Yimaphi ama-stereotypes ashoyo? Isibonelo, umuntu angasho ukuthi, njengomthetho, amadoda anezinwele ezimhlophe abonakala njengengozi, enomusa, enothando nangokwemvelo, engakwazi ukubangela ubuhlungu besifazane noma noma yini embi.
Futhi akunjalo. Ama-Blondes anomuntu okhuni kakhulu, azwela kakhulu amadoda anemibala ehlukene yobunwele, mhlawumbe, kuphela ngokuphathelene nobuhlungu obungokwenyama. Kuzo zonke ezinye izimo ama-blondes abonakala enenkani, ukubekezela nokuzimisela. Amadoda ama-blonde avame ukufeza impumelelo empilweni, ngoba asetshenziselwa ukufeza injongo ehlosiwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, phakathi kwama-blondes ungabhekana nabantu abaningi abanobudlova nabanobugovu, kulokhu abangekho ngaphansi kwama-brunettes kanye nama-shatens, kodwa futhi abantu abahlakaniphile, abanethemba lokuthi abangeyona ingozi kumnandi amahlebezi kanye nezindiza eziyinkimbinkimbi, phakathi kwama-blonde ngaphezu kwamadoda nabanye umbala wezinwele.
Amadoda anezinwele ezimhlophe, njengombuso, sibona njenge-interlocutors enhle kakhulu, abangane kanye nama-comrades. Babonakala belula ukuqonda, abesifazane bakholelwa ukuthi amadoda anjalo ahlala enobungane, enobungane, enomusa futhi elula kakhulu ukukhuphuka.
Lesi sici siseduze nakakhulu kunabanye. Ngempela, amadoda anezinwele ezimhlophe ahlukaniswa umusa nokuzwelana, abhekene nokuthanda ngokweqile nokuthembela ngokuqinile emibonweni yomphakathi nabanye abantu. Ukunganaki kwezinwele ezimnyama kungabizwa ubuvila obukhulu. Ngisho nalawo madoda anezinwele ezinomzimba onamakhono ayingqayizivele angeke enze umzamo ngaphandle uma kungenjalo ngandlela-thile ungaqhubeki.
Uma sicabangela umbala wezinwele kanye nobuntu bomuntu, indoda enhle, i-brunette, ingaba isibonelo esiphelele sokwehlelwa kwesimo sengqondo esamukelekile kanye neqiniso. Amadoda anomunyu omnyama abonakala eqinile, eqiniseka ngamakhono abo, imvelo. Abesifazane, iningi, bacabange ukuthi ama-brunettes ayindoda enamandla kunazo zonke, eqinile, ethembekile, enobungani nabanamandla, futhi abanamakhono kakhulu embhedeni.
Eqinisweni, ama-brunettes, ngokuyinhloko, ahambisana ngokuphelele nalezi zimfanelo. Bavame ukuhola, ukuqinisa futhi abanesibindi. Kodwa nansi abantu abangaqondakali - abantu abamnyama abanomqondo ongaphezu kobuzenzisi futhi babonakala kunama-blondes, ama-shatens nama-redheads. U-Brunet ukhathazekile kakhulu ngokugxeka kwakhe, ngakho-ke uzama sonke isikhathi ukufakazela okuthile.
Esinye isibonelo, ukuthi umbala wezinwele nobunjani bomuntu kungenzeka ukuthi awuhambisani nezilinganiso ezamukelekile. Ngaphambi kwamadoda abomvu abomvu, udumo lwamapanksters angenawo amakhemikhali nabasunguli bemvelo basungulwe ngokuqinile, abesifazane bakholelwa ukuthi amadoda abomvu abomvu angenangqondo, angathembeki futhi angenangqondo, futhi abesifazane besifazane abaqondile. Sekuyisikhathi eside sekukholelwa ukuthi abantu abanjalo banamakhohlisi futhi banengqondo.
Eqinisweni, amadoda abomvu abomvu abe nokuzikhethela okungaphezulu, ukuzwelana nokuqala kunabameleli abamnyama nabangenabulungiswa obulili obuqinile. Imikhawulo ihlukaniswe ngamakhono omuhle kakhulu enhlangano, ubuciko, amakhono okukhulumisana nokuxhumana. Ziba nomhawu oqinile, ukuqinisekiswa nokuhlukumezeka.
Ungaphetha - uma unqume ukuxhumanisa ikusasa lakho nomunye umuntu, ungazami ukubopha umbala wendwele nobuntu bomuntu, futhi ekugcineni, ngalezi zizathu ukhethe okhethiwe. Kungcono uzame ukukufunda kangcono - le ndlela izokugwema izinkinga ezizayo esikhathini esizayo.