Awukwazi ukumkhohlwa, ngisho noma uqaphela ukuthi awusamthandi. Futhi lezi zinkumbulo zakhe ziyakunxusa. Futhi kuleso simo, noma ubani kithi ubuza ukuthi "Ungakhohlwa kanjani othandekayo, uma umbona nsuku zonke." Ake sizame ukukhipha lokhu ndawonye, futhi sibheke izindlela eziningana zokulikhohlwa, ezibalwe ngezansi. Cabanga ngezinzuzo zabo nokungalungi.
Indlela yoku-1 - Hlanganisa nge-wedge-wedge.
Ngale ndlela ukukhohlwa indoda yangaphambili, mhlawumbe, yaziwa yinye eMgodini we-Stone Age. Uthi mayelana nalokhu okulandelayo, ukukhohlwa ubudlelwane obunye, abanye baqale. Le ndlela isebenza kahle, umuntu omusha, imizwelo emisha, imibala emisha yokuphila, konke lokhu kusebenza kahle ukukhipha izinkumbulo zomuntu wangaphambili (noma okungenani ukuwagwinya). Ukungahambi kwalendlela ukuthi kunzima ukuthola ubuhlobo obunzima ngokushesha, futhi uma nje unomlando omfushane, umphumela uzobe uphila isikhathi esifushane. Kodwa ngisho noma ubona othandekayo wakho nsuku zonke, ngeke kube buhlungu kakhulu.
Indlela ye-2 - isikhathi eside sokuphila!
Njengoba ungabona kusuka esihlokweni, ukuze ukhohlwe umuntu, umuntu kufanele ahlose ikhanda lakhe ngeqembu lezinye izinkinga, ngaphezulu ukucindezela futhi ukuxazulula kuze ukukhathala. Thatha izibopho ezengeziwe, wenze imibiko ekhaya kusihlwa, njengoba bethi, thatha okuningi, qhubeka. Le ndlela inesithakazelo esicacile, yilokho okushiwo yile ndaba. Kuyinto engavamile ukuba intombazane yenza umsebenzi omuhle ngemuva kokuhlukanisa nensizwa, okushoyo, ku-fuse kwesokunxele ngemva kokuhlukanisa, ngakho kwakunzima kakhulu ukukhohlwa othandekayo kubo. Noma kunjalo, le ndlela inamaminithi ayo, hhayi wonke umuntu angasebenza kanzima ukukhohlwa okwangaphambili. Futhi akuwona wonke umuntu osebenzayo onemibandela yalowo msebenzi wokuphoqa.
Indlela 3 - zizinakekele!
Njengoba siyazi, ukukhuphula futhi ukuqeda izinkumbulo ezimbi, akukho lutho olungcono kune-SPA, noma i-cosmetology, noma ukwenza izinto, noma ukuthenga. Ngokuvamile, yenza lokho okuthandayo nokuthi yini ekulethela injabulo. Emva kwakho konke, uzovuma, emva kwesimiso sokuphumula okuphumuzayo, izinkumbulo zomuntu wangaphambili, nje ungangeni engqondweni yakho. Ingubo entsha noma izicathulo, ziphakamisa kahle isimo! Ngaphezu kwalokho, lapho usuku olulandelayo ubona i-ex yakho, khona-ke uyakumangala ukukubona ezintweni ezintsha. Yiqiniso, futhi ngale ndlela, ngaphandle kokubunzima, zonke izinto ezijabulisayo, njengombuso, zidinga imali, kodwa sinalo, imali encane.
Indlela 4 - ukuziveza nokuziqhenya.
Uma sekuyisikhathi eside ufuna ukuzizama kunoma yibuphi ubuciko, noma uvakashele imibukiso, yeshashalazi, sekuyisikhathi salokhu. Uma uthatha ibhulashi ngesandla, nephepha le-watercolor, khona-ke ungathola okuningi okuvelayo nemibono. Ungabhalisela inkambo yokudansa, noma kumbuthano wesithombe. Ngempela, akukho lutho olungasiphulukisi umphefumulo, njengokwenza ubuciko nobuciko. Ukukhohlwa i-chelovka oyikhonzile ngosizo lokudala kulula kakhulu. Le ndlela iphelele kuwe, uma uzizwa unesifiso sobuciko ngaphakathi kwakho, kodwa uma ungenalo ithonya elinjalo, ngesaba ukuthi akuhambisani nawe.
Indlela 5 - bona umhlaba.
Njengoba u-Kipling uthe, ukuphila kuhle ngoba ungahamba. Futhi ukuhamba, izindawo ezintsha, abantu abasha, ukubonakala okusha, konke lokhu kuyindlela enhle yokukhohlwa okwangaphambili. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngeke ubone omthandayo nsuku zonke. Futhi akudingeki ukuba kube yinqaba ye-round-the-world, kungenzeka ukuthi kungabi eshibhile futhi kube nekhwalithi eceleni kwendandatho yegolide. Lapha, emva kwakho konke, into esemqoka ayikude, kodwa imizwelo emisha. Ukungabi nalutho kwalendlela, kungcono imali nesikhathi, ngesigqi sesimanje kunzima ukuthola isonto elingalindelekile ukuthi lihambe futhi liphumule, futhi isikhathi esifushane ngesaba ukuthi izinkumbulo azikwazi ukubuthelela.
Ukufingqa konke okungenhla, ungase ufinyelele esiphethweni sokuthi ukuyikhohlwa (yangaphambili) kulula, ngisho noma ubona njalo nsuku zonke. Into esemqoka ukunakekela okuthile, hhayi ukuhlala endaweni eyodwa, phinda izingalo zakho!