Okokuqala udinga ukuthanda futhi ufisa umlingani wakho, kanye naye, futhi okwesibili, udinga umlingani ukwazi ukuthi yini okudingayo embhedeni wakho, ukuze uthole injabulo enkulu, kahle, okwesithathu udinga ukwazi ukuthi umlingani udinga yini embhedeni, ngoba kangangokuthi waze wafinyelela enqenqemeni yenjabulo. Uma ngezimo ezimbili zokuqala, thina, ngokujwayelekile, sincane okumele sikwenze, khona-ke nasi isimo sesithathu ngokuphelele ezandleni zethu (hhayi kuphela). Futhi lesi sihloko kufanele sikusize uqonde ukuthi yini umuntu ayithandayo embhedeni.
Ukuze uphendule ngokucacile, kulesi sihloko ngeke kube khona noma yiziphi iziqondiso eziqondile futhi eziqondile, zenze njalo nokunye, ngoba, kuwe ongasho, umuntu ngamunye indlela yakhe. Kuzophinde kube neseluleko jikelele ukukusiza ukuthi uqonde ukuthi yini abantu abathandayo.
Ngakho-ke, ake siye phansi iseluleko.
UMkhandlu kuqala. Ukuqonda, udinga ukubuza.
Njengoba wazi, isidalwa akuyona isidalwa nje, futhi umuntu ngale ndaba akahlukile. Ngakho-ke, indlela elula yokuthola ukuthi uthanda ukuthini ngocansi, umbuze ngqo, futhi ihora, indlela eqondile iyona mfushane kakhulu. Futhi ngakho-ke akudingekile ukuba wesabe, ukuthi ngizocabangela noma ngibale njengento engcolile noma encibilikisiwe, njengendlela yokubonisa, ukuhlanganiswa okunjalo kumnandi kubantu. Kubalulekile ukuthi umlingani aqonde, futhi angabonisa ngokucacile emagama ukuthi yini ngempela ayifunayo, nokuthi yini ayithandayo embhedeni.
Umkhandlu wesibili. Ungesabi ukuzama.
Indlela yokuqala, i-alas, kanye ne-ah ayilungele njalo ngezizathu eziningi (ukuzithoba, imfundo, njll). Kulesi simo, isayensi iyasiza. Esikhathini sesayensi, kunendlela enjalo yophenyo njengokuzama, futhi, njengomthetho, inikeza imiphumela ebalulekile kunazo zonke. Yilokho futhi udinga ukuyifaka enkonzweni (futhi nakanjani izincwadi ezimbalwa, ama-movie noma amawebhusayithi ku-intanethi) - lokhu kuzokusiza uqonde lokho umuntu akuthandayo embhedeni. Uma usuqedile ngokweqile, yisikhathi sokuqala ukuvivinya umzimba. Phakamisa abafana bakho, izinto ezintsha, amageyimu ahlukene, agqoke ama-sexy lingerie, ungaqhuba ukukhanya kwe-Garden-Mazo. Yiqiniso kuphela, ungazami yonke into ngesikhathi esisodwa, bese ubulili bakho buzophenduka izithombe ezingcolile ezingcolile. Phela, ngisho nasezivivinyweni udinga ukwazi isilinganiso!
Iseluleko sesithathu. Yiba nokusebenza okukhulu.
Njengoba siqonda, ngisho noBurinino ayithandi ukulala negogo. Futhi indoda ephuma enyama negazi ayikwazi ukukhuluma. Ngakho-ke, thina besifazane, akudingeki sibe yilogi, kodwa kudingeka sikhuthele, sikhumbule, ngokuba nobulili obuhle, kubalulekile ukuthi bahlanganyele kuzo zombili abalingani. Qala umdlalo wezocansi, ukushaya kancane umuntu, ukumncenga, ukukhanya umlilo emehlweni akhe. Amadoda njengabantwana, uyomtshela ukuthi uyena olala kahle embhedeni futhi uzokholelwa ngokushesha!
Inombolo yomkhandlu ezine. Yenza kube kuhle!
Isimo ngesikhathi sokusondelana, kumuntu ovamile, kubalulekile. Yiqiniso, ngezinye izikhathi wonke umuntu ufuna ukuhlolwa, kodwa namanje, amashidi amasha, isimo esimnandi sokuphumula, konke lokhu kufana namadoda. Ekugcineni, ngisho nobulili obubi etafuleni ekhishini kungcono futhi kube mnandi uma itafula ligcwala futhi ikhishi lihlanzekile. Njengoba bethi, umuntu wamanje usetshenziselwa ukududuza, futhi ngisho nasecansini akafuni ukuyeka, futhi lokhu kuyadingeka kucatshangelwe.
Mhlawumbe lezi zeluleko ezine ziyisisekelo sokuqonda ukuthi yini abantu abathanda ngayo ngocansi. Ngoba, njengoba sekushiwo ngenhla, umuntu uthanda ikhabe, ingxube yezinye izingulube, futhi umsebenzi wethu ukucacisa ukuthi ubani ozokwenza isidlo sakusihlwa.