Akukho lutho lokukhathazeka ngalo, ngoba ukulangazelela ubulili obuhlukile buhambisana nemvelo ngokwalo, ngakho kubhekwa njengenqubo yemvelo. Futhi ngenkathi ubulili besifazane buzozibuza ukuthi amantombazane abathanda abesilisa, intsha izozibuza ngokuphambene, kodwa umbuzo ofanayo. Kodwa sizobhekana namantombazane kuphela kuze kube manje. Ngakho-ke amantombazane akhangayo abantu?
Umfanekiso
Amantombazane akholelwa ukuthi yilokho okubaluleke kakhulu ekubukeni kwabo. Abesifazane bahlala ezidlweni eziyinkimbinkimbi, bavakashele izikhungo zokuzimela kanye nokuzivocavoca nazo zonke izinto ukuze kube mncane. Futhi amantombazane ahlale emangele lapho umngane wabo, osisindo sakhe siphindwe kathathu ngaphezu kokubeka, ngokuthokoza uyashada nenduna enhle. Ngakho, kuvela ukuthi akuyona isibalo. Cha, akudingeki ukuthi ugijime umzimba wakho, udinga ukuqapha lesi sibalo, akudingeki ukuthi wenze izinkinga eziphelele ezinkimbeni ezincane futhi uthi konke ukunyuka ngokweqile noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, ukuqina ngokweqile. Thanda umzimba wakho futhi akekho ozobona ukwehluleka kwakho.
Ubuso
Kukhona amantombazane athululela izinyembezi emfuleni, ngoba azibheka kabi. Kodwa udinga ukucabanga ukuthi umqondo ubuhle buyini? Emva kwakho konke, umuntu ngamunye umqondo wabo ubuhle? Ukulungisa okufanayo? Nguwo wonke umuntu othanda amantombazane enomusa, amamatheka. Phela, yilokho okwenza intombazane ikhangele. Okusho ukuthi, ukujabulisa umfana, udinga ukushintsha isimo sakho sengqondo emhlabeni. Ngokuqondene nezimonyo ebusweni, singasho ukuthi amadoda ayawabona, hhayi ngenye indlela, njengokuthi "umbala wokulwa", owenqabelayo lapho ekhetha umngane wokuphila. Kalula nje, upende oluncane ebusweni, amathuba amaningi okuthola indoda. Okusho ukuthi, ukwakheka kufanele kube endaweni nesikhathi futhi kungabi khona.
Ukuziphatha
Okubaluleke kakhulu kumantombazane entombazaneni, inhlonipho ngobulili obuhlukile. Lokhu kungukuthi, ungamtsheli ngokusobala ukuthi wonke ama-muzhiks amabi nokuthi akufanelekile phakathi kwabantu besilisa. Ngokufanayo, amadoda awabekezeleli abesifazane abathanda ukuxazulula izinkinga zabo. Owesifazane kufanele abe buthakathaka, kufanele acele umfana ukuthi asize ukuletha izikhwama noma ukuhambisa ikhamera. Indoda kufanele iqiniseke futhi ifanele. Ingaphakathi lomuntu onjalo, okushoyo.
Uma umfana ekhetha intombazane ebuhlotsheni obunzima, emndenini, ufuna umama omuhle womama, umama wabantwana bakhe futhi akunakwenzeka ukuthi isithombe esinjalo sizohambisana nomuntu othumayo ophuza utshwala. Ngakho, udinga ukucabanga. Umfana ngeke akhe ubuhlobo obungathí sina nentombazane ethanda ukuvakashela amaqembu ezokungcebeleka, aphume futhi ahambe ngezindawo zokudlela.
Abafana abathandi:
Awukwazi ukukhombisa ingqondo yakho nobuhle, ukuveza omunye umuntu ngokukhanya okubi. Kubonakala kubi futhi akuthandi umuntu.
Ungathandi lomuntu kanye nesimo sobuso besiphithiphithi. Akudingeki ukuthi ugqoke isisindo sokudangala nokudumazeka. Lokhu ngokucacile akukwenzanga ubuso bomuntu bukhangele.
Amadoda ahlale ezwa ngokusobala, ngoba angabonakala emehlweni yentombazane. Imisindo kumele ibe yindabuko, kuphela lapho ubuhlobo buyojabula futhi bude. Uma umuntu engakuthandi, kulula ukuba akhulume ngaso leso sikhathi futhi aqonde emehlweni akhe kunokuba aziqambe amanga, futhi ekugcineni, utshele le ndoda ukuthi ayifanele.
Ngakho-ke, kunezizathu ezintathu eziyinhloko zokuthi kungani amantombazane enganakiwe yizinkampani ngisho nasenkampani enkulu kunazo zonke - ukungathembeki, ukungalungi, ukuzwakalisa ngokwezinye izinkampani.
Futhi kusukela phezulu, ungakwazi ukugqamisa into esemqoka ukujabulisa indoda, udinga ukusebenzisa ubuncane bokumisa ebusweni bakho, okuncane ukugxila ekuphutheni kwakho futhi ube owesifazane wangempela, obuthakathaka odinga ukwesekwa kwamadoda kanye nosizo.
Ukusesha okuphumelelayo kwesilondolozi sakho sesibili! Noma vumela i-ladle yakho yesibili ikuthole yona!