I-Psi-factor
- Umbuzo wokuqala nombuzo oyinhloko: Ngingalala yini embhedeni lapho ingane encane ilele eduze? Ngakolunye uhlangothi, akanakho ukuqonda okwenzekayo, ngisho noma ephapheme. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, iningi lethu lizwa ukuvinjelwa okungaqondakali kwesenzo esinjalo. Abaningi bezocansi bakholelwa ukuthi ukuba khona kwengane embhedeni ngesikhathi sokulala akuvumelekile, yingakho. Kuyinto engavamile ukuba umuntu akhe ubuhlobo obuseduze phakathi kwesimo socansi nesenzo socansi uqobo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, uma abantu abanothando belala ngocansi, bathi, endaweni ye-hayloft futhi bathole injabulo engavamile kulo, khona-ke iphunga lezinkuni liyoba yisisusa esinamandla. Ochwepheshe bakholelwa ukuthi akufanelekile ukufaka ingozi, beshiya ingane elele ngesikhathi sesenzo socansi. Umsebenzi wobuchopho uyinqaba futhi awuqondakali, akufanele uvumele ingozi yokufuduka kwesifiso socansi.
- Impikiswano yesibili ngokuqondene negama elithi "cha" yisisekelo sangokomzwelo esenzeka kulabo abashade ngesikhathi sokulala ngokobulili eduze komntwana. Ukuzwa kwangaphakathi kwezinto ezibangelwa amahloni, umuzwa wengozi, njengokungathi uyabheka, futhi lokhu kungabangela nokuguqulwa kokunamathiselwe kobulili Iqiniso liwukuthi ngemva kokuzalwa kwengane, owesifazane uqala ukuzwa imizwa eningi ngesikhathi sokulala ngokocansi, ukudideka kwamandla emizwa ngehlazo kungaholela ekulangazeni okulandelayo kokwenza uthando ngaphansi kwezimo "ezimbi kakhulu".
- Ingxabano yesithathu yinkinga ye-banal kwengqondo. Kuyinto eyodwa uma ulalela ngaso sonke isikhathi, uma ingane ingavuki ekamelweni elilandelayo. Futhi okunye okunye, uma ungaqapheli ngokucophelela kulindeleke lokhu nge-crumb eceleni kwakho. Imisindo emibi yemizwelo engase iholele ekuhambeni kokushayela okukhulunywe ngenhla, kodwa ingenza isenzo socansi sibe ngumthombo wokucindezeleka, futhi lokhu akusho umphumela omuhle emisebenzini yobulili yabalingani.
- Okwesine akunakwenzeka ukuthi "ukuphuka" phakathi kwezindima zomama nomfazi oseduze komntwana.Lokhu kulula kakhulu kumadoda, kodwa umama obaluleke kakhulu kunomama osemusha, ikakhulukazi ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kwengane. Kulesi simo, ukulala ngokobulili ngeke kuveze injabulo yobulili, kodwa kuyoba "emsebenzini" we-conjugal ". Yiqiniso, izinto ezinjalo azikwenzeki kuwo wonke umuntu hhayi njalo, kodwa ngokuvamile, abazali abasha bavame ukuzwa kahle uma ingane iseduze ngesikhathi sesenzo socansi.
Indlela yokuhlela konke?
Uma ufuna ukuphila okugcwele ngokobulili, kodwa ungakulungeli noma ungafuni ukufundisa umntwana ukuba alale ngokwehlukana, kuzodingeka uphume embhedeni womshado ngokwakho noma ukushintsha okwesikhashana ingane. Nazi ezinye izindlela ongakhetha kuzo.
• Ukuhambisa ngokucophelela i-crumb ibe yisigubhu noma isikhala lapho selilele kakade. Ngokujwayelekile, lapho ulala ndawonye, umntwana ulele esitheni sikamama. Ngalesi sikhathi, yondla i-crumb, ubeke ikhanda lakhe engalweni yakhe. Linda aze aqede isigaba sokuqala sokulala okusheshayo nesigaba esijulile: i-crumb izoyeka ukugubha ngezandla, ubuso bayo buyokhululeka ngokuphelele, uzokhipha ingono emlonyeni wakhe futhi ayeke ukulala ebuthongweni bakhe. Ngemuva kwalokhu, ngomusa uyithuthelele emgqeni wesibhakela noma ubhekwe lapho i-diaper efudumele ihlala khona. Ungabuyisa emuva ngokushesha uma iqala ukukhombisa izimpawu zokukhathazeka.
• Yenza uthando hhayi embhedeni. Uma uhlala efulethini elihlukile, khona-ke lize lihlukanise impilo yakho yobulili. Yondla i-crumb, uyimboze ngengubo, ulinde ize ilele, uphume embhedeni ngokucophelela, njengokujwayelekile, uma ufuna ukuqeda imisebenzi yasekhaya kusihlwa.
Ungadluli nge-tab
Abazali abaningi bayazi ukuthi kukhona imivimbo ebhedeni njengokuvinjelwa noma yikuphi ukucindezela, okubandakanya nabangewona ocansi. Futhi kuyize. I-Kid ngeke ihlupheke nakancane ukuthi umama nobaba bayamamukela futhi bathinte ngothando. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abaningi abanokholo kwengqondo bakholelwa ukuthi ukuba khona kwengane embhedeni womshado kusiza ukwakha okunamathiselwe. Izingane eziningi zithanda ukulala nabazali babo lapho besaba, ukulala nomama nobaba bazo "ukulala" ekuseni. Lokhu kuyindlela enhle, ikakhulukazi kubazali abasebenza abangakwazi ukunakekelwa kakhulu izingane. Emindenini lapho isimo sengqondo esifudumele sibusa khona, ngisho nezingane ezikhulile zilele embhedeni nomama noyise. Abanye abashadile besaba ukuthi ukulala okuhlangene nomntwana kuzoba nomthelela ekuthinteni impilo yokulala ngokocansi, ukuphoqelela ukuxabana phakathi kwabashadile. Eqinisweni, emindenini ephephile lokhu akukwenzeki, futhi umsebenzi wezocansi unciphisa ngenxa yokukhathala, izinkinga ezingokwengqondo ngenxa yokubonakala kwemvuthu. Zama ukuhlela impilo yakho ngendlela yokuthi ujabulele izindima zombili: umzali nomlingani wakho.