Umkhosi womshado usuke wabikezela ukusebenza kwezinhlobo ezikhethekile zemisebenzi eyenzelwe ukuletha injabulo emshadweni wobusha. Futhi uma izenzo ezinjalo emshadweni ngokwazo zingaba inombolo enkulu, amasiko angaphambi komshado awubalulekile. Umkhosi womshado uletha ndawonye izizukulwane eziningana, ujoyina imindeni ndawonye, futhi ngisho nokuphatha inyunyana yomshado ngokunakekelwa okukhethekile. Futhi lapha kukhona izikhathi eziningi eziyisihluthulelo zokuxhuma kwezizukulwane - ukujwayele kwabazali bomyeni nomakoti, bese ngokufanayo, futhi ekugcineni umzuzu obalulekile - ukujwayela kwabazali bomakoti nomkhwenyana.
Ezimweni eziningi, isinqumo somshado wesikhathi esizayo sithathwe ngabazali. Futhi, ezimweni eziningi, kwakukhona ukwaziswa kwabazali bomakoti nomkhwenyana okwakuyisihluthulelo futhi kuxhomeke kuye ukuthi ngabe imvume yomshado izozwakala yini. Lo mkhosi ubizwa ngokuthi i-matchmaking futhi unamasiko athakazelisayo kakhulu emazweni ahlukene.
E-Rus ukulungiselela umdlalo usuku oluphumelele kakhulu kukhethiwe - i-Pokrov, ngo-Okthoba 14. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, abagibeli bahlala ndawonye nabazali babo nezinye izihlobo, beza endlini yomakoti ngamahlaya namahlaya. Kodwa-ke, injongo yangempela yokumaketha yayicacile, futhi abazali bomakoti baphendule futhi ngokuthokoza. Kusuka emazwini ajabulisayo nangobufakazi, inkulumo ethi "unayo impahla, sinomthengisi" igcinwa, kulokhu kuyingxenye ebalulekile yabazali. Ngezinye izikhathi kwakudingeka ukuba uhlasele kabili noma kathathu, ikakhulukazi uma umakoti eyaziwa ngokuthi ubuhle, kodwa nge-dowry ecebile. Imvume yomshado yaboniswa edilini elihlangene labazali bobabili izinhlangothi. Uma abazali bomakoti bathumela umyeni wakhe isinkwa somshado wakhe - kwakusho "cha."
Futhi uma kuRussia isinyathelo esivela kubazali bomkhwenyana, eNdiya isiko sihluke ngokuphambene nalokho - abazali bomlobokazi bashadile. Isiko sisekhona kuze kube yilolu suku, kanti abanye abazali bomlobokazi nanjengeNdiya yanamuhla bavakashela abazali bezijaji ezifanele, bachaza ubuhle namakhono endodakazi yakhe kanye nenkosikazi yakhe. Ukuziwa komyeni nomfazi wesikhathi esizayo ngezinye izikhathi kuvela ezithombeni.
E-China, inothi lathunyelwa kubazali bomakoti, ebonisa igama lomkhwenyana, usuku nesikhathi sokuzalwa kwakhe. Njengoba kunikezwe ukubaluleka kwe-horoscope yasempumalanga kanye nomthelela walo kuzo zonke izigaba zomphakathi waseShayina, lo mzuzu wawunqume. Umndeni womlobokazi wachitha inhlanhla ngokuthi ngabe umkhwenyana nomakoti baphathelene, ngokusekelwe kokuqhathaniswa kwezinkanyezi zabo. Baye baqagela emndenini womyeni. Nge-horoscope enhle, imvume yanikezwa emshadweni.
Ngesikhathi esifanayo, abazali bomakoti nomkhwenyana baqaphela usuku lokusayina inkontileka yomshado. Indawo yokuhlangana kwabo kwakuyindlu yomlobokazi, phambi kwawo okwabekwa izibalo zezilwane ezenza injabulo, futhi ngaphambi kokungena endlini, onkulunkulu babekhulekela. Kwakukhona nokudla okuhlangene kokudla, kwakudingeka baphuze indebe yewayini - uphawu lwezindlu zabancane njengenkomishi ephelele.
Kodwa-ke, kwamanye amazwe, abazali babengenakuthonya isinqumo sabasha, ngakho-ke, ePolynesia, lo mfana ngokwakhe wayehambele intombazane, eza kuye ngesikhathi sokudansa embala wokulwa.
Ngemuva kokuvuma kwentombazane, le ntsha yabika isinqumo sabo kubazali bayo futhi uma abazali bomlobokazi bephikisana, intsha ingasinda. Kungabonakala ukuthi akudingeki ukuxhumana nabazali bomakoti nomkhwenyana, ngoba ekugcineni abazali bomakoti kufanele banikeze imvume yabo emshadweni futhi baphakamise ifulegi elimhlophe ngesimo somhlophe omhlophe-isipho kumlobokazi.
Njengoba kungabonakala ngezibonelo, ngezinye izikhathi ukujwayelana kwabazali bomkhwenyana nomlobokazi kuyisinqumo sokuthi umshado ungumuntu onjalo. Futhi nakuba amasiko amaningi manje ekhohliwe, futhi ukujwayele kwabazali namuhla ngokuvamile kuvamile, kusabalulekile kakhulu ukujwayela kahle umkhwekazi wesikhathi esizayo nomkhwezala, kanye nomkhwekazi noninazala.