Bathanda kakhulu ukuhleka usulu, kodwa baye bavimbela amahlaya kakhulu. Bacabanga nokuthi wonke umuntu kufanele enze into yakhe siqu. Uma ufuna ukuzenza izinwele, awufanele ugijime ekhaya kuma-curlers, futhi lokhu kufanele kwenziwe kuwe ngumuntu wezinwele. Abantu baseMelika bathanda ukuphumula. Bachitha isikhathi sabo sokuzilibazisa emapikiniki, ukudoba, futhi bavame ukuvakashela imishayo nezinkampani. Bazama njalo ukubona ohlangothini olukhanyayo kukho konke, ngisho noma engekho. Ukuzama ukuthola okuthile okuhle kunoma yisiphi isimo.
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Kulokhu, okokuqala, kufanele uthathe isinyathelo. Ngenxa yokuthi laba bantu besaba ukuhamba kuqala, besaba ukulahlwa, kanti abaseMelika abathandi ukuhlukunyezwa. Okwesibili, ngenxa yokuzikhandla okukhulu, kungcono "ukubamba" emsebenzini, ngoba yinto abanikeza ngayo isikhathi esiningi. Uma ungafuni ukujwayelana ngale ndlela, ungaya ebhasini kusihlwa bese wenza umngane wakho ophumayo, noma, noma okungenani u-barman. Ukuze ujwayele, mnike ikhadi lakho lebhizinisi bese ubhala kuyo indawo nesikhathi somhlangano. Uzobona, ngokuqinisekile uzofika. Ukuziphatha emhlanganweni kuyadingeka ngokuqiniseka, ngoba abaseMelika bathanda abesifazane abaphumelelayo. Futhi ulungele, ukuthi ukudla kwasekudleni endaweni yokudlela wonke umuntu uyozikhokhela. Futhi noma ngabe uhlala ndawonye futhi uqashe indlu, ngokuqinisekile uzokhokha konke okuyingxenye. Sitshele ngawe, kodwa, kungenjalo, ungamcindezeli. Khuluma ngokuthi konke okumangalisayo kuyini! Amahlaya amaningi futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - kumamatheka kakhulu, khona-ke kuyoba lula ukujwayela umMelika bese ushada.
Hlela isikhathi sakho sokudlulisela ndawonye, uhlele ukuya ezindaweni azithandayo ukuvakashela, isibonelo, uya kumdlalo weqembu lakhe lebhola lezinyawo. Uzoyithanda, kuyoba mnandi, ngoba useduze nephupho lakho ...
Embhedeni, ube naye ongalindelekile. Faka umcabango wakho, ummangaze, ngoba wayekhathele ngokweqhinga lakhe, akafani nomunye nomunye. Qala ukuwufudumala uma usasebenza. Mthumelele izincwadi ze-e-mail zigcwele uthando futhi unamathisele izithombe zakho ezimbalwa kusuka esihlokweni esifanayo. Ekupheleni kwamahora okusebenza ngaphandle kokuxwayisa, fikela ehhovisi lakhe bese ulala naye ehhovisi lakhe. Ayikho into enjalo? Ngakho-ke, kwenzeke emotweni eduze kwendlu. Futhi ayihambisani na? Bese uzama ekhaya ukuba ube nesithakazelo kunazo zonke emhlabeni futhi ungakhohlwa ukuhlobisa konke ekamelweni lokulala (amakhandlela, i-champagne), upheke ukhilimu, ama-strawberries, ngokuvamile, yenza umuntu wamaphupho akho ajabule kakhulu kulo mzuzu! Yebo, ingabe i-American yakho esilinde isikhathi eside? Manje, linda ukunikezwa kwesandla nenhliziyo. Kungenzeka ukuthi kuyoba yothando kanye nesipho esihle. Kodwa-ke noma ngabe unesibopho sengqondo sakho, cishe cishe uzoqhubeka nokuzikhokhela, banombono onjalo.
Kodwa lapha uzoba nezingane kuphela lapho okhethiweyo wakho eyi-100% eqinisekile ukuthi uzokwazi ukunikeza ikusasa elihle lomndeni wakho iminyaka eminingana ezayo. Futhi manje, manje usumndeni waseMelika ojwayelekile ngokuvakashela ama-picnics kanye nomkhuba ompunga. Siyakuhalalisela! Waqaphela iphupho futhi washada umMelika.
Yini okufanele ngiyenze uma ufuna ukuqeda konke lokhu? Indlela yokuthola umyeni ohlukanisile? Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukumvusa zonke izindlela ukuze uhlasele, uhlale ugcizelela ukushiyeka kwakhe, futhi ugxile ekuhlulekeni kwakhe, ngoba abaseMelika bangabantu abaye bafundiswa ukuthi kusukela njalo ebuntwaneni bahlale bephelele. Abazibekezeli ukugxeka, futhi ngale ndlela ke, izidakamizwa nezidokotela zengqondo zidinga kakhulu eMelika. Manje kuyithuba lakho lokukhetha ummeli. Hiring isazi esihle, ngoba kungenzeka ukuthi oshade naye ngeke afune ukwabelana ngesigamu sempahla yakho enomlingani nawe. Ngokuqinisekile uzozama ngazo zonke izindlela ukuze asuse kuwe okugcina. Yiba nesibindi futhi ungayeki, khona-ke uzowina ukunqoba okuncane!