Izimbangela zokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi olubhekiswe kwabesifazane

Ukuhlukumeza ngokocansi ngokumelene nabesifazane ukuphambuka kwengqondo noma ukuphambuka ekuziphatheni okuvamile, okuchazwe emibhalweni yabacwaningqondo, izazi zengqondo kanye nodokotela bezocansi. Ngeshwa, umphakathi waseRussia uvame ukuhawukela abadlwenguli nokuhlukumeza izisulu zobudlova ngokocansi.

Lokhu kubangelwa amasiko jikelele amasiko abantu baseRussia, abaye bahawukela njalo iziwula ezizingcwele, futhi bahlambalaza abantu abaphumelelayo.

Ukulahlwa kwengqondo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukucabanga kwengqondo noma ukuphefumula, njengokudakwa ngokweqile, ezweni lethu kubangele ukwedlula ukwesaba. Futhi ubulili bobulili besifazane, naphezu kokuningi koomagazini abamnyama, namanje akusabi yisithunzi futhi sibonisa impumelelo yowesifazane. Ngakho-ke kuvela isimo esingavamile lapho ukusesha imbangela yokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi olubhekiswe kwabesifazane kuphenduke phansi. Kunezizathu ezintathu ezenza kube khona lesi senzakalo esingathandeki - indoda, owesifazane nabesithathu noma izimo. ERussia, kuvamile ukungahloniphi indima yamadoda kule sigameko esingathandeki, kodwa indima yabesifazane igxilile. Sizozama ukulondoloza ukubhekelela futhi sicabangele zonke izimbangela ezintathu zokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi.

Umuntu njengomthombo wobudlova

Ukutadisha izinkinga zobudlova ngokocansi kwenza kube lula ukukhomba ngokucacile kokubili isimo somuntu nesimo sengqondo somdlwenguli. Phakathi kwalabo abahlukumezayo bangamadoda angashadile anesimo esiphansi semfundo, ngokuvamile asebenza emithwalweni enzima. Phakathi kwabasebenzi basehhovisi kanye nabahlakaniphile, abadlwenguli abavamile kakhulu.

Amadoda avame ukulwa nodlame ngokuvamile aphikisana kakhulu noyise futhi agxila kakhulu indima yomama emndenini. Ekhanda lendoda enjalo iphalishi ihlanjelwa enzondo kababa futhi izama ukuphikisana nokuziphatha kwayo kwesilisa. Imodeli yobuningi nokuhlukumezeka ngumama, ongencazelo angeke abe yindinganiso ekahle yokuziphatha komuntu. Le nhlanganisela engavamile yokukhomba okungalungile ngezindima zobulili, inzondo nemibhikisho ngokumelene nobaba kwenza indoda ixhomeke kulokho okuthiwa yi-hypermasculine yokuziphatha. Ngamane nje, bayaqiniseka ukuthi yindoda enonya kuphela engazi isihe, ingaba indoda yangempela. Ukuhlukumeza ngokobulili okubhekiswe kwabesifazane kuyindlela yokubona umqondo onjalo njengendima yendoda kanye nokhetho lokunciphisa ukungezwani kwangaphakathi okuvela ezingxabanweni ezinganeni ezingaxazululwa.

Ngokuvamile amadoda, abhekana nobudlova, ahlukunyezwa ngokuphelele ngokocansi (ukwehluka okujwayelekile). Bathanda ubulili beqembu, phakathi kwabo kaningi kukhona ama-pedophiles, ama-gerontophiles, ama-homosexual afihliwe futhi acacile. Yiqiniso, ubungqingili phakathi kwabadlwenguli kaningi kubangelwa indawo. Okusho ukuthi, bayayisebenzisa kuphela uma kungekho ukufinyelela kokuxhumana nabesifazane, isibonelo, ejele noma ebuthweni.

Owesifazane njengento evusa udlame

Isizathu sokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi olubhekiswe kwabesifazane singagcinwa kwi-psychology yabesifazane ngokwabo. Abesifazane abasengozini kakhulu abahlukumezayo yilabo abasebuntwaneni abatholwa ezenzweni ezingcolile kubantu abadala futhi babe nezinkinga eziqinile ezingokwengqondo mayelana nesigaba socansi. Abesifazane abanjalo abesabayo bakhanga abadlwenguli, ezingeni lokungazi ukuthi bangazenza ubudlova. Abaningi besifazane bayamelana nabahlukumezi kuze kube sekugcineni futhi bawugweme ngempumelelo, kodwa kukhona nalabo abadinga nje ukwesaba, ukuthi bazinikela kanjani. Lokhu kuziphatha komhlatshelo ngokuvamile kuyinto efiselekayo kakhulu kubadlwenguli abangaba khona, futhi bayakwazi ukuhlukanisa intuitively owesifazane ozimisele ukudela, ngisho nasesixukwini esikhulu.

Amaqembu amathathu nezimo ezenza ubudlova

Ubudlwangudlwana bobulili bungaba nezinye izimbangela kunokuphambuka kwengqondo ekhanda lomuntu noma ukuthambekela kokuheha abadlwenguli engxenyeni yowesifazane. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi emaqenjini abantu, afaka phakathi abantu abahlukumezekile abangakabonakali noma abonakalisile izindinganiso zokuphila, isibonelo, intsha, izidakamizwa noma iziboshwa zangaphambili.

Phakathi kwabagqugquzeli bobudlova bangase babe abalandeli be-BDSM-themed. Kule miphakathi, kuyisiko ukudlala imidlalo ehilela izici zobudlova, ukuhlazeka kanye nobuhlungu. Kukhona bobabili abalandeli abaneleyo bezindaba ezibuhlungu, kanye nabantu abanobuqili abaza kule miiphakathi. Uma uxhumana nowesifazane onokulungele ukudlala imidlalo yokudlala ngocansi ngesitayela se-BDSM, abakwazi ukuyeka ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi bangaba abadlwenguli bangempela ngokuqondene nomuntu obeka engozini yokuzama ukuzama ukuzama.

Kubalulekile ukukhuluma ngokuphuza utshwala, okubangela abanye abantu ukuba benze izinto ababengeke baziphathe ngokucophelela.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwakunjani, futhi zonke izigameko zobudlova ngokocansi zidinga ukuhlaziywa okuhlukile. Izizathu zingase zihluke kakhulu, futhi ungakhathaleli abanye noma uzikhathaze abanye. Kodwa-ke, emphakathini wethu - kubalulekile ukuvuma lokhu - owesifazane owaba yisisulu sobudlova ngokocansi, awunempilo kakhulu. Phela, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izinga lokudlwengula kwengqondo liphansi kangakanani, umbono womphakathi uvame ukukwenzeka kuye, hhayi ohlangothini lwesisulu sakhe. Futhi lokhu kubuhlungu kabi owesifazane osuvele esithintekile.