholiseni nasekhaya, ephikisana nawe ngezihloko ezihlukahlukene. Ngakho-ke uma owesifazane efuna indoda ephelele futhi indoda ifuna ukuba ngowesifazane, indlela engcono kakhulu yokwazi, ukutadisha nokuthola amaphuzu okuxhumana okuzokwenza wonke umuntu ajabule. Futhi wenze ngaphandle kokupheka kwendawo yonke yenjabulo, okungekho nje emvelweni.