Ukufiphaza - ukungabi nentshisekelo ngokuphelele kwezocansi futhi, ngenxa yalokho, i-orgasm. "Ezingxenyeni zeqhwa," izinkambu ezihlukumezayo azizweli, ngakho isenzo socansi asizijabulisi neze kubo. Kodwa frigid ngempela ayinayo i-7%. Kwezinye izimo, ukubandlulula ngokocansi kuyicabanga, okwesikhashana. Ngisho noma owesifazane engatholi i-orgasm, kodwa akwazi ukukhangwa ngokocansi futhi athole ukujabulisa ubulili, akabandayo, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ukuqina komzimba kuyingozi kakhulu kwabesifazane, noma kunalokho, impilo yabesifazane. Kodwa okukuvimbela ukuba uthole i-orgasm, ake siyihlole.
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Abafuni ukucasula ubulili obunamandla, kepha ngokuvamile babeka icala lokuthi abathandekayo babanda ngenxa yokuthi ukukhulelwa kuyingozi kakhulu kwabesifazane. Akumangalisi ukuthi basho ukuthi abesifazane abathandekayo abakho, kodwa kukhona amadoda abacebile. Zombili zihlukumeza futhi ziyi-indelicate. Ake sithi, lona wesifazane wanquma ukumangaza umlingani wakhe, egqoke izingubo ezithandekayo, futhi akazange abonge ukucabanga okuphathelene nobulili: wahleka noma waqala ukumhlekisa. Ngeke kube nje i-orgasm - ukusondelana ngokwayo kuyobonakala kungadingekile kowesifazane. Noma yikuphi ukungqubuzana phakathi kobambisene nabalingani bokusondelana, ukulahla owesifazane wenjabulo yocansi. Abahlali behle njalo lapho bexabana. Ngisho noma owesifazane ebhekana nokucwilisa kuyingozi kakhulu kwabesifazane, futhi akaphikisana nabathandekayo bakhe, kodwa, uthi, nendodana yakhe noma noninazala, angase aphuze impilo ebuseduze.
Yisiphi isizathu?
I-Psychological "taboo". Uma, uthi, abazali baphakamisa ukuthi ukusondelana kobulili kuwumsebenzi ongcolile, kuhlala "kwi-subcortex", ngisho noma ukhohlwa "imiyalo" yabazali. Ngesinye isikhathi, ngesikhathi se-hypnosis nomhlengikazi, owesifazane uzokhumbula kahle ukuthi abazali bakhe "bahlabelele" kuye. Futhi kulokhu kuphela ochwepheshe abanekhono angamsindisa emithwalweni yesikhathi esedlule.
Ukwehla komthethosisekelo kuyingozi kakhulu kwabesifazane, okuthinta inani elincane labesifazane. Masiqaphele ukuthi, njengombuso, akahlupheki ikakhulukazi, ngoba ukubandlulula ngokocansi akubakhathazi nhlobo: akuphazamisi ukubeletha abantwana nokuba ngabafazi abathandekayo (ikakhulukazi uma umyeni enesimo sengqondo esibi socansi). Ngokuqina komthethosisekelo, izitho zangasese aziphenduli ukucasuka, kanti le nkosikazi ayifuni ukushaya indlwabu noma, yithi, cela umyeni wakhe ukuthi uxoxe ngomlomo. Laba besifazane abanawo amaphupho angenangqondo futhi ngisho nangenkathi ende futhi enenkani ikhukhumeza ukuthi ayikwazi ukumanzi "lapho". Futhi ziqala ukuyinkimbinkimbi, kuphela lapho oshade naye noma izintombi bezwakala i-alamu, bathi, uhlala kanjani ngaphandle kwama-orgasms?
Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili esikhathini esedlule (ukudlwengula noma ukuhlukunyezwa kwentombi), ukwesaba ukukhulelwa okungafunwa (ngezinye izikhathi kuba yisisindo esikhulu), ukucindezeleka nokukhathala okungapheli nakho kuyimbangela eyinhloko yokuqina okuyingozi kakhulu kwabesifazane.
