Ukwesaba kwezingane zethu kungukuthi, ngokuyinhloko, isithelo sefantasy esabesiswa ngumuntu noma into yengane. Ngokuvamile, akukhathazeki ukuthi singachaza kanjani ukwesaba kwethu kwengane. Kubalulekile ukuthi ukwesaba kwezingane zethu akudingeki, ngoba ngezinye izikhathi benza impilo yethu ingabekezeleleki futhi ingaphelele. Mhlawumbe ukukhathazeka okukhulu kwezingane zethu ukwesaba okungenangqondo nokuntuleka kokuxhumana nokuyiqiniso. Ukwesaba kuyasiza ngempela, ngoba akusize ize ukuthi umvelo usisivuza ngalesi simo. Ngaphambili, lapho umuntu ehlala endaweni yasendle, wayevame ukumsindisa ekufeni okuthile.
Ake sibone ukuthi yini ukwesaba kwezingane zethu ezixhunyiwe, okuvame ukubeka imvelo yethu yentuthuko kanye nentuthuko yezobuchwepheshe yobudala bethu obubucayi.
Ngokuvamile ukwesaba kwezingane zethu kuvela ezimweni ezihlukahlukene. Isibonelo, umsindo okhaliphile futhi oqinile, ukubonakala okusheshayo komfokazi phambi kwamehlo ethu, umsindo wamanzi wephayiphi endlini, i-vacuum cleaner. Lolu hlu lungabuye lwaqhubeka kuze kube nini nanini, ngoba inganekwane engenamkhawulo. Ngakho-ke, ukwesaba kwezingane zethu kungaba yinto engavamile kakhulu.
Kwenzeka ukuthi ebuntwaneni thina, besaba ubumnyama nemithunzi efihlakeleyo ekukhanyeni okungavamile, ekukhuleni, singazibikeli thina, besaba ukuhlala sisodwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kwenzeka ukuthi thina, besaba ebuntwaneni, siqala ukwesaba izimpukane, ama-clowns, izilwane ezilahlekile, amazinyo, ukujeziswa ngephutha elincane nokunye. Kungenzeka ukuthi ubhale izinto eziningana kakhulu ezingabonakali emehlweni omuntu omdala ongase akwesabeke yingqondo yengane, okubangela ukwesaba kwethu kwasebuntwaneni empilweni yabantu abadala.
Iningi lezinkathazo zethu zobuntwana, ezibonakala isikhathi esifushane ebuntwaneni, zinyamalale ngaphandle kokulandelana, kepha ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi ukushaqeka okukhulu okuhlangenwe nakho kwethu ebuntwaneni nakho kuhlala ekukhuleni lapho sibhekene nezwe elibukhali lobuqiniso, futhi ingqondo engacabangiyo, ekulungele kuyo, ifuna okukhipha ngaphandle. Uma sifihla ukwesaba kwezingane zethu, ngakho-ke, siveza umbono ongcono kulabo abasizungezile kunokuba umuntu esatshwe ngokuvakashela udokotela wamazinyo.
Ukuze kuncishiswe ukwesaba kwabo okutholile ebuntwaneni, siqala ukuhlanganyela ekuphakamisweni okuzenzakalelayo ukuthi akukho ngozi. Ngakho-ke sizama ukufakazela ukungalungi kwenkambo yokucabangela yokukhumbuza izinkumbulo kusukela ebuntwaneni besikhathi sokuphila. Kodwa empeleni kungumlutha omdala nje kuphela kanye nomzamo wokuzikhohlisa. Njengoba ukuphila kubonisa, le ndlela yokusikisela komuntu isebenza, futhi ukwesaba kwethu kwengane kuphelela ngemuva, ukunikeza indlela yomuntu omdala logic. Ngakho-ke, sizikhuthazela ukuthi sifuna, isibonelo, inja edukile, empeleni siqala ukuzwa ukwesaba kwengane kwesilwane. Noma kunjalo, impande yethu enjaweni yokwesaba ikhula kusukela ebuntwaneni. Mhlawumbe, njengomntwana, wesaba ukukhwabanja kwenja, futhi manje uqala futhi uzame ukugwema izinja.
Into ehlukumezeka kakhulu yukuthi lapho sisesaba kakhulu into, ukuqonda kwethu okuqala kuqala ukuletha ukwesaba kwezingane zethu ebusweni bokuqaphela. Kunjenge-reaction chain, eqhubeka njalo. Ngelinye ilanga, sinqotshwa ukwesaba izinja zethu ezinganeni, singathola ngemuva kwesikhathi esithile ukuthi saqala ukwesaba ezinye izinto ezazibukwe ngaphambi kokuthula. Lokhu kusebenza kuwe.
Ake ucabange njengengane futhi ungazami ukuvimbela ukwesaba izingane, kodwa ubheke ngamehlo avulekile, eholele inkhulumomphendvulwano yangaphakathi ukuxazulula impikiswano. Ake sibuyele esibonelweni esifanayo nenja. Bheka inja engenamakhaya, cabanga ukuthi uhlala kabi kangakanani emgwaqweni. Phuma ngemfesane, bese-ke, esikhundleni sokumesaba ingane kuyofika umuzwa omusha - isihawu, futhi ngemuva kokuthandana kwakhe. Ngokushesha uzokwazi ukudlula ngaphandle kokwesaba kudlule inja. Isihluthulelo sokuqonda ukwesaba kwethu kwengane akusikho okwenzekayo kanye namaqiniso, esabe esaba ngakho futhi sizama ukugwema, kodwa ngezizathu ezisishukumisela ukuba sikwenze.
Ungafundi ukulwa nokwesaba kwengane, kodwa funda ukuwahlaziya. Khona-ke ungakhohlwa ngabo kuze kube phakade. Ukuqwashisa kuzoqala ukubhala kabusha ukwesaba kwezingane zethu ngendlela entsha yothando nokuqonda ukuthi akuyona into engokoqobo, kodwa ingqondo yomntwana kuphela.