Impendulo: imithetho emithathu yobungane nengane yakho

Ukunika amandla, amandla kanye nesikhathi somntwana, abazali bayakha ubudlelwane bomndeni obungenakuhlukaniswa. Indlela yokubenza babe namandla futhi bafudumele? Izazi zengqondo zithi: imishwana nezenzo zabantu abadala zifana nebhuloho lomoya. Bakwazi ukuhlanganisa nokuhlukanisa abantu abaseduze kakhulu emhlabeni.

Umthetho wokuqala wokusebenzisana ukukhululeka. Amagama athi "ukuthethelela", "ngiyabonga", "yibani nomusa" futhi "Ngiyiphutha" izobonisa ingane - abazali abahle, bangenza amaphutha. Kodwa sihlale silungele ukubona nokuvuma lokhu. Le ndlela ikhulisa igunya labantu abadala emehlweni omntwana, idala isimo sokuthula nokwethemba emndenini.

Umthetho wesibili uyisekelo. Lo mqondo ojulile uhlanganisa kokubili izingxoxo eside "inhliziyo enhliziyweni", kanye nezimfihlo ezincane ezijwayelekile, nemidlalo ehlangene, nokuba khona emisebenzini ebalulekile yengane. Kuvela kulezi zenzakalo ezithokozisa izinkumbulo ezijabulisayo zobuntwana.

Umthetho wesithathu ukuthembeka. Izingane zithinta kakhulu amanga: azizwa ngokungazelelwe ngisho nasezikhulwini ezingabonakali kakhulu. Ukukhohlisa ingane ngenxa yokuthi "usemncane kakhulu ukuyiqonda" - asikho isidingo sokumangala kamuva ngenxa yokungabi nethemba. Ukuvulwa kuyisisekelo esakhiwa umndeni ojabulayo.