Isifiso esingokwemvelo sabazali, abafunde ukuthi ingane yabo inamaphupho amahle, isifiso sokusiza, ukuyeka uchungechunge lwezinsizi nokuqinisekisa ingane yakho ukuthula. Into eyinhloko ukwenza lokhu ngokuqonda - kancane kancane nokuqeda ngokucophelela izimbangela zala maphupho, kunokuba uzame ukubamba "ngogibe", usebenzisa izincwadi ezenziwe ngcono ezingokomoya.
I-psychology yanamuhla ikholelwa ukuthi amaphupho anjalo abonisa izinqubo ezijulile zokuba ubuntu bomntwana. Lokhu kungenye yezinto ezingathandeki, kodwa ezingenakugwema futhi ngezinye izindlela ngisho nezigaba eziwusizo zokuthuthukiswa. Iphupho ngalinye elinjalo akuyona nje isipiliyoni somcimbi ezweni langaphandle, kodwa futhi nomcimbi ogqamile, womzwelo ekuphileni komuntu omncane. Okubaluleke kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni ingane kuyisidingo sokuvuma okuhlangenwe nakho kwesibindi, nokuqashelwa - kanye nokuphendula kwabazali.
Kunezigaba eziningana zokubona ukulala. Ngokuvamile, ulwazi lucutshungulwa ngokuphelele futhi iphupho likhohliwe ngesikhathi sokuvusa futhi akushiyi lutho oluthinta inhliziyo. Izinga lesibili lizinga lokukhumbula ukulala. Ukuvame ukuvame ukucatshangelwa, ukuhumusha, ukuzwa kabusha. Lokhu kwenzeka uma ulwazi olufakwe ngefomu ngesimo sephupho alucutshungulwa ngokwanele. Abazali badinga usizo - ingxoxo yokulala, indaba ezithombeni noma umdlalo wokudlala indima.
Okubi nakakhulu, uma ubuthongo besaba kakhulu umntwana ukuthi wavuka. Ngokuvamile, amaphupho amabi kakhulu ingane izama ukufihla. Ukuqonda ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle ngabazali kuphela ngenxa yokunganaki okungenakuqondakala kwengane, ukubukeka kokwesaba ubumnyama nokwesaba isizungu ebantwaneni abengenandaba. Esimweni esinjalo, ingane ivame ukukhathazeka ngokomzwelo futhi icindezeleke ukuthi abazali bazizwa bengenasici ngokuphelele. Uma ungazizwa uqiniseka ngamakhono akho - unganikeza amakilasi wengane yengqondo yokulungiswa kwengqondo nengane yengqondo yengane.
Kulula ukuthi ingane ivulekele umuntu ongaziwayo, ikakhulukazi uma izindaba zezingxabano zihlotshaniswa nenkohlakalo yakhe noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, ukwesaba okungenangqondo. Uchwepheshe uzosiza ingane ukuba iphile isakhiwo kuze kube sekugcineni nayo yonke inguquko yezithombe, inganikezi "okuhle" ngaphambi kokuthi "ibe yingozi." Isazi sezengqondo siyazi ukuthi umuntu kufanele athembele okwenzekayo ephusheni futhi asekele ukuthuthukiswa kwesihloko sakhe, ikakhulukazi uma kungenakuqondakala noma kuyesabisa. Ngempela, ukuze ukuphumula ngokomzwelo kuqale, ukwesaba kufanele kube nakho. Futhi omdala kufanele akhuthaze ingane, amsize ukuba abhekane nokumesaba, amnike isibindi sokuthatha isinyathelo, ahlangabezane nenselelo nengozi. Yilokho okwenza ukuqeqeshwa kwengqondo-ukulungiswa kwenzeke.
Ngesikhathi esifanayo, abazali kufanele baqonde ukuthi akudingekile ukuthwala ingane kudokotela ngenxa yobuthongo obunzima bomuntu wonke - udinga ukufunda ukwenza kanjalo amaphupho amabi ingane engayikhumbuli. Futhi ngenxa yalokhu udinga nje ukwazi ukuthi uyathandwa, uqondwa futhi wamukelwa njengoba enjalo.