Uma ubona ukuthi indoda yakho ethandekayo idinga ukwesekwa kwakho, zama ukwenza konke okusemandleni ukumsiza ukuba anqobe ubunzima obulandelayo obhekene nayo endleleni yakhe, yenza ukuthi akholelwe kuye futhi futhi akhombise ukuthi uma uhlangana ndawonye amandla. 9 amathiphu ukusiza indoda ukunqoba izigaba zokuphila ezinzima
- Uma nje uthola noma uqonda ngokubona komuntu ukuthi unenkinga, ungamhlangi ngokushesha ngemibuzo, umnike ithuba lokuya eshaweni, umnike, futhi uma enokuphumula okuncane, cela ukuthi kwenzekani. Uma le ndoda ingafuni ukuphendula, mnike isikhathi esincane sokucabanga ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ungamcindezeli, ngoba akayona into enhle, futhi imibuzo yakho ingenza isimo sakhe sicindezeleke nakakhulu.
- Uma umuntu wakho enquma ukuvula futhi akutshele ngalokho okwenzekile, mlalele ngokucophelela, ungaphazamisi, ngisho noma imisho ethile iphindaphindwa, ngoba ngezikhathi ezinjalo kunenkinga kaningi kakhulu ekubunjweni kwemicabango. Umsebenzi wakho ukuwulalela, futhi umtshele ukuthi ufuna ukuzwa kuwe.
- Kubaluleke kakhulu kulo mzuzwana ukukhombisa umphefumulo wakho womshado ukuthi naphezu kwazo zonke izinkinga nezinkinga, uqhubeka ukholelwa kuye, futhi ukholelwa ukuthi uzothola indlela yokuphuma kunoma yisiphi isimo. Ngenxa yalesi senzo, ukuzethemba kwakho kuyodlula kuye, futhi uzoba nomoya wesibili nethuba lokunqoba zonke izinkinga.
- Uma inkinga umthandi wakho ohlangane naye ejwayelekile kuwe futhi wazi isixazululo esihle, khona-ke qiniseka ukuthi wabelane naye ngemicabango yakho. Vele uqaphele kakhulu futhi ukhulume kahle kakhulu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani ebunzini, njengoba lokhu kungamcasula le ndoda. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umuntu azizwe eqinile futhi aqiniseke ukuthi ungumvikeli womndeni wakho.
- Ngalezo zinsuku lapho indoda yakho ikhungathekile ngenxa yezinkinga noma icindezelekile, zama ukumbonisa ukunakekelwa okukhulu, ube mnene futhi ungamgodli kuye. Ungadluli izinkinga ezifuywayo, sicela uthande izitsha zakhe ezizithandayo, ubuke naye amafilimu akhe abathandayo, mjabulise embhedeni - konke lokhu kuzomsiza ukuba aphazamiseke kancane ezinkingeni.
- Kubalulekile ukuthi ubambelele futhi ungangeni ekucindezelekeni kanye nendoda yakho, zama ukuhamba "okuhle", kodwa uma nawe ucindezelekile, indoda yakho ngeke ikhathazeke kuphela ngezinkinga zayo, kodwa futhi isimo sakho sengqondo.
- Uma umuntu elahlekelwa umsebenzi wakhe noma umndeni wakho unenkinga enkulu yezezimali, ungazami ukuhlambalaza umyeni wakhe ngalokhu, ukuhlambalaza kwakho kuzokwenza ngcono isimo. Nakuba kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kunzima kangakanani noma ukwesabisa kangakanani, gcina futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo usize umyeni wakho ekufuneni umsebenzi omusha nezixazululo ezingezona ezejwayelekile.
- Uma kungenzeka, hamba eholidini ndawonye. Kuyinto eholide enganikeza isikhathi sokuphumula, emhlabeni jikelele ubheke inkinga bese uqala ukuyixazulula ngamandla amasha. Ungayisebenzisi yonke iholide nje imicabango enjalo, kufanele ukhululeke futhi ujabule.
- Uke wabhekana namacala anjalo ngaphambili, noma kwenzeke kumuntu owaziyo? Qinisekisa ukusitshela ngakho, ukwabelana ngolwazi mayelana nokuthi baphume kanjani kuleso simo, mhlawumbe le ndaba izoshukumisa othandekayo wakho kwisisombululo esiyimpumelelo kwenkinga.