Izinkinga zemvelo: ukutheleleka, ukuvuvukala, ukukhulisa ngokweqile kwesisu ngemuva kokubeletha nokunye okunye kungabangela ukubandisa ngokocansi.
Izifundo zokuzijabulisa
"Ngesinye isikhathi" ukuhlukanisa ukucabangela okubonakalayo okuvela eqinisweni akunakwenzeka ngaso sonke isikhathi (ikakhulukazi uma umyeni ekhanda ngenhloko ukuthi uyabanda). Uma ungangabazi, thintana nomuntu ocansini wezocansi. Yena, uma kunesidingo, uzokhetha ukwelashwa. Okwamanje, ungathatha lawa macebiso:
Ungasindiswa ku-orgasm, uzibuze ukuthi uyitholile yini noma cha. Ukulungiswa ngokweqile kwisenzo socansi kubangela ukukhathazeka, okuvimbela ukuqala kokukhipha. Ngokusho kwezocansi, uma owesifazane, okungenani kumacala angu-6 kwabangu-10 aneliseka, lokhu sekuvele kuhle.
Fundisisa umzimba wakho . Ngokwezibalo, kwabesifazane abahlanganyela ekushaya indlwabu, ukuqina komzimba kungaphansi kokuphindwe kathathu. Uma unomuzwa wecala noma uhlazo ngesikhathi sokushaya indlwabu, thintana nodokotela. Cishe, njengengane, ujeziswe kakhulu ngokuzama ukuhlola umzimba wakho futhi wakhulela ngokuqiniseka ukuthi awukwazi ukuthinta izitho zangasese. Ngenxa yalokho, bahluleka kakhulu.
Shintsha i-pose! Ngokusho kocwaningo, ukuhamba okuthandayo okuyi-conjugal isithunywa sevangeli, lapho owesifazane engenzi lutho, futhi indoda iyasebenza. Zama izikhundla ongakwazi ukulawula imvamisa, ukujula nokulinganisa kweziphazamiso. Ngendlela, ungaphinde uthuthukise isikhundla sezithunywa zevangeli: abanye besifazane bathola izinzwa eziningi ezintsha, beka imilenze ngaphansi kwezintambo noma imilenze.
Ukuzivocavoca umzimba , njengesibonelo, ngosizo lukaDkt. Kegel umzimba. Lokhu kuzosiza ukunciphisa ubulili (okubaluleke kakhulu kubesifazane abasanda kuba umama) futhi kuzosusa izinkinga eziningi zocansi. Funda ukucindezela futhi uphumule imisipha ye-perineum, ukuletha isikhathi sokucindezela kumasekhondi angu-20. Bese ucabanga ukuthi i-vagin i-elevator. Cindezela imisipha ye "phansi" yokuqala, ubambelele kule ndawo imizuzwana emihlanu. Bese ukhuphukela esitezi sesibili, ukucindezela imisipha kakade kunamandla. Qhubeka ukhuphukela phezulu, bese uhamba phansi ngokushelela phansi. Kuyasiza futhi ukuqonda inqubo yokuxoshwa (ukuqhuma) - ayikuthi nje i-muscle ye-vaginal, kodwa futhi i-anus, futhi iyasiza ukulwa nokucwenga okuyingozi kakhulu kwabesifazane.
Zizungeze nge-flavour ezithakazelisayo: ylang-ylang, sandalwood, bergamot, i-mint, i-clove. Engeza amaconsi ambalwa amafutha abalulekile ekugezeni, ukhilimu we-massage noma isibani esiphunga. Ukugcoba umzimba kuyingozi kakhulu kwabesifazane, njengoba odokotela abaningi beqinisekisa.
Ungabandakanyi ekudleni kwamafutha : ebhotela, isibonelo, iningi lamavithamini A, eliwusizo kakhulu emzimbeni wesifazane. Noma kunjalo, inani elikhulu lamafutha (lipids) lilimaza kokubili isibalo nomsebenzi wocansi. Ososayensi base-Italy baye bathola ukuthi abathandi be-32% bezintuthwane ezinamafutha banenkinga yokungabi nengozi kakhulu kwabesifazane.