"Awungiqondi !!" - ukuthi izingane nabazali bazo zizwa kangaki le nkulumo komunye nomunye !! Kodwa empeleni maduzane le ntombazane enezinwele ezimnandi nama-pigtails amancane athi: "Mama, ungcono kakhulu!".
Ngakho kwenzekani? Kungani ubudlelwane bethu nomama beguquka phakathi nokuphila kwethu? Futhi hhayi njalo kangcono! Indlela yokuzivikela ezinkingeni ebuhlotsheni "Umama Nendodakazi", futhi uhambe endleleni efanele yabangani ababili, bethembelana omunye nomunye izimfihlo?
Izazi zengqondo zithi zonke izimo ezimbi ezimpilweni zethu ziyobe zibeka impendulo yabo empilweni evuthiwe. Futhi ngempela, ngempela, ngaphandle kokuqaphela, sikhula, siba omama bethu.
Futhi senza amaphutha afanayo ngokuphathelene namadodakazi ethu, asenze kithi. Yini ebangela izinkinga phakathi komama namadodakazi abo? Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuzwakala kanjani, kodwa izimpande kufanele zibhekwe ebuntwaneni.
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Umama wathi kuwe kangaki: "Uhlobo luni lentombazane!" Ungumfana! Awu, ungubani? "Ngakho-ke? Yebo, uzocabangela, inkinga - ingubo idliwe futhi i-коленки iphukile! Kodwa ngalesi sikhathi umqondo wokuqala wesaba ungena ebuchosheni bomntwana - Angifani nomama, hhayi njengowesifazane, hhayi kangako. Njengoba uneminyaka yobudala, ukwesaba kuyaba yi-phobia. Futhi uzama okusemandleni akho ukuba ube "omhlophe futhi ophuzile", nakuba ungafuni, nokho uMama uthe ...
Inkathi yamantombazane e-marshmallow esedlule! Manje bonke abesifazane bahluke ngokuphelele, kodwa lokho kuyinto enhle! Ungaba yingelosi namuhla, futhi kusasa i-tomboy engenakuqhathaniswa! Vumela lokhu kube okugqamile kwakho. Emva kwakho konke, singabesifazane, siphenduke kakhulu, ngakho-ke nathi sinomthakazeliso kakhulu!
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Ukukufuna konke okusemandleni, umama ngokungazi (futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngokukhethekile) kudala inkinga ethile ebuhlotsheni bakho. Ufuna ukuthi ube ikhophi yakhe, uzama ukubona kuwe, indodakazi yakhe, zonke izifiso zakho namaphupho akho angagcwaliseki. Isikole somculo, ukudansa, ukuvocavoca, nokuningi okuningi! Futhi konke ngoba umama akenzanga lokhu ebuntwaneni bakhe! Kodwa awuletheli injabulo ekhethekile ...
Qonda ukuthi kuhlukile ukuba ube njengomama futhi ube yikhonto yakhe! Ungumuntu oyedwa! Yiba ngokwayo! Hlanganisa imibono yakho, izifiso zakho. Futhi ake kube yingxenye yebhokisi! Ngempela, uyayithanda.
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Ngomama wethu, sihlale sihle kakhulu futhi sinhle kunazo zonke, kodwa kungani sazwa amazwi okuhlambalaza kaningi? "Ungumuntu omncane kangakanani!", "Uhlale uphelelwe indawo," "Iyini imilenze yakho egobile." Yebo, izinto eziningi kakhulu! Futhi inkulumo ethi "engcono kunazo zonke": "Ubani odingayo kangaka?". Ngokushesha kubonakala sengathi indodakazi - uhlobo lweQuasimodo-sloven. Futhi akekho umuntu ovamile oyovumelana nawe ngisho nokufika ebhasini elilodwa, ungasho ukuthi uzokunikeza isipho sesandla nenhliziyo.
Yenza umsebenzi wakho ngaphakathi. Funda ukuzithanda, naphezu kwalokho okushiwo abantu abaseduze nawe. Phakamisa ukuzethemba kwakho, lalela izwe lakho langaphakathi. Futhi khumbula: bonke abantu bangabantu ngabanye, azikho amadoda ahlakaniphile ngokuphelele nama-freaks aphelele. Kuwo wonke umuntu kukhona into ehlukanisa nabanye. Kudingekile kuphela ukufundisa lokhu umehluko ngokukhanya okulungile okuzuzisa kuwe.
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Uhlala ufunga, umama wakho uyakugxeka ngenxa yokukhetha okungalungile kwengubo, amakha, umsebenzi, njll. Akathandi abangane bakho, ikati lakho kanye (Ungavumeli) umyeni wakho. Futhi konke lokhu akusho kuwe hhayi umbhalo oqondile, kodwa "ngokuphelele ngengozi"! Kodwa konke ukubonakala kwalo kubonisa ukuthi akuhambisani kangakanani naye.
Ukuxazulula inkinga : Xoxa nomama wakho ngezinyawo ezilinganayo - mayelana nemizwa yakhe, mayelana nobuhlobo bakho, mayelana nemibono yakho empilweni. Ungesabi ukusho ukuthi awuthandi. Ake ngiqonde ukuthi impilo yakho impilo yakho. Ukunikela ukuze uthole indlela evamile yokuphuma kweso simo. Zama ukwenza okuthile ndawonye - hamba ezitolo, uye ku-salon beauty. Ngemva kokuzwa kuMama kunoma iyiphi inkinga - mnike iseluleko ngendlela engafaneleki. Zama futhi uqonde umama wakho. Ayikwazi ukubhekana nalesi simo - uyakunikela ngendlebe, indodakazi yakhe, ngenkathi efuna ukuthi ungcono kakhulu!
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Umama wakho uphila impilo yakho. Konke okudingeka akukwazi ngawe. Uhlala uzisola, uzwela futhi ukhale nganoma yikuphi ukukhathazeka kwakho - kunabangela ukucasuka okukhulu! Futhi uma uqala ukumthukuthelela - kubangela izinyembezi nangeminye imizwelo !!!
Qonda umama wami - uyesaba ukungabi nzuzo ngendodakazi yakhe, ngoba wayeyiNkosi futhi uNkulunkulu esemncane. Futhi-ke kuvela ukuthi ngisho ngaphandle kwakho ubhekana nayo! Ngomama, lokhu kuyethusa kakhulu! Mkhulume ngaye ngokuzimela kwakho, futhi kuhle ukuthi ukhona futhi ungathembela kuye!
Futhi uma konke kungenalutho ... Yebo, awutholi ulimi oluvamile nonina, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzama kanzima kangakanani! Mthathe ukuthi ungubani, uma nje ngoba ungumama wakho - umuntu owabeletha futhi wakhuphulela ngokufana nalokho. Futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu: khumbula ukuthi nathi ngelinye ilanga sizoba omama, futhi akukaziwa ukuthi sizoziphatha kanjani namadodakazi ethu. Ngakho, ukukhulisa indodakazi, ubuke emuva ebuntwaneni bakho, bese uzama ukuphinda ubuyekeze izimo namazwi akwenze ube nesibindi nokucasula. Yiba ngumngani wakho nomngane wakho. Kungenzeka ukuthi uzoba umngane nendodakazi yakho engazange abe nomama wakho.
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