Lapha udinga ukuqonda amaphuzu ambalwa. Ukukhulelwa akunakwenzeka ukuba kudlule kangcono eminyakeni engama-30 kunokuya ku-25. Yiyona into esemqoka okudingeka uyiqonde. Nakuba usuvele unomsebenzi omuhle, njll, lokhu ngokuqinisekile kuhlanganisa. Njengoba ubona, ukukhulelwa kwesikhathi kusenesikhathi, kunezimbalwa zazo, kodwa akwanele ukuletha konke, ngakho-ke, kumele umuntu athi ngaso sonke isikhathi owesifazane usekulungele ukukhulelwa ngisho nangesikhathi sokuvuthwa, kanti konke okusemthethweni kuyisimo sokuziphatha. Ngoba kulowo wesifazane wesifazane lo mdala uhlukile ngokuphelele. Umbuzo othi "Ngabe owesifazane ulungele nini ukuzalwa kwengane? "Kuningi kakhulu, akunakwenzeka ukuyiphendula. Manje sizozama ukuchaza izici zokukhulelwa kwesikhathi esilandelayo, okuqala kuzo, uzokwazi ukuqonda ukuthi usulungile, noma kungcono ukulinda.
Kufanele uqaphele ukuthi eminyakeni engama-35 ubudala, owesifazane usevele engumuntu ophethwe ngokugcwele. Yena, phakathi nale minyaka, wakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi, usuvele unendawo yokuhlala. Okusho ukuthi, okuhlangenwe nakho kokuphila kwakhe sekuvele kwanele, kahle, hhayi ukubala ingane. Lesi sikhathi siyindlela yokuguqula. Phela, uma ubheka ngaphandle, ungabona ukuthi uhlangothi olulodwa lweminyaka engama-40 alukude, kahle, kolunye - umzimba ugcwele amandla, amandla nokuthemba. Lena yithuba lokugcina lokuba nomntwana, ngaphandle kwemiphumela. Lokhu kungukuthi, lesi sikhathi lapho owesifazane esalungele ukuzalwa kwengane. Futhi manje, lona wesifazane uphinde edidekile, uyakhumbula iminyaka yakhe engu-20, lapho kudingeka enze okufanayo, kuphela lapha kuye kwaba nezinguquko ezithile. Akazi ukuthi yini okumelwe ayenze ngokulandelayo, ngoba usevele ehlelekile endleleni yakhe yokuphila, lapho ekhathalela khona umsebenzi, bese ekhona ithuba, ngakho-ke uyena owedlule ... Kufanele akhethe phakathi komsebenzi nomuzi. Ukuzikhethela kuyinkimbinkimbi, kodwa, ekugcineni, kunomsebenzi, okuhlangenwe nakho okubalulekile kutholakala, manje ungakwazi ukubeletha ingane enhle. Lesi yisikhathi lapho owesifazane elahlekelwa ngokuphelele. Akakwazi neze ukuthi benzeni. Yebo, kuyoba kuhle ukubeletha, kodwa kuthiwani? Yisikhathi sonke esizohamba ngaso isiqondiso esihluke ngokuphelele. Futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo, lona wesifazane uyazi ukuthi angalahlekelwa yiwo wonke amandla atholakele ngomzuzwana owodwa.
Lona kanye iminyaka lapho owesifazane ekulungele ngokuphelele ukukhulelwa, kodwa hhayi ngokomzimba, kodwa ngokwemigomo yokuziphatha. 35 yilapho abesilisa nabesifazane sebekulungele ukuba nengane, banakekele, bamkhokhele ngokwanele.
Ingane iyigugu elinde isikhathi eside, kodwa ekugcineni sithola isikhulu noma indodakazi yenkosikazi, ezungezwe ukunakwa ezungezile, ngoba kungcono kunokuzalwa ngaphandle komuntu, lapho abazali, ngokufana nentuthuko yengane, bahlakulela imisebenzi yabo. Akunjalo! Uma lokhu kwenzeka, khona-ke lona wesifazane akakulungeli ukuzalwa kwengane. Kodwa ekukhulelweni okukhazimulayo kunomphumela. Kule minyaka, isimo somzimba wesifazane asiphuculanga nhlobo, okungasithinta kakhulu ukukhulelwa. Futhi, kukholelwa ukuthi owesifazane ulungele ukuzalwa kwengane kakade eminyakeni engama-20-24 - le minyaka ibhekwa njengento ekahle, kodwa, njengoba usuqonde kakade, akulula wonke umuntu ngengqondo, ngoba. Lapha udinga ukucabanga ngokucophelela ngazo zonke izenzo zakho. Ososayensi baye bafakazela isikhathi eside ukuthi ukulungela kwengqondo kuza eminyakeni eyishumi emva kokusebenza ngokomzimba.
Futhi-ke, ngokusho kwezibalo zamanje, inani labesifazane ababeletha ingane eneminyaka engama-30 kuya kwengu-40, landa njalo ngonyaka, ngakho lokhu kufanele kucatshangelwe.
Uma usenquma ukukhulelwa, okokuqala, hamba ku-gynecologist wakho. Uzokutshela ngokuningiliziwe ukuthi yiziphi ochwepheshe ozozivakashela. Sicela uqaphele ukuthi ukuze ukhulelwe kahle, igciwane lakho le-thyroid kufanele lisebenze kahle. Kungani? Yebo, ngoba ama-hormone akhiqizwa yiwo, asithinta kakhulu ukubunjwa kwesimiso sezinzwa zomntwana, kanti futhi kuthinteka kakhulu ekuhlakanipheni kwengane. Ukuthi ingane yazalwa ibanga eliphezulu, kubalulekile ukuhlola leli phuzu kusengaphambili. Ukuze uzalwe ingane udinga ukulungisa ngokucophelela, khumbula ngakho.
Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuphawula iphuzu elilodwa, ukuthi ukukhulelwa eminyakeni engu-20 nangeminyaka engama-30 kwekhadi elihlukile. Phela, abesifazane abakhulelwe abaneminyaka engama-30 bawela eqenjini eliyingozi, ngoba ubungozi bokungavamile kwe-chromosomal kumama oseminyakeni ephakeme kakhulu kunomama osemncane. Kodwa ungakhathazeki ngakho. Ubuchwepheshe buya phambili ezinyathelweni ezinkulu, ukuze ukwazi ukuxilongwa nge-fetus ngesikhathi.
Njengamanje, imithi iye yafinyelela ezingeni elinjalo ukuthi abesifazane asebevele bangaphezu kweminyaka engama-35 bangakwazi ukubeletha izingane ezinempilo nezinempilo ngokuphepha.
Inkinga enkulu yokukhulelwa kwesikhathi, okwamanje, akuyona inqubo yokukhulelwa, kodwa ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ngoba ukukhulelwa ngaleso sikhathi sekuvele kube nzima kakhulu. Kungathatha izinyanga ezingu-6 kuya kwezingu-12 ukukhulelwa. Into eyingozi kunazo zonke ezingase zenzeke ekukhulelweni kwekwephuzile yizinto ezingavamile zofuzo. Isibonelo, uma kukhona okungahambanga ngokwecebo, ingane ingazalwa nge-Down syndrome. Kodwa ungakhathazeki kakhulu, ngoba amathuba omama oneminyaka engu-40 ubudala wokuba nomntwana amancane kakhulu, angaba ngu-1%.
Kodwa abesifazane abangaphezu kuka-35 bangase bahlaselwe njalo, ukubeletha, ngokwabo, kungaba nzima, kubangele imiphumela emibi nezinkinga ezihlukahlukene. Ungakhohlwa ngomthelela wezinto eziyingozi ezinomthelela umzimba wakho kulo lonke impilo. Futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ukubeletha kuqala, kubi kakhulu ukuthi ingane izoba yimbi.
Owesifazane okhulelwe akufanele abe nemikhuba emibi, ngaphambi kokuba adle kahle, ahambe emoyeni omusha, athathe amavithamini.
Yizo zonke izici. Manje unquma-noma ukungaqondakali kwengqondo, noma amathuba okukhulelwa.