A suit, igolide chain kanye rolex - indoda ehloniphekile noma daffodil ezindlebeni ngemali mboleko? Kulesi sihloko uzothola ama-5 amaqiniso mayelana namadoda afanelekile futhi uzoqonda ukuthi ungayibona kanjani umlingani ongcono kakhulu womndeni
Nsuku zonke ngizwa abesifazane bekhuluma ngamadoda afanelekayo: ukuthi bazenza kanjani ukuthi babheke, ukuthi bathande nokuthi benzani abesifazane, futhi konke kuzoba kuhle, kodwa ingxenye yalezi zingxoxo zingenangqondo kanye nezinganekwane eziqinile. Futhi ukuze kukhishwe lezi zindlovu futhi kususe ezinye zezinkolelo zamakhosikazi ezingamanga ngamadoda amaphupho, nganquma ukubhala lesi sihloko. Ubani "I"?
Igama lami nguLevi Vozhevatov, iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-12 ngiye ngasiza ekwakheni ubuhlobo besilisa nabesifazane. Ngeluleka abanikazi bamabhizinisi abaphumelelayo kanye nama-oligarchs ekufuneni abafazi, badlulisela ingqondo yabesilisa kubesifazane futhi babasize bathole amadoda ahloniphekile iminyaka emine. Futhi manje kubantu abathandekayo nezinkolelo eziphathelene nabo.
Ubani umuntu ofanelekayo?
Uthola imali engaphezu kuka-$ 3000, okwanele, uthatha umthwalo wemfanelo kuye kanye nabathandekayo bakhe, uzibophezele ebuhlotsheni obunzima. Indoda ehloniphekile ivame ukuhlakanipha nokuthakazelisa. Indoda enjalo iyindoda efiselekayo, kodwa imfihlakalo kakhulu ekuboneni kuqala, yingakho izinkolelo zezindiza zizungezile. Ukuze ungadideki, ukugxila "kumuntu siqu" futhi ungawa ezindongeni zokudoba zomphakathi, izinkolelo kufanele ziqondiswe futhi ziqondwe.
Inkolelo-ze 1: "Amadoda ahloniphekile abukeka njengama-machomains"
Le myth yehlela kubantu abaningi kusukela ebhayisikobho futhi ibonise ibhizinisi. Isiqeshana esihle, lapho isibindi esinamandla, esishaya i-Agent 007, ekhanda elihle elinezikhwama ezinamakhanda ahlanganisiwe liphuma egumbini, limamatheka futhi libheke amantombazane. Ukubukeka kumnikeza umuntu izimfanelo ezingokomlando zomuntu: uma ufika futhi ucabanga ukuthi unguNkulunkulu, bese kuthi kuvela ukuthi lo mono empilweni yangempela ungumama-gay. Indlela yokusebenzisa inkolelo-mlando: ngesipiliyoni ngizosho ukuthi amadoda afanelekayo engangiwasebenzisayo cishe abantu abulula kakhulu, ngoba akuyona into ejwayelekile yokubonisa imali enkulu phakathi kwabantu abahlakaniphile. Yebo, iwashi elihle, yebo, izicathulo ezibizayo, kodwa ayikho i-machismo eyedlulele. Kuvinjelwe futhi kulula.
Ngabona u-stylist - ungasheshi ukudubula amehlo
Indlela yokubona ngokunembile indoda ehloniphekile efundwa encwadini yami yamahhala "Indlela yokuthola nokuheha umuntu ohloniphekile."
Inganekwane 2: "Amadoda afanelekayo anomusa kakhulu, anesizotha nemikhuba"
Njengenganekwane eyedlule, nalokhu kwavela ku-TV. Abesifazane bakhohlwe ukuthi amadoda aphumelelayo yibo abantu abanebhizinisi noma isikhundla esiphakeme, futhi kuleli zinga akunakwenzeka ukwenza imali enhle uma banobuhle futhi bethandekayo. Ngendlela ye-mask - kungenzeka, kepha bonke abantu abaphumelelayo babumbene ukuqina nesimo se-punchy. Ngaphandle kwalokho, ungahlali nje kuleli zwe lebhizinisi. Emadodeni anjalo, ukuphila kuyinselele eqhubekayo, yingakho kungenakwenzeka ukuthi ushintshe ngokushesha umvuthwandaba wokulinganisa. Indlela yokusebenzisa inganekwane: uma usebenzelana nendoda, unomuzwa wokuthi unzima kakhulu, lokhu akusona isizathu sokubheka okusha. Vumela ukukhulumisana kwakho kuvulwe.
Uma ibukhali, ungasheshi ukugijima. Bheka kancane
Inganekwane 3: "Amadoda ahloniphekile ahlala ezinyaweni ezibanzi"
Futhi kulo mbono, kuyo yonke inkazimulo yayo, uthando lwabesifazane baseRussia ngokuphila okunethezeka kubonakala. Futhi abezindaba kanye ne-cinema baletha izithelo zabo. Isithombe somfana onzima waseRashiya ongeke enamandla ebizwa ngokuthi i-jeep engena endaweni yokudlela ukuze adle ukunambitheka kwe-hazel grouse kuma-pineapples, eneqembu labalindi kanye nefulethi elingu-5 enkabeni yeMoscow alinikezi ukuphumula. Futhi kungani ngempela isithombe esinjalo? Uke wabona okwanele, kodwa lesi sithombe singamanga. Ngikhumbula ukuthi maduzane kwakunezinkulungwane ezingu-90, futhi abazange bahambe noma yikuphi kuningi lamadoda. Ngakho khumbula:
Ocebile lo muntu, kancane kancane uyakhanga
Kungani? Izizathu ezimbili:
- Imfuyo ye-show iyisisusa esingenasisekelo, futhi ezweni lethu kungenzeka ukuba ulahlekelwe yizinto zonke izinsuku ezimbalwa nawo wonke umsebenzi onzima.
- Uma uhola kabanzi, ukwandisa ngokwengeziwe futhi utshala imali: noma ukuphonsa imali ku-inzuzo yakho, noma kwenye indawo. Imali kufanele isebenze.
Ngangivame ukubona abanye abafundi bami bakha amahhotela abo, kuyilapho bona ngokwabo behlala endaweni efanayo eduze nendawo. Indlela yokusebenzisa inganekwane: indoda ngokwemvelo ayidingi ukunethezeka. Angaphila ezimweni ezijwayelekile futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ashisa ibhizinisi lakhe, ngakho-ke uma elula futhi engadli lobster - ungasheshi ukuyeka.
Inganekwane 4: "Amadoda ahloniphekile abukeka kuphela ekubukeni kwe-supermodel"
Uma ubheka khona manje kumakhosikazi ama-oligarchs, umbuzo uzovalwa. Abaningi kakhulu - abesifazane abalungile futhi abanama-supermodel. Bheka, iyini indlela:
Bonke abafanelekayo, abaphumelelayo nabacebile njalo banokukhetha phakathi kwabesifazane. Ubhekene nokunakekelwa kwabesifazane okwandisiwe. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, akunzima ukuqagela ukuthi cishe wonke amantombazane ubheka ngokujulile esikhwameni salesi sibonelo, kanti abanye baze bazame nokuqonda kahle izimali zabo zebhajethi ngokusemandleni abo - isimo sinjalo kwabesifazane. Umthelela ohlangothini wokunakekelwa kwezingane okuqinisiwe kula madoda: emva kokushisa, le ndoda iphendulela ukuskena okugcwele, ngoba iyaqonda ukuthi owesifazane othanda imali / amathuba akhe akuyona indawo. Ngendlela, yingakho uma ngiqeqesha amaklayenti acebile, omunye wemibandela yokuqeqesha ukuhlukanisa nabaqaphi futhi asuse zonke izigqoko ezibomvu ezikwazi ukugibela imisila. Umuntu ophumelelayo udinga ugqozi, ukwethembeka, wesifazane, nokubukeka, uma ufuna ngempela, ungayenza.
Uma ungesona imodeli, kodwa uyayithanda futhi uyayisekela - unayo yonke ithuba
Inganekwane 5: "Amadoda ahloniphekile ahlala ezweni lawo elivaliwe"
Ngokwezinga elithile kunengqondo, kodwa inganekwane. Yebo, amadoda aphumelelayo abathanda induduzo nokulondolozwa kwesikhashana - kungenxa yale njongo ukuthi amakilasi ebhizinisi adalwe ezindizeni nasezindaweni ze-VIP ezindaweni zokudlala, kepha laba bantu bahlala futhi basebenzi edolobheni elikhethekile elihlukile, kodwa endaweni efanayo lapho yonke into ikhona. Futhi yebo, ngeke uhlangane nabo ehhovisi, noma emtholampilo wesifunda, kodwa uma ubheka endaweni yokudlela enhle, noma emtholampilo wangasese, amathuba angaphezulu. Lapho isevisi - khona lapho. Uhlu lwazo zonke izindawo lapho uzothola indoda ehloniphekile encwadini ethi "Indlela yokuthola nokuheha umuntu ofanelekayo." Isiphetho:
Amadoda afanele eceleni kwakho, bheka nxazonke.
Indlela yokusebenzisa ulwazi oluvela ku-athikili empilweni: - Ungathembi izindaba zezintombi ngaphandle kokuhlola konke ngokusebenza. Ukucabanga kufanele kusize ekufezeni umgomo, hhayi ngokuphambene nalokho.
- Ungesabi ukuvuleka emhlabeni: ngokushesha nje uma ucabanga ngeqiniso lokuthi amadoda afanelekile endaweni ethile, aqala ukuhlangana endleleni
- Ungagxila emagcekeni, njengomthetho emva kokukhazimula nobuhle obufihla abahlaziyi abadinga ukunakwa (nakuba kungenjalo)
- Akuzona njalo umuntu ohloniphekile onomusa, izindleko zezwe elinzima ziphoqeleka ukuba zihlambalaza, kodwa zingokoqobo
- Uma umuntu ethanda i-borsch ne-buckwheat, lokhu akusho ukuthi ungumfundi nje, futhi akakhanyisi
- Umuntu ofanelekayo uhlakaniphile futhi akaholeli ekubukeni. Futhi yebo, kufanele ulungiswe, kodwa uma ungesona isibonelo, kodwa ngezwe elicebile ngaphakathi futhi uma ungayidingi imali, unethuba lokuba ngumkakhe
- Futhi owokugcina: yiba ngokwakho, smile futhi uphuthukise. Umuntu ofanelekayo ususondele kakade.
Inhlanhla!
I-PS Uma uthanda lesi sihloko futhi ufuna ukwazi okwengeziwe ngengqondo yezinsizakalo eziphumelelayo noma okumele ube khona, ukuze indoda epholile ikubize ngosuku, bheka imiyalo yokuthi ungadonsela kanjani e-ncwadi yami yamahhala "Indlela yokuthola nokuheha umuntu ofanelekayo."
Kusukela encwadini uzofunda:
- Yiziphi izimfanelo zesifazane ezithandwa amadoda aphumelelayo
- Yini okufanele yenziwe ukuze amadoda azijwayele?
- Funda ukuthi ungathola kanjani izipho ezibizayo
- Uzofunda ukuthi ungajwayela kanjani izinyathelo eziphumelelayo ze-charismatics, ukuthi zizocabangela wena kuphela
Ukuchofoza okukodwa, futhi ungumlobokazi onomona! Mthetho! Landa incwadi kuze kufike isikhathi esilandelayo! Inhlanhla!