Nakuba, eqinisweni, mhlawumbe intombazane isanda kubanda, ikhohlwa ukuziphakamisa, noma yayingenamandla okwanele okugeza izinwele zakhe. Noma mhlawumbe uvele nje wazala - yingakho enesibalo esinjalo. Futhi, ekugcineni, mhlawumbe unomhlaba omuhle futhi ocebile ngaphakathi - nesoka lakhe limthanda lona.
Uyazi, lokhu kuyinkimbinkimbi yasendle: "Umfana uthanda intombazane engalungile, angiqondi - kungani? !!!" kwenzeka, njengomthetho, lapho umuntu ehamba eduze kwalesi sinkosikazi engenakuzwela uyasihawukela. Lapha ekhanda lethu ngokushesha kwabangela ukuqhuma komncintiswano, siqala ukuhlaziya nokuqhathanisa. Lokhu kwenzeka ekujuleni kocansi, ngezinye izikhathi asiqapheli nokuthi siqala kanjani ukuhlola abanye abantu. Khona-ke isitembu "intombazane ebuhlungu" sizalwa, futhi sizalwa cishe ngenxa yentukuthelo yokuthi umuntu uthola abantu abalungile nabahle.
Uyazi, empeleni, noma yimuphi umfana angathanda noma yimuphi intombazane - ngisho nobubi, kodwa ngenxa yokuthanda akuphikisi. Yini ongayithandi ngakho? Amehlo amakhulu kakhulu? Amadoda amaningi adonsa amantombazane amakhulu. Ukungabikho kwezimonyo ebusweni? Bheka eduze-mhlawumbe akubi, kwenzeke ukuthi umfana uthanda ubuhle bemvelo, nezimonyo zingabhubhisa ngisho namantombazane. Mhlawumbe. ucabanga, "Angiqondi: kungani ethanda intombazane enomuntu onjalo? Unomaphuphu kakhulu! ", Kodwa, futhi, kukhona abachwepheshe bangempela be-pop enkulu enhle kuleli zwe futhi. Isibalo sowesifazane asikhanselwe okwamanje. Mhlawumbe awunawo amafomu azungezile futhi unomhawu kakhulu? Kodwa-ke, lokhu okuphambene nalokho, intombazane enhle futhi ayiqondi: umuntu angathandana kanjani nentombazane enesikhumba engakwazi ukubala zonke izimbambo?
Kodwa, ngicabanga ukuthi ukubukeka namanje akuyona into esemqoka ebuhlotsheni. Yiqiniso, into yokuqala noma yimuphi umfana oqaphela lapho uthola owesifazane idatha yangaphandle, izici zobuso, sibalo ... Kodwa, mhlawumbe, okokuqala wanikezwa ngamasu amakhosikazi wesigidi awamgcizelela. Futhi-ke, lapho ngibona ukuthi uthando lungaphezu kobuso kanye nesibalo, lapho nginomuzwa wokuthi isoka lakhe laqaphela lokhu, waqala ukuzivumela ukuthi abe ngumvelo futhi amnandi ngaye. Kungani kungenjalo, empeleni?
Phela, kuyamangalisa ukuthi phakathi nobuhlobo bonke lo muntu wazama ukwazi izwe langaphakathi lentombi yakhe, ukuhlola izimfanelo zakhe zobuntu, ukwazi umlingiswa wakhe nokuthanda ngisho nangalokho angathanda ukulungisa kuye.
Ungamangaleli ngokushesha umfana ngenxa yokuntula ukunambitheka, uma eduze kwakhe kuhamba kabi, ngombono wakho, intombazane. Phela, sekuyisikhathi eside kufakazelwe ukuthi azikho abesifazane ababi, kwakungekho futhi ngeke kube khona. Sonke sidinga umuntu, othile ubalulekile futhi omunye ukhathalela. Futhi uma kukhona amantombazane afanele kuleli zwe, khona-ke kufanele kube khona ambalwa - kungenjalo yini ezofanelekela kahle lokho okuhlangana kuzo zonke izingqikithi? Phakathi kwezigidi zokuncintisana ukunambitheka kwalabafana, kukhona njalo okuzokukhetha - noma yini oyikho. Ngempela, akuyona into ebuhle nhlobo - ihamba isikhathi futhi iphela, kuphela ubuhle bomphefumulo buhlala - bukhula ngokuphindaphindiwe njalo ngonyaka, kudinga ukuhlonishwa. Labo abalalela kuphela "ukubonakala kwezinto" - basalokhu beluhlaza kakhulu futhi bengasakwazi ukudala ubuhlobo obunzima, ngoba "bangasuswa endleleni yeqiniso" nganoma isiphi isiketi esisha esihle. Ngakho-ke, uma ubona ukuthi umbhangqwana uhlangana kanjani nawe ngomhlangano, insikazikazi ongakwazi ukuyibiza ngokuthi inhle, kodwa isigamu sesilisa esibheka intombi yakho sinothando olungenamkhawulo - jabulela. Thokozani ukuthi ubonile lonke uthando olufanayo ekubonakalisweni kwalo okuhlanzekile, kwangempela, engazi imingcele, hhayi ukubekezelela imaski, Uthando!
Yiqiniso, izimo zihlukile. Ezweni lanamuhla, imizwa ikhokhwa kancane kunalokho, isibonelo, imali. Yebo, kuyadabukisa futhi kuphansi, kodwa kuyiqiniso elihambisana nathi. Cha, asibona bonke abanjalo, kodwa abantu be-mercantile baningi.
Mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi eside sesijwayele umqondo wokuthi "owesifazane ogciniwe", okusho leli gama intombazane efuna umuntu ocebile, ungakwazi ngisho ukushada, "Papa", efuna ukuthola imali eningi kuye ngangokunokwenzeka. Empeleni - ubufebe obufanayo, kodwa amanye amantombazane anemizwa ...
Ngokuvamile, maduzane kukhona okuthiwa "u-Alphonse", umuntu ophansi kakhulu womphakathi, ongakwazi ukwenza izenzo zamadoda, futhi othanda ukuhlala ngezindleko zabanye. Yebo, iphesenti lalabafana likhula usuku nosuku - futhi cishe wonke wabo uyintombazane enemali. Futhi lapha akubalulekile kakhulu - yini idatha yangaphandle ye "isisulu" se-Alphonse.
Lapha, nokho, bonke bashiye ukuwina. Ngoba umfana-u-Alphonse usheshe abe nezimali ezilindelwe isikhathi eside, ngoba imali engenayo akudingeki ukuba ibe nzima kakhulu. Le ntombazane iyinikeza wonke umuntu: iyisusa indlu ekhangayo, ekhonza njengesidleke sothando. Mhlawumbe uma eziphatha kahle, uzomthengela imoto. Ngaphambi kwakhe kuyoba nethuba elihle kakhulu lokubhekana nomkhakha ophakeme womphakathi, lapho esekude efuna khona.
Futhi le ntombazane ayikho embi - ithola umlingani omnandi, onomhawu, ongamtshela ngaye indaba ekholelwayo nazo zonke iziqu ezifanele nezihloko ezizomsiza ukuba azame ukumbuthana nombuthano wokuxhumana kwakhe.
Ngakho-ke ungasheshi ukumangala lapho ubona umfana emgwaqweni ehamba nentombazane embi - mhlawumbe awukwazi okuningi ngokuphila kwabo siqu ...