Namuhla, abesifazane, kanye nabesilisa, bahlanganyela emsebenzini womphakathi, baye baphumelela ngokucophelela cishe wonke umsebenzi wabantu. Unamalungelo afanayo, imisebenzi efanayo, umthwalo ofanayo. Yiyo kuphela isikhathi esilandelayo sokusebenza besifazane kuhluke kakhulu. Futhi kulokhu, njengoba kuzo zonke izindaba eziphathelene nabesilisa nabesifazane, kukhona ukuxabana phakathi kokubukwa kwesilisa nowesifazane ngalolu daba.
Ukubukeka kwesifazane
Amadoda amaningi akholelwa ukuthi ngemva kokubuya ekhaya evela emsebenzini, banelungelo lokuphumula ngemuva komsebenzi wosuku olukhuni. Kodwa abesifazane abaningi bazizwa benomthwalo wemfanelo wabo ohambisana nemisebenzi yasekhaya: isidlo sasekuseni, isidlo sasemini noma isidlo sakusihlwa kufanele silungele ngesikhathi, izingubo zezingane kanye nendoda kufanele zihlanzwe, futhi izingane kufanele zilungiswe futhi zondliwe.
Ukuhlakanipha kwabantu bathi: "Uma ufuna ukuthula emndenini, uhlukanisa imisebenzi ngokulinganayo." Nokho, leli qiniso likhohliwe ngamadoda amaningi. Futhi into yokuqala iningi labo abayenzayo uma bebuya ekhaya ngemva komsebenzi belele embhedeni, bathathe indawo eyihlane ukusuka kwi-TV noma iphephandaba, bese uchitha ukuphela kosuku ukwenza izivivinyo ezinjalo. Futhi abesifazane abaningi baya kuqala ekhishini noma baqale ukuhlanza indlu. Kodwa cabanga, kungakanani okusheshayo futhi ngaphandle kwalokho kulula ukwenza imisebenzi yasendlini uma ubathatha ndawonye?
Mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi sokushiya umbono wokuthi umthwalo wemisebenzi yonke yasekhaya uhlala kumfazi kuphela? Ngokungangabazeki, kubalulekile ukujwayele ukusebenza ekhaya kusukela ebuntwaneni, kokubili amantombazane nabafana. Phela, yonke imisebenzi ehlobene nomsebenzi wasekhaya kufanele isakazwe phakathi kwamalungu ayo onke. Futhi uma umuntu engenza isidlo esiphundu, hlambulula indlu noma enze okunye okubhekwa njengomsebenzi wesifazane, khona-ke umndeni uzothola kuphela amandla.
Ukubukeka komuntu
Ngokwemvelo, wonke umuntu ucabanga ukuthi wenza imisebenzi yasekhaya eyanele. Nakuba iningi labesifazane lingavumelani nalesi sitatimende, kodwa kancane kancane liqinisekisa umbono wabantu, isifundo esenziwa isikhungo socwaningo se-Dove yenkampani yamakha.
Ngokusho kwalolu cwaningo, amadoda akholelwa ukuthi abesifazane abamboni ukufaka isandla sabo ekunakekeleni indlu. Ochwepheshe bathi isizathu salokhu yikhono labesifazane abakwenzayo ezindabeni zasekhaya "umcimbi".
Amadoda angu-60% ahlolwe athi umsebenzi wabo wasekhaya awubonakali ngabangane babo. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, ngokusho kwamadoda ngokwawo, ukuhlanza indlu yangasese, ukukhipha udoti, ukufaka indawo yokulala emabhedeni kanye neminye imisebenzi yasekhaya kuthatha amahora angu-13 ngesonto. Kodwa abesifazane baveza ngamabomu umsebenzi wabo wesikole kulo mdlalo, kusho isigamu sabasolwa.
Kodwa, yini ngempela abantu abayenza ekhaya? Abangu-85% bafakazela ukuthi umthwalo wokususa endlini yodakazi uvele kubo kuphela. Abangu-80% abaphendulile bathi bakhulula "isigamu" sabo ngokugqoka izinsimbi ezinzima, bephethe izikhwama zokuthenga nokudla. Cishe u-78% wabamele abesilisa abanomzimba oqinile babika ukuthi banomsebenzi wokuthenga ukudla komndeni.
Ngakho-ke, ngokusho kochwepheshe, amadoda enza igalelo elikhulu kubaphathi bomnotho womndeni. Kodwa futhi, lolu cwaningo lucabangele umbono wabantu kuphela kanye nemibono yabesifazane abaningi ngeke kuthinte kakhulu. Ngakho inkinga yomsebenzi wasekhaya izoqhubeka ihamba phambili. Ngakho-ke, madoda nabesifazane, vele basizane, futhi umndeni wakho uzoba ngcono futhi uqine.