Le ndoda, ethinta ubuhle besifazane, injengesilo sasendle esilimele. Akayitholi indawo futhi ayikwazi ukuzola phansi aze anqobe inhliziyo yenhle ekhethiwe. Yiqiniso, kulula kumadoda, kule ndaba. Phela, noma ubani kithi, uyajabula uma ilungu lezocansi elinamandla lisinikeza ukunakwa okufanele futhi sizama ukusibonisa sonke isihawu sakhe nganoma iyiphi indlela. Futhi-ke ngisho akunandaba nhlobo ukuthi singamphendula ngokuzwelana noma cha. Inqubo eyinhloko ngokwayo yilapho uyindlovukazi, futhi uhlala ejikeleza ngokuzungezile "inceku" ezama ukukhipha ukhiye oyithandayo enhliziyweni yakho. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi indoda ihlale iphikelela futhi impela emuva kangaka kunzima kuye. Ukufisa owesifazane, uhlale ecosha ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi uyisinkwa esihlwabusayo, okufanele sibe salo lapha futhi manje, kusukela ekhanda kuya ezithendeni. Ukulahlekelwa, ezindabeni zothando, amadoda athethelela kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, esitokisini sakhe, zonke izindlela zilungile. Futhi-ke, yini umuntu ayenzayo ukuze akhangele owesifazane omuhle? Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungase kuzwakale kanjani ibhanal, kodwa cishe konke. Ukufeza kwakhe, usebenzisa, ngisho nokubonakala, ekuboneni kwethu, izenzo zezingane. Ngakho, ukuthi ukwazi ukuthi umgomo wakhe nguwe, akunzima neze.
Okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, indoda igqoka imaski yombono oqhoshayo futhi ongenasibindi - onqoba bonke abesifazane futhi ngaleyo ndlela uthatha isinyathelo sonke ezandleni zakhe. Lokhu kuyindlela yakhe yokuzivikela kuzo zonke izinkimbinkimbi zakhe nokungaqiniseki. Futhi manje, useyindlela yokukhohlisa. Esinye sezikhwama ezifanele kakhulu zomuntu kule akhawunti yikhono lakhe lokukuthabisa ngezingxoxo zakhe. Lapha uzama ukuzitholela yonke inkazimulo yayo, azibeka njengomuntu othakazelisayo, othakazelisayo nomuntu wokuqala. Ngendlela, amadoda athokoza kakhulu ukutshela ngokwawo, ngoba umgomo wabo oyinhloko ukukhombisa intombazane impumelelo yakhe kanye nokuzibandakanya okukhulu. Phakathi nale ngxoxo, uzozama njalo, ehleka ukubuka ukuthi usabela kanjani ngokushesha. Ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ngisho nokuthi indoda iguqula isiteji sezwi lakhe, ukuthi ngingathi, ngiphakamise izindlebe zakho futhi ngahlala isikhathi eside engqondweni yakho. "Abesifazane bathanda ngezindlebe zabo," - futhi wonke umuntu ozokwazi ukuyihlola uyakhumbula lokho. Ngendlela, ukumomotheka kwakhe kuzothuthuka, kuphela kuwe, othandeke kulo lonke kusihlwa, futhi ukuncoma kwakhe kuyoba, isiko langempela. Uzokugeza nje ngamazwi aphatha kabi, hhayi nakancane kunzima, ukuphindaphindiwe ukuphinda ukuthi uyathandeka kanjani futhi ujabulise kangakanani. Ukuncoma kwakhe kubonisa ukuzwelana nokudlala ngothando. Ngikholelwa, ukudlala ngothando komuntu, akubi nakakhulu kunokwesifazane.
Uma ummeli wezocansi ezinamandla ehluleka ngempela ukubonakala kwakho, khona-ke amehlo akhe ayomkhaphela ukuze angenzi. Ubukeka kuphela kuwe ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngezinye izikhathi uzivumela ukuba ahlenge noma afune ngokungaqondile ukubamba amehlo akho. Ngakho, amehlo akhe, lesi yisikhali esikhulu nesinamandla. Ukukhuluma nokushintshanisa ukubukwa kufanele ukwengeze nokuxhumana okungekho emlomo, noma kunalokho ukuziphatha kwakhe. Ngaphambi kwakho, uzama njalo ukuthatha i-pose enjalo, ezokhipha futhi ikhombise konke okusemandleni akhe nokuzethemba. Ikakhulukazi uma isoka lakho linemininingwane emihle kakhulu yenyama, ke-ke ngicabanga, angeze aphuthelwe ithuba lakhe lokubabonisa phambi kwakho. Ukuze uthole ukuhlangana okukhulu, indoda, njengokungathi ngengozi, izama ukushaya isandla sakho noma ukuyithatha, zama ukususa i-curl yezinwele eziwela ebusweni bakho. Uma isimo sifana, isibonelo, iqembu noma indawo yokudla ngomculo, isimemo sokudansa asithathi isikhathi eside ukulinda. Ukuxhumana ngokomzimba ngalolu hlobo kuyisignali sokuqala ukuthi uzimisele ukuthatha isinyathelo esibi nesinqunyiwe. Yiqiniso, kukhona okungafani nemithetho, ummemezeli ongeyena umlutha angase aqale ukukhuphuka ngezandla noma ngisho nokumanga. Kodwa, masithemba ukuthi, uNkulunkulu ngeke asithume. Futhi sizofunwa kuphela ngabahlakaniphileyo nabahlakaniphile. Ngokuqondene nesici sokugcina, kodwa ukukhwabanisa okungavamile kokukhwabanisa kwamadoda kusekhona. Futhi hhayi kuphela ngezikhathi lapho umuntu ayekwazi khona ukwenza izenzo ezinhle kakhulu. Shaya isandla sakho, unike eyakho, uvule iminyango, yehla phambili, noma nje kukusize uhlale esihlalweni, lezi zonke izibonakaliso ezinkulu ukuthi ithebulathi yakho yamanje ikulungele noma yini. Lapha kungahle kube yi-declassified.
Kwezici ezikhethekile zokukhwabanisa kwamadoda, ungabona futhi amasu akhethekile namanye. Isibonelo, iningi labamele abesilisa ababuthakathaka banethemba lokuthi isimo sakhe sezezimali esinganqoba owesifazane. Ngakho-ke, ngaphandle kokuzisola, uzomane azame ukukufakazela lokhu, ngosizo lwezinhlobo ezihlukahlukene zokuphatha, izimbali ezithengiwe ngokungalindelekile, noma ngisho nje ezincane kakhulu nabangenangqondo, njalo ususe imali yakho ephaketheni lakho ephaketheni lakho, ukuze "uzikhanyise" phambi kwakho.
Ngaphezu kwazo zonke ezinye izinqubo umuntu azenza ukuze akhangele owesifazane omuhle, u-adorer wakho angakhetha eyodwa yezithombe ezifanekisela yena, ukuze aqaphele uhlelo lwakhe. Kungaba i-macho embi, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo, umculi wezocansi, umuntu obuthakathaka nobuthakathaka noma umlingani ongunaphakade ongakusiza ukukufundela amavesi noma ukuphikelela ekuhambeni ngaphansi kwenyanga. Ezinye zalezi zithombe, umbono wakhe futhi zizomkhaphela ukuthi ukuqala kanye nenhle, okungeke ukwazi ukuma khona kanye nehora elifanayo ozinikela ngalo, ukugxuma ezandleni zakhe.
Futhi ekugcineni, kufanelekile ukwazi ukuthi indoda ayikho embi kakhulu kunowesifazane ngesikhathi sokufeza umgomo wakhe, ikakhulukazi uma kuphazamiseka ekutholeni ukunamathela kobulili obuhlukile. Ngakho-ke, uma ekhetha esixukwini futhi uyinqobile ngobuhle bakho, izenzo zakhe nezindlela azothatha isikhathi eside. Uzoyiqonda lokhu ngokushesha, kuphela kuwe.