Ingxenye kumele ibe yinhle
U-Oksana Bairak uqinisekile ukuthi kubalulekile ukuhlukanisa izinto ezinhle. Kanye nokuhlangana. I-Paris, i-Rome, i-Cannes yimizi yokuhlangana, ukulangazelela kwelanga, ukoma kwama-pheromones nomswakama ongathandeki wezifiso. Uma uhlangana, uhamba ngokuqondile endleleni yakho lapha. Ungadabuki.
Nokho, uma uhlukanisa, kufanele udle okuthile okuthandanayo, kodwa udoti, ukuze amapheromone ashiwo aphazamiseke ngokudabuka. Ukuze ahlanganyele naye, ehlushwa ukungathembeki kokungaqondani, u-Oksana wakhetha uDisemba noJurmala. Futhi angizange ngihluleke. Ngoba ku-Galaxy ayikho i-Nebula engavamile. Abangaphambili ababili bahamba ngasogwini, beqedwa emgodini, futhi umoya ovunguvungu olwandle luhlala njalo ebusweni bezinyembezi zosawoti olwandle. Noma kunjalo - isinqumo sokuphuka. Ngokushesha futhi okungenakuguqulwa.
Indoda okwakuyiminyaka emine eyabonakala sengathi u-Oksana ongcono kakhulu emhlabeni wayengezwa. Wahamba phambili futhi wamemeza ngesibindi ukuthi konke ukuhluleka kwakhe nabesifazane bevela ebuntwaneni. Ukungaqiniseki nokuhlukumezeka kwabo kuwubuyiselwa bakhe obuthakathaka obunqunu obubangelwa ubulili obuthakathaka, obangelwa ukuphikisana kwakhe nentsha ngokuziphatha kukayise, owathi lapho ekhulekela unina, wamlalela kukho konke. Futhi uye wanquma, ukuthi othandweni lwawo lokubonisa okufanayo ngeke kube khona. Ngoba uyindoda enamandla. Ngemva kokuzwa le nkulumo nokumhlola njengomqondisi, u-Oksana akavumelani njengowesifazane. Uqinisekile ukuthi izinga eliphezulu lamandla wesilisa libonakala ngokucacile ngokuvumela owesifazane othandekayo ukuba abe nomuzwa wendawo yonke.
Umuntu obuthakathaka ungowesifazane oqinile
U-Oksana Bairak, umqondo wokuthi "umuntu unamandla" nokuthi "umuntu ubuthakathaka" umane nje umkhuba wesimo. Indlela yokuhlonza isilinganiso, indlela okungaqondiswa ngayo le mqondo? Isibonelo, indoda inezinhlamvu ze-biceps, iwina kule ring. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, lo muntu ofanayo angathuka, ahloniphe owesifazane njengezwi futhi enze okuthile. Ingabe kunjalo naye, ifomula "indoda enamandla" isebenza?
Ekuqaleni, kwazalwa amadoda ukuba aqine, akusilo lutho ukuthi ubulili besilisa bubizwa ngokuthi yilokho. Maye, isimo sezomnotho samanje, esisizungezile sabantu senza ubuthakathaka babo. Amadoda amaningi angeke athole impilo entsha, engajwayelekile, ingxenye enkulu engakwazi ukuhlinzekela umndeni. La madoda ayedidekile. Futhi lapha enkundleni yezemidlalo, okuyinto engokwemvelo, engaziwayo ingqondo ye-polar ngaphambili - "owesifazane onamandla" - ivela ngokukhulayo.
Kuze kube yamuva, owesifazane oqinile, umkhiqizi nomqondisi uBairak ngokwakhe wathi izwe liphenduke phansi. Abesifazane besithatha izinkalo ngezandla zabo. Yebo, lapho uthi - eminyakeni eyishumi edlule, yena ngokwakhe wakha studio, fantasized, imibono ukugxila. Abayeni bakhe, kokubili kokuqala nangesibili, bachaze ngokuningiliziwe ukuthi benzeni nokuthi kanjani. Ngelinye igama, i-Bayrak yafaneleka ngokugcwele isibongo sayo, okusho ngesiTurkey ukuthi "ibhanna". Wayeqonda ukuthi wayenamandla, futhi wayethanda lesi sihloko. Lapho ngahlukana nabayeni bami, ngangicabanga ukuthi leli phutha lenziwa ngenxa yokuthi waqala ukuphila ngokungahambisani nokungafuni. Manje u-Oksana uyaqaphela ukuthi wahlukana nesinye isizathu esithile: wayekhathazekile ukukhathala kwendle ngamandla akhe, ukuphakama nesidingo sokwenza izinqumo.
- Namuhla, lapho ekugcineni ngigeza emkhathini wothando oluphelele, ngiyaqonda incazelo yombuzo kamama. Ngikhumbula, konke kwakhononda: "Mama, kungani ethanda lokho?" Kungani kufanele ngisungulwe konke ngokwami? Kungani kufanele "iqhinga leqembu" libheke emahlombe ami amancane? Kungani mina, futhi mina kuphela, ngiphoqelekile ukuholela ekunqobeni impilo yethu yomndeni ejabulisayo? "Umama waphendule wabuza:" Wake wacabanga ukuthi kuyiphutha lakho siqu? Lapho uqala ukuphola namadoda akho, bonke babenamandla kakhulu, akunjalo? Kungani udinga ukuqina nabo? "Manje ngiyathanda ngempela izwi lomuntu oyedwa:" Ubuthakathaka besifazane buhlabelela amandla omuntu. " Ngomusa! Njengoba "ingoma" enjalo ikhuthaza umuntu ukuba abe nokholo kuye, uzizwa engumuntu wezwe, futhi ngenxa yalokho akayena, kodwa owesifazane uba namandla, unomphemeli ompunga, futhi angakwazi ukulawula amadoda anesibindi emhlabeni wonke.
U-Oksana Bayrak wayenemicabango ehluke ngokuphelele. Mhlawumbe sekukhona amandla okuba buthakathaka? Mhlawumbe udinga ukwazi ukushaya i-eyelashes yakho ngobuwula? Akuyona into engcolile, kepha i-sexy ivula ukusikeka okuvela emvelweni noma kusuka emlonyeni wezindebe, ukulalela wonke amagama omuntu? Funda. Zijayeza phambi kwesibuko. Beka ukuhlolwa kumuntu wokuqala wokudlula, ekugcineni. Futhi uzophumelela! Kuyoba khona inkohliso ephakeme ngenxa yamaqiniso aphansi. Ukukhwabanisa kokubukeka kokubukeka ukuveza izifiso zabo ezihlakaniphile futhi bathole ukugcwaliseka kwabo kuyi-axiom yenjabulo yesifazane.
Mhlawumbe kuwufanelekile ukuzama ukululaza: "Othandekayo, kodwa ake sicabange, singayithola kanjani ekuhluphekeni? "Ngemuva kwalokho, emva kokuhlaselwa okuningi, okufunwa, ukungahambisani, into ebalulekile ibhujiswa. Indoda eyake yakutshela ukuthi "Ngiyamthanda! "Futhi omthandayo, kuvela ukuthi uyisitha sakho esikhulu. Futhi embhedeni nesitha - kuyesabeka.
Ngaphansi kokuqiniseka okujulile kokubili indoda kanye nomqondisi u-Oksana Bairak, hhayi othandweni, noma emkhayeni womkhaya, noma kunoma yiluphi ubudlelwane obukhulu, angeke abe khona, ngomqondo omubi wezwi, umthengi. Kuyinto enhle ngempela ukuthi idle uthando lomuntu othandekayo, kodwa kufanele ukhokhele ngemali efanayo. Futhi-ke siyakhohlwa ngokuphelele ngemicabango enjalo njengendoda eqinile nebuthakathaka.
Epilogue
Ngemuva kukaJurmala, u-Oksana wayengabonwanga naye. Futhi maduzane kwelinye lamagazini omangalisayo abashicilela i-interview ne-Hero yangaphambili. Kubonakala sengathi uyambonga uyise ngokuba yisibonelo samandla ekusebenzelaneni nowesifazane. Amandla abonakala eqinisweni lokuthi ubaba wavumela owesifazane othandekayo yonke iminyaka ukuba azizwe njengomuntu oyinhloko, kuphela oqinile ebuthakathakeni bawo, phakathi kwendawo yonke. Ngokufanayo, ukuphila kubeka wonke amaphuzu. Futhi lokho okwakubonakala kuyisibili futhi okungalungile kungahle kuvele kube ukuhlakanipha nokubaluleke kakhulu. Okungenani, lesi sikhundla somqondisi wezobuchwepheshe nomfazi omuhle u-Oksana Bayrak.