Ubudlelwano nabanye
Indlela yokutshela ubaba osemusha, ukwazisa abazali? Ukuphendula okujwayelekile kwesipapa sesikhathi esizayo: "Ucwaningo aluqediwe, akukho msebenzi ohlakaniphile, sincike kubazali bethu. Futhi ngokujwayelekile, ngifuna ukuziphilela - izinkampani, ukuhamba, ama-discos. Ingabe ufuna ukusisusa konke lokhu? "Umama osemusha kanye nokukhulelwa kwangaphambili esimweni esinjalo yisisusa esiyinhloko salokhu ukusabela komuntu.
Isixazululo
Ungakhubeki ngamagama anjalo. Phela, ukhuluma iqiniso. Abesilisa bavuthiwe kakhudlwana kunabesifazane futhi, uma umama omncane engakakwazi ukuthi impilo yabo yesikhathi esizayo iyokwakhiwa kanjani, khona-ke le nsizwa ngisho nangaphezulu. Ukuqonda lokhu kuholela ekuphatheni okulungile nokuhlakanipha. Okuhlangenwe nakho, futhi ngisho nangokwengeziwe amahlaya omama osemncane nokukhulelwa kokuqala ngeke kusize.
Inkinga
Ukungahloniphi okuhlobene nokungaqali kwengqondo
Ikuvumela ukuba ubuke kalula izinto, ungakhathazeki ngezihluthulelo, ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ukuhola indlela yokuphila evamile - isikhungo, ukuphuma emsebenzini, izinkampani ezihlekisayo, ama-discos. Kunezinhlobo eziningi zamandla, isisu asiphazamisi, isibalo sihlala sincane kakhulu njengangaphambili, asilimazi lutho, kepha siyabuhlungu, ngakho siyayeka. Kodwa into eyinhloko akuyona ukungaphezu kwayo ukuze ukuthula okunjalo kungabi yizinyembezi. Ukuvutha komzimba ekuzibonele ukuthi ukhulelwe kungaholela ekukhungathekeni okukhulu esikhathini esizayo.
Isixazululo
Ukuze ugweme imiphumela ebuhlungu yomama osemusha kanye nokukhulelwa kokuqala, yenza umyalo wokuvakashela udokotela njalo. Ukuze ungabi mnandi kangaka, thatha intombi yakho, futhi uma ungenayo, faka umculo wakho ozithandayo ube ngumdlali futhi ...
Inkinga
Ukucabanga ngebudlelwane nomntanakhe
Umntanakho ubonakala njengomfanekiso omuhle womdlalo othi "Omama-Dodakazi": inkaba encane ene-pink-cheeked enezinwele ezinamahloni ezembethe izingubo eziphathekayo zihlala kahle zihamba ngesikebhe esibizayo, futhi wonke umuntu ozungezile uyamthanda. Ekuphileni, inkaba ayithinti ngaso sonke isikhathi, ingakhala, ikhule, icela ukuba idle, futhi ayikwazi ukushiywa, njengedoli, lapho umdlalo uphazamisa. Amantombazane, ezinsukwini zokuqala emva kokubeletha, abhekana nalendlela yangempela, adidekile. Ngokushesha banquma ukuthi lokhu kuyisibindi sabo kuphela, ngakho bazama ukudlulisela yonke imithwalo yemfanelo yengane kumunye wabadala (umama, umkhwekazi, umntanami), bese bezwa umuzwa wecala.
Isixazululo
Ukuze ulahlekelwe inkohliso, hamba endlini lapho kukhona umntwana usana. Awunayo indebe yetiyi, kodwa qaphela "izinsuku zokusebenza" zomama osemusha. Buza ukuthi mangaki amahora ngosuku angakwazi ukulala, ubukele inqubo yokudla, ukushintsha ama-diapers, ukugula kwesimo.
Inkinga
Ubaba osemncane akahle abe ngumsizi omuhle eminyakeni yokuqala. Umama osemusha kanye nokukhulelwa kokuqala okuzofanele anqobe banezinkinga ezintsha nezixazululo.
Amadoda ngokuvamile angathathi izinsana, ayesaba ukulimaza, okwenza babaphathe kabi. Kodwa uma ubaba osekhulile angakwazi ukubhekana nokumesaba kwakhe, khona-ke oneminyaka engamashumi amabili ayinakwenzeka.
Isixazululo
Zama ukuvumelanisa kusengaphambili ekusabalazweni kwemithwalo yemfanelo nopapa osemusha. Kodwa ungazami ukulilayisha ngokugcwele. Masiqonde ngokucacile indawo yakhe yomthwalo wemfanelo. Futhi ungatholi isizathu sokuthi umsebenzi wakhe uyisisebenzi, futhi eyakho yinkomo nendlu. Ngemva kwesikhashana, ubaba uzokujabulela ukudlala ibhola lebhola futhi afune futhi afune ingane (ubulili bomntwana akukhathaleki), uhlale phansi emadolweni phambi komshini wokuqapha ikhompiyutha, aphathe isobho elibhemayo neCoca-Cola, ngezinye izikhathi akhohlwe ukumkhipha enkulisa bese emyisa emhlanganweni wabusuku ebusuku. .
Inkinga
Ukuma okuqinile kumphakathi
Kule minyaka kubalulekile ukuba umama osemusha athathe indawo yakhe emphakathini, enze umsebenzi. Futhi okungajwayelekile ukuthi ngubani ngokuzithandela avuma ukushintshanisa lokhu ngamabhodwe nama-diapers.
Isixazululo
Futhi akudingeki ushintshe! Umama omncane omncane akuyona yonke into yokuqala edela konke okuphilayo ngenxa yengane, bese emangalela ngokuhluleka kwakhe. Amahora amabili okukhulumisana ngekhwalithi, lapho uyingxenye yezingane zonke - ukudlala, ukwenza, ukuhamba, ukukhohlwa konke okusemhlabeni, ukubiza usuku lonke, ukuchitha imali ndawonye. Ungayeki ukusebenza kwakho kobuchwepheshe. Chaza emndenini wakho ukuthi ingane izoba ngcono kuphela kusukela kamuva. Ungesabi ukucela usizo oluvela kunina, umkhwekazi noma umfana. Nika imisebenzi: akeke abasizi banakekele ukupheka, ukufaka izinsimbi, ukulala kwansuku zonke, futhi okwenu kuzohlala kujabulisa kakhulu umama osemncane kanye nezingane: yisikhathi sokuphoqeleka ebusuku, amakilasi, imidlalo.
Lokhu kuyathakazelisa:
Esikhathini senethiwekhi yezitolo ezithengisa izingubo zezingane, abathengisi babuzwa ukuthi baqaphele lokho okushiwo imibhangqwana "abakhulelwe". Ngakho-ke, omama abasha abasha bakhetha ngokucophelela abakwa-diaper-loafers, futhi abababa besikhathi esizayo babheka izingubo zabafana 4-5! Kule mibono kucacile lokho ubaba omncane wezibulo lakhe elimelela khona.
Iqiniso
Ngezinye izikhathi abazali abasha bahlinzeka izingane ukuba ziphathe ngegama. Lokhu ngokwezigaba akunakwenziwa, ngoba, lapho ethole ama-comrades asebekhulile kumuntu ka-Masha noPetit noma uKatya noVova, ingane yengqondo iba yintandane. Ubaba nomama osemncane njalonjalo bazoba abangane abangcono kakhulu, okungaze bahlale behlekisa. Eminyakeni engu-20 usuvele uqonde ukuthi izingane ezijabulayo zibazali abajabule kuphela.
Workshop Psychological
Ngokuyinhloko esikhathini esizayo somama osemusha nokukhulelwa kokuqala kuzoxhomeka kunhlobo luni lomndeni oyithatha njengesibonelo. Uma kwakukhona ukuqonda okufanayo emndenini wabazali, le ntombazane iveza ukuthi ingumama, ikopise ngokwengqondo indlela yakhe yemfundo. Emkhayeni womndeni ongekho emthethweni, ngokuphambene nalokho, ukwesaba ukukhulelwa kwengane engaphumeleli, kuphakama ubudlelwano obuyimfihlo. Kodwa kusukela kunoma yikuphi okuhlangenwe nakho, ungathola amaphuzu amahle. Ingxenye nje yamantombazane ngisho nangaphambi kokubeletha uyakwazi ukukhulisa ingane, kanti omunye uyazi ukuthi AKAZI. Thatha iphepha. Yahlukanise ibe ngamakholomu amabili bese ubhala ngokuthembeka lokho okuthandayo ngomndeni wakho nokuthi yini engazange iyenze. Cela ukukwenza okufanayo kumyeni wakho. Manje yenza uhlu lwemigomo yomndeni. Kubhala ngakwesobunxele "izindlela ezingavunyelwe", futhi ngakwesokudla yilokho ozokuqondiswa ekukhuliseni ingane.