Ingqondo yengane, indlela yokujwayela ebhodweni

Ngubani owathi inqubo ebalulekile yokufunda kufanele ibe yinduna futhi ingathí sina? Ngokuphambene nalokho - uma umama nobaba beziphatha kalula, ingane ifundela "isobho" sesayensi lula! I-psychology yengane, indlela yokujwayela ebhodweni - isihloko, esinawo namuhla futhi sikhuluma.

Into ebaluleke kunazo zonke isimo sakho sengqondo esihle, ukuqiniseka ukuthi konke kuzokwenzeka ngokuqinisekile, ukuhleka okunempilo nokucabanga okuncane. Ngakho-ke, izindlela ezinhlanu ezijabulisayo nezokujabulisa ezizosiza abantwabakho ukuba bakhe "ubungane" obuqinile ngombhobho.


Indlela engu-1: shayela usizo uMishka!

Ukuze ufunde okuthile okusha kuhlale kujabulisa kakhulu enkampanini yabangane, ngisho noma kuba ngabafowethu abathandekayo. Tshela indaba nge-Mishka efanele ne-sprawl ye-Zaika. Ngendlela ayehlala ngayo, kwakunguMishka kanti ngenkathi esemncane, njengabantwana bonke babegqoke izinwele. Futhi lapho ekhula, umama wamtshengisa indlela izingane ezikhulile eziziphatha ngayo lapho zifunda ukuthi zingasebenzisa kanjani ibhodlela. Kodwa umngane wakhe uZaika wayengenakukwazi ukubhekana nalesi sayensi - uyokhohlwa kuze kube phakade ngopho bese emanya ama-panties akhe. Kubalulekile ukungakhononi iBunny, ngoba ngaleso sikhathi, uma kwenzeka "ingozi", umntwana uzozizwa enecala futhi angenakulinganiswa njengohlamvu lwakhe endabeni. Futhi kufanele igcwaliswe ngephutha - iqiniso lokuthi uBunny, ngemva kwakho konke, ufunde ukusebenzisa imbiza.


Indlela engu-2: imibuthano enobungane

Izingane zijabulela ukufunda ngokulingisa abanye. Umama ngamunye, mhlawumbe ubhekane nesimo lapho, isibonelo, ingane engathandi i-cottage shizi, ngokuzumayo yaqala ukuyidla inkampani nezinye izingane. Sebenzisa lokhu ukucabangela ngomzwelo kungase kube nokuqeqesha imvuthu usebenzisa ibhodlela. Yiya emndenini onenyane eliye lazi kahle leli khono. Kuyinto efiselekayo ukuthatha ibhodlela lakho, ukuze ingane ingasebenzisa ngokushesha ulwazi lwengqondo etholakalayo.


Indlela engu-3: umsebenzi wokubambisana

Ingane ihlezi ebhodweni, kanti omdala uyambeka eceleni. Iyini ukusetshenziswa kobukhona bomama? Okokuqala, akusizibusisi. Izingane zizohlala zizinzile uma umzali eqondiswa kuye. Okwesibili, umama angakwazi ukulungisa ngokucophelela zonke amaphutha kanye nokungalungile ekusebenzeni. Okwesithathu, lizosekela, lijabule, lidumise.


Indlela engu-4: Mina ngokwami ​​ngiyazi ukuthi kanjani

Ngokuvamile inkinga ivela eqinisweni lokuthi umntwana nomama bangase babe nombono ofanayo wokufunda. Umama, njengomuntu onokuhlangenwe nakho nokudala, uphikelela, futhi ingane ... imelana. Ngezinye izikhathi kungenxa yokuthi kuyingozi. Ukuze ungabhubhisi izinkanuko futhi ungangeni ekunqatsheni kwamachungechunge emanzini, kudingeka uhlehlise ukucindezela. Vumela izinyane liyenze konke okuthandayo, vumela ukuzibonakalisa okuncane kunokuzimela. Angadlala ngamathoyizi, flip ngokusebenzisa incwadi enezithombe ezithakazelisayo, ehlezi ebhodweni, ungaphazamisi. On "impi" zonke izindlela zilungile. Ebuthakathaka kakhulu ekuqaleni, i-psychology yezingane, indlela yokufundisa ingane ebhodweni, kunzima ukwazi, ngakho-ke sincoma indlela elandelayo yokuxazulula le nkinga.


Indlela engu-5: ngidumise

Ah, yeka ukuthi kuhle ukuzwa uma udunyiswa! Ingane encane - iyamjabulisa kabili. Ingabe ingane yenze kahle noma ingabe icela ibhodlela? Siyajabula ngalokhu ngobuqotho nangamandla! Siyadumisa, sithande, sithi "Ungumuntu onjani omuhle", tshela ngempumelelo yophiko owafika emsebenzini futhi wabheka omkhulu kagogo wakhe. Omunye "kodwa"! Uma ingane yenza iphutha futhi ikhohliwe ngebhodlela lapho kunesidingo, akunakwenzeka ukuvuza izikhalazo zokuhlambalaza nokuveza ukunganeliseki nokudelela. Lokhu kuyingozi engqondweni yengqondo yengane engozini futhi engozini. Ukuziphatha kwakho kufanele kukhuthaze futhi kukhuthaze, injabulo nokubonga - ngobuqotho. Futhi konke kuzophuma ngokuqinisekile!

I-Institute of Pediatrics, Obstetrics and Gynecology ithi: kubalulekile ukufundisa ingane embizeni eneminyaka eyi-18. Kule minyaka yobudala bokuvuthwa kokugcina kwengane yomzimba yokulawula ukusebenza kwesisu sakhe namathumbu kwenzeka.