Namuhla, umuntu ongenaso isikhathi sokubeletha futhi ongakwazi ukuwuthola ngenxa yempilo, aphethwe yizinto eziphilayo noma indlela yokuphila, ngakho-ke lesi sihloko sizohanjiswa ngesihloko sokuthi ukwedluliswa kwengane kudlula kanjani . Lapha uzofunda izinto ezibalulekile ezidingekayo ukuze kuzuze injabulo enkulu.
Inqubo yokwamukelwa kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, futhi nje kuphela ukuthi ayinikezi ingane entandane. Abazali besikhathi esizayo bahlolisiswa ngokucophelela kusukela esimweni sempilo, kuhlanganise nengqondo, ekuziphatheleni izinhlalakahle, bese kuqala ukulungiswa kwamadokhumenti okuyokwenza ube nenjabulo enkulu, ngesimo somntwana omncane.
Futhi-ke, kunezindlela eziningana zokusiza izingane ezingenayo injabulo yokuzwa uthando lomama. Futhi okuqala kwalokhu kuyamukelwa . Ukwamukelwa kuyindlela yokwenza ubuhlobo, okuwukuthi, ukwamukela ingane njengegazi, ingane iba yindabuko nazo zonke izimo eziholela, amalungelo kanye nemithwalo yemfanelo. Ukuze ukwazi ukuthola ingane, ayikho imingcele yobudala. Uma ingane yamukelwa, ingane ithola isibongo sabazali abasha, futhi igama elisha kanye ne-patronymic lingashintsha usuku nendawo yokuzalwa. Umzali osamukelayo angaba bobabili bomshado nabazali abangabodwa. Inqubo yokwamukelwa ithatha isikhathi eside kakhulu kunezinye izinhlobo zokulondoloza, njengoba imvume yokutholwa inikezwa yinkantolo yomphakathi. Ukwamukelwa kwanikeza futhi ikhefu lokubeletha kanye nezinkokhelo ngokuphathelene nokuzalwa kwengane, uma usana lamukelwa, kanye nesinxephezelo sesikhathi esisodwa sokuthola ingane evela esikhungweni sombuso. Kuye indawo yokuhlala, izindleko zenyanga zenyanga zikhokhwa. Ukuhlolwa kwenziwa iminyaka emithathu kanye ngonyaka, emva kwalokho isheke singakhanselwa uma ukukhuliswa nokugcinwa kwengane kuhlangabezana nazo zonke izidingo.
Ukuze uqale indlela yokwamukelwa, kudingeka uqale uvakashele i-ejensi yokugcinwa endaweni yokuhlala. Kubalulekile ukuqoqa ulwazi ngesimo sempilo nokulungiselela amadokhumenti ukuthola imvume evela kumagunya okuqapha mayelana nethuba lokuba ngumzali osamukelayo. Isinyathelo esilandelayo ukuhambisa amadokhumenti kumphathi wokugcina, lapho imibhalo izohlolwa khona ngabachwepheshe. Futhi kuphela lapho uzothola iziphetho mayelana nokuthi kungenzeka ukuba ngumzali osamukelayo. Ukuze uthole imvume yokuthola ingane, amadokhumenti alandelayo adingekayo:
- umlando omfushane;
- isitifiketi esivela endaweni yokuqashwa ngokukhombisa isimo nesigungu;
- umbiko wezokwelapha mayelana nesimo sempilo (ukuhlolwa kwe-venereologist, isifo sengqondo, umculi wezinzwa, isazi, isazi sezinambuzane, ukuhlaziywa kwe-laboratory ye-Wasserman, i-AIDS);
- Isitifiketi esivela e-ejensi yezindaba zangaphakathi ngokungabikho kwezinkolelo zangaphambilini.
Ngemuva kwayo yonke le nqubo, ungaqala ukufuna ingane, evela emzimbeni wabathengi, unikezwe ukudluliselwa kokwazisa ingane, noma ngokuqondile, nemibuzo yemibuzo yengane, ekhombisa iminyaka yobudala, igama lokugcina lobulili kanye nosuku lokuzalwa, nedethi yokuzalwa, kanye neminye imininingwane mayelana nengane . Uma ungeke ukwazi ukuthola ingane endaweni yakho yokuhlala noma azikho izikhungo zezingane endaweni yakho yokuhlala, ungaphendukela ngokuphephile kwelinye igunya lokugcinwa.
Emva kokukhetha ingane, ungafaka isicelo enkantolo, futhi ulinde ngesineke isinqumo senkantolo. Emva kwalokho uzothola ikhophi yesinqumo senkantolo ezandleni zakho futhi uthole isitifiketi sokutholwa, isitifikedi sokuzalwa somntwana, nokubhaliswa kwengane endaweni yokuhlala yabazali.
Esikhathini sethu kukhona umthetho wemfihlo yokwamukelwa. Isigaba 139 se-Code Family of the Russian Federation sithi izikhulu eziqaphela ukutholwa kufanele zigcine imfihlo yokutholwa kwengane. Ukudalulwa okuyimfihlo ngokumelene nentando yommangali owenziwe yisikhulu uzojeziswa ngesilinganiso esiqinile futhi kuvinjelwe ukuqhubeka nokusebenza kulowo mkhakha.
Indlela yesibili yokuthola ingane ngumlondolozi (ukunakekelwa) - ukunakekelwa kusekwe phezu kwezingane kuze kube yiminyaka engu-14 ubudala, nokugcinwa kwabantwana kusukela eminyakeni engu-14 kuya kweyishumi nesishiyagalolunye ubudala. Umnakekeli unamalungelo omzali ezindabeni zokukhuliswa nokufundiswa kwengane, futhi umgcini ubophezele ngokugcwele ingane. Futhi ukunakekelwa kungamiswa isikhathi esithile noma ngaphandle kwegama. Uma ubhalisa ukunakekelwa, ingane inegama lakhe, isibongo kanye ne-patronymic, usuku nosendaweni yokuzalwa alishintshi. Izigungu zokulondoloza zinelungelo lokuzilawula phezu kwezimo zokugcinwa kwengane nokukhuliswa kwengane. Ngokuvamile ukugcinwa kwezokuphepha kungumkhawulo wokwamukelwa. Ukuze umlondolozi umlondolozi uthola izinkokhelo zenyanga zonke zokugcinwa kwengane.
Umndeni osondelene nawo uyindlela yesithathu, kuyindlela yokukhulisa nokugcina ingane. Kulokhu, isivumelwano senziwa phakathi komndeni noma ngabanye kanye neziphathimandla zokulondoloza ekudluliseni kwengane ekukhuliseni isikhathi esithile. Ukugcinwa kwengane kunemali eyanele, futhi abazali ababeletha bathola umholo futhi banikezwa isikhundla esiphakeme. Umndeni osondelene nawo uyisikhathi sokuthola ingane, njengoba ingane ngalesikhathi sokulondeka ijwayele ukujwayela futhi ihlanganiswe nabazali abathandayo, ngakho-ke abazali kufanele balungele ukutholwa.
I-patronage yindlela yokukhulisa ingane emndenini, oye waqeqesha emzimbeni wokulondoloza. Isivumelwano esinezintathu siphethwe phakathi komndeni, iziphathimandla zokugcina kanye nenhlangano yezintandane. Ukuphinda kusetshenziselwa ukuvota kubuye kusetshenziswe njengenguquko ekutholeni ingane. Ukugcinwa kwengane kubuye kukhokhwe imali, futhi irekhodi lomsebenzi libhekwa. I-ejensi yokulondoloza ihlela ukuqeqeshwa, ukuphumula nokuphathwa komuntu ohlonishwayo, futhi basize ekukhuliseni.
Ukukhuluma - ingane ivele ivakashele, noma ichitha ngempelasonto noma iholidi emndenini othile, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo imibhalo yokuhlala kwakhe unomphela emndenini ayitholakali, okungukuthi, ingane iphinda ibuyele ezintandaneni. Ngokusho kweziphathimandla zokulondoloza, lolu hlobo lwesitokisi lusiza ingane ukuba ixazulule ngaphandle kwezintandane futhi ifunde okuningi kunokwintandane. Ngosizo lokuqeqesha umntwana unomngani noma isihlobo ngaphandle kwenanandane, evumela ingane ukuba ingasondwa. Futhi, ukuqeqesha kungaba yintshintsho yokuthola ingane, okusiza ukubuka kahle ingane.
Siza ingane ehlezi ezindongeni zamnyama zezintandane futhi uzizwe unesizungu kangangokuba ibangela umuzwa wokuphelelwa ithemba. Siza ingane ukuthola umndeni futhi imnike uthando, ngoba noma yimuphi ingane ingaba yindabuko.