"Awungiqondi nhlobo!" kusho owesifazane kule ndoda. "Cha, awuqondi!" - uyaphendula. "Sikhuluma izilimi ezihlukene," bobabili bathi ku-chorus. Akunakwenzeka ukuvumelana? Mhlawumbe. Kodwa ukwamukela kuphela ukuthi abesifazane namadoda bahlelwa ngezindlela ezahlukene.
Lokhu akukona iqiniso lokuthi indoda nowesifazane bayizinhlobo ezimbili ezihlukahlukene ezahlukene eziphilayo. Lokhu kucacile kubo bonke. Umbuzo uhlukile. Kungani amadoda nabesifazane bavame ukufuna izinto ezahlukene? Kungani engenasithakazelo kulokho akuthandayo futhi ngokuphambene nalokho? Kungani kunzima ukubuyisela isigamu sesibili ngokwakho? Impendulo iyingcosana: Amadoda nje ahlukile. Lokhu kuyiqiniso langempela elingenakugwema noma kuphi.
1. Kungani engasho lutho?
Amadoda acabanga ngokucacile, futhi ubulili obuthakathaka - ikakhulukazi. Ngenxa yalokho, indlela abazibona ngayo ihlukile. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, njengoba sazi, abesifazane banokuthuthuka okungcono futhi okubizwa nge-verbal (verbal) intelligence. Yingakho abesifazane bejabulela ukuthululela imvula yomlomo kumlingani. Ngakho bazolile. Ubuchopho besifazane bukhulula i-serotonin engaphezulu, into ehamba kahle. Ebuchosheni bomuntu akuncane. Lokhu kuchaza ukuziphatha kwamadoda. Ukuze "ulayishe" ubulili obuqinile kufanele kuvikelwe kusukela ekugezeni kwamagama nemizwelo. Kungenxa yalesi sizathu ukuthi amadoda amaningi akhetha ukuchitha ubusuku bawo e-TV futhi alalele omkawo ngendlebe.
2. Kungani ehlakaza konke?
Kubuchopho besilisa, cishe akukho imininingwane. Abamele ubulili obunamandla bangase bangaboni uthuli nxazonke, lesi sifo. Futhi hhayi ngenxa yokuthi bayizinhlanzi, kodwa ngenxa yezici zobuchopho. Futhi umphumela walezi zici ngokuvamile uhlambalazwa ngenxa yamasokisi ahlakazekile, ukunakekelwa okwanele kumlingani wakho. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, amadoda abanomzwelo obuthakathaka ngemininingwane, kodwa amandla okubambisana kwembulunga yonke, akukho lutho olungalungisa ukukhwabanisa ngenxa yezingxoxo ezinde zomkakhe efonini noma emikhosini ende ezitolo.
3. Kungani engakhulumi nengane?
Abesifazane abaningi bacasulwa lapho ingane egumbini elilandelayo ibhongela i-beluga, futhi oshade naye ulala futhi angaphumeleli emadayeni amadevu. Insensible! Ngesikhathi lo wesifazane ezwa zonke izigqoko ezikhungweni zomntwana. Isizathu siwukuthi ubuchopho besifazane bubuchopho bomgcini wendawo, okuyiminyaka eyizinkulungwane "evikela" ukuphila nokuthula kwenzalo, ubuchopho besilisa bubuchopho bomuntu othole, okwenza ukuthi izingane zisuke zinkinga encane engayinaki. Umphumela wale ntuthuko - ngesikhathi sokuphumula ubuchopho bomuntu buvele buyeke.
4. Kungani engangiboni?
Owesifazane ngamunye ubhekene neqiniso lokuthi umyeni akakwazi ukuthola amanga "ngaphansi kwekhasi lakhe" noma angaboni ukuthi ikhanda elisha lomkakhe, ukwakheka, ukugqoka. Iqiniso liwukuthi umuntu unombono okuthiwa "umhubhe". Bona konke kude, kodwa ungayinaki imininingwane eyenzeka eduze. Kodwa ubuchopho besifazane buhlala bugxila ezintweni ezincane.
5. Kungani engalaleli?
Amadoda ngenxa yezici zobuchopho kaningi akakwazi ukwenza izinto eziningana ngesikhathi esifanayo. Ukudweba izipikili, ukubukela i-TV nokuxoxa ngakho, lokhu kuyimfanelo yabesifazane. Indoda, uma ingcwatshwe encwadini, ayisakwazi ukusekela ngokuphumelelayo ingxoxo.
6. Kungani engakhulumi okuningi?
Owesifazane uhlelwe ukuze usuku akwazi ukubiza amagama angama-20 000. I-arsenal yomlomo yamadoda iyingozi kakhulu - izinkulungwane ezingu-7. Ngakho umyalo owenziwe. Ukumphoqa ukuba akhombise u-oratory akusizi ngalutho.
7. Kungani ashintsha?
Uma umuntu eqala ukubona amaphutha esikhwameni sakhe sesibili, kusho ukuthi imvelo yaqala ukukhuluma kuye. Kulesi simo, owesifazane kufanele azame ukuguqula yena, isithombe sakhe. Khona-ke oshade naye uyoba nomuzwa wokuthi ushintshile umlingani wakhe.
8. Kungani ekwakheni inkosi?
Ngokwemvelo, amadoda adinga ukuzizwa ebalulekile. Uthanda ukuba ngowokuqala nowokuhamba phambili. Ngakho-ke, ukubhala indoda ukuthi i-wry (noma ngabe kunjalo) akudingekile. Ngokuphambene nalokho, owesifazane ohlakaniphile uyohlale exhasa i-tiger enogwaja wakhe.
9. Kungani engabelani nakho kwakhe?
Uma owesifazane ebi, uyakhala futhi ahlasele. Indoda iziphatha ngendlela ehlukile - uyayikhumbula unina nengane yakhe. Amadoda akufanele akhale, akhuliswe. Ngakho-ke, baqoqa imizwelo emibi ngokwabo, ngaphandle kokuthululela kwabanye.
10. Kungani ehlala ephazamisekile?
Ubulili obuthakathaka abudingi izizathu ezinhle zokuzizwa ujabule. Ngithenge into entsha, ngaya kumuntu ozinwele izinwele - lokho kwanele. Umoya omuhle unikezwa. Amadoda kunzima kakhulu. Bona, ukuze bathole injabulo yangempela, badinga izizathu ezingaphezulu ezigcwele.
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