Indlela yokuwa othandweni nendoda ene-gait eyodwa

Sisebenza ngokunyakaza njalo. Yeka ukuthi umhlaba ungayazi kanjani umuntu othakazelisayo?

Kwenzekani nsuku zonke empilweni yomuntu ngamunye? Iningi lamantombazane lihlale ligijimela endaweni ethile futhi liphikisana. Usebenza, funda, unosuku olumatasa. Ukuzama ukubamba konke ngesikhathi esifushane, ngoba isikhathi sincane, futhi udinga kokubili lokhu nalokhu.

Lapho uhamba usuka esitolo, ukhulume efonini. Kulo mzuzwana phansi ngangifuna ngempela ukuhlangana nendoda. Kodwa ifoni inqume wonke amadoda. Sasihamba masinyane futhi sasimatasa. Lokhu uye wehlisa amathuba okuthi umuntu uzokuhlangabeza. La madoda abona ukuthi intombazane yayihamba ngokushesha. Futhi bacabanga ukuthi intombazane yayimatasa, futhi kwakungcono ukungamkhathazi. Futhi ngokukhuluma efonini, ubulale ekugcineni labo bantu abakwazanga ukuxhumana. Indlela yokufunda ukuziphatha ukuze amadoda azijwayele, thola encwadini ethi "Indlela yokuthola nokuheha umuntu ofanelekayo." Ukubuka, ukuhamba ngokusheshisa nokuxoshwa ngengxoxo yocingo, isiphetho esisodwa sisho ukuthi: "Intombazane imatasa, ikhuluma." Ngizoyithini? Wena wabhubhisa ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi indoda iza ukuhlangana nawe. Ngakho-ke, udinga ukutholwa kancane kancane ukusebenza phakathi nosuku ngendlela yokuthi abantu bakhangwe, abalahlekile. Kukhona amadoda. Kuneziningi zazo. Kalula awuboni lapho uhamba khona futhi ugijima nxazonke.

Yenza ukuhlolwa - shiya kusengaphambili!

Awushiyi isigamu sehora, ukugijima uye emgwaqweni ongaphansi komhlaba, uphume ebhokisini le-trolley noma ebhasini le-trolley. Futhi ushiye indlu 2 amahora ngaphambi kokuqala kosuku lokusebenza noma esikoleni. Unganaki umbono womuntu. Yini ebaluleke kakhulu: injabulo noma umbono wabantu abaseduze? Uma uhamba kancane kancane uhlangana nendoda, indoda epholile, mhlawumbe kuyoba umuntu ongcono kakhulu ekuphileni? Spit on imibono yabanye.

Yini ebaluleke nakakhulu? Yebo, umuntu. Ngakho-ke ungamnaki noma ubani.

Hambisa kancane kancane. Kancane kancane akusho ukuthi uyisiphukuphuku futhi ubukeka uyisiphukuphuku. Kancane kancane lo wesifazane uhamba. Azikho ngokushesha. Ukunyakaza ngalunye kufanele kwenziwe ngenani elincishisiwe. Futhi amantombazane akwenza kancane kancane, kahle.

Uhamba kancane. Ijubane nesigqi se-gait kufanele sibe cishe okungama-40% wezinga lokugeleza okuphelele. Uma ukugeleza kwabantu kushukuthela ngesivinini se-5 km / h, isivinini sakho, okungenani, 2 km / h. Kufanele uphume kusuka ekusakazeni, hamba kancane. Abesifazane bavame kanjani ukuvuka bese bevuka? Wagijima phezulu, wahlala phansi, "Awu? Uphi? Uyini?", Wagijima. Zonke ukunyakaza zibukhali. Ibulala ubulili, futhi iheha.

Yenza konke ukuhamba kahle

Wavuka kahle, wahlala kahle. Isithombe. Yenze isithombe. Faka unyawo lwakho emlenzeni wakho futhi uqale umsebenzi. I-gait ihamba kancane, ukunyakaza kwezandla kuyalinganiswa. Ukuze ufinyelele ipensela, ngemuva kwenothi. Cabanga ukuthi kusukela ekuseni udubula ikhamera ye "House 2", isibonelo, noma enye inkulumo yokubonisa. Le ikhamera iseduze nsuku zonke, futhi kusakazwa izigidi ze-TV, lonke izwe likubukele. Hambisa kahle. Ukungena kahle emotweni yomshuwalense, imoto enhle kakhulu - lokhu ngokuvamile kuyisimo socansi. Yenza konke kube bushelelezi, buhle kakhulu, buhle kahle. Hambisa ngale ndlela usuku lonke. Bahlala phansi, bavuka, bathatha ifoni. Ngisho noma ephikelela ekubizeni, yithathe kancane kancane. Kwakukhona isimo esingazinhle, ngokwesibonelo, into ethile yawela. Udinga ukukhawuleza ngokushesha, pick it up?

Cha, akunjalo. Wena uyintombazane. Wawa, wabheka futhi waphakamisa kancane kancane leli thoyizi, umgogodla, ipensela futhi wehlisa kancane kancane. Vumela la madoda agijime. Wenza konke kancane kancane futhi ngokushelela. PS Uma uthanda lesi sihloko, thatha incwadi ye-e-mail "Indlela yokuthola nokuheha umuntu ohloniphekile" mahhala. Uzofunda ini futhi ufunde encwadini?

• Uzothola ukuthi ubani ophumelelayo ukushada
• Uzofunda ukwenza njalo ukuze abantu ngokwabo bazijwayele
• Funda ukuthi ungathola kanjani izipho ezibizayo
• Uzozifunda ujwayelene nama-charismatics aphumelelayo
• Uzofunda ukuthi ungahlala kanjani kumuntu wakho kuphela

Uma ufuna ukushintsha impilo yakho ibe ngcono futhi ujabule eduze komuntu ofanelekayo, bese uchofoza kulesi sixhumanisi, thatha le ncwadi bese uqala ukwakha injabulo yakho